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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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How can I steal someone's heart? I'm so in love with this girl. I met her at a lecture in a hospital a few months ago. We kinda hit it off right away. She gave me her number and email address and we've been emailing each other ever since. I asked her out once but she politely refused saying that she had a boyfriend. I was so disappointed. Yet last month she told me she just broke up with him. I was so happy that now I had a hope.
A couple of weeks ago she called me late night and we chatted for about an hour. It was a nice conversation. She said that she was very happy to meet me and that we actually kept in touch. She remembered every little detail of the time we met, like things I said to her. She thought I was so funny. She also mentioned about a book that she'd been reading and she wanted to give it to me when we met again. This is the time when I thought she liked me. So I asked her if she wanted to hang out in the park that coming weekend. She said yes, but I had to email her again to confirm.
So a couple days before we were supposed to meet, I emailed her, but she didn't respond until late night the next day when she called me saying that she wouldn't be able to make it. She didn't really have an excuse. She just said she would have a busy day cleaning the house or something. This is the time when I got confused and started to have a doubt if she liked me. But then I tried to tell myself that it could be one of a million reasons that she wasn't able to make it and tried to forget about it.
This afternoon I emailed her again. She hasn't replied yet. Usually it takes her 1-3 days to reply. So this is normal. But I miss her. I want to call her and chat with her but I don't want to seem too desperate or pushy. I like her a lot. I like the way she talks and writes her emails. So real, so honest and so down to earth. I feel so connected with her. Every time I see a girl with long blond hair, I think of her, because that's how she looks. She is so beautiful. Yet I don't know if she likes me or not, or if she just likes me as a friend. And I don't know what she thinks of Asian men like me. All I want is to steal her heart, but I don't know how. All I can do right now is just thinking of her.
madly in love
Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 22:46:53 (PDT)
Lanterna,
Thank you for your words of encouragement, I certainly hope it does too! I have also noticed AM/WF couples more often lately and think how good they look together. At my niece's grad last week I just happened to notice there were at least 4 AM/WF couples and 2 AF/WM's. Funny thing is ALL the W's were blonde.
I totally agree with the rewards outweighing the obstacles in an IR relationship. I remember in the small town I lived in years ago there was a WF married to a Korean (Corean?) man, and I tell you they were the happiest people I knew. Their love for one another was very evident in everything they did together, and they had the most beautiful son. I still remember how they looked at one other and it's not something I see everyday. I guess I'm kinda foolish too.
Cinstinna
Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 21:21:11 (PDT)
Good Day!
I'm a Korean male and I've had several dates with white females along the way. What kind of things or traits attract white females to Asian males?
Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. I'm very curious to know what kinds of thoughts or feelings run through white females.
-Mark
http://members.aol.com/runbeagle/Mark.jpg
Mark in Virginia runbeagle@aol.com
Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 20:48:57 (PDT)
multi-cultural female,
Of course you're welcome here! There's no silly law saying that you have to be 100% white or 100% asian to be here! That would be racist.
Lanterna Magicus,
Don't stop being who you are. I think it's really sweet that you're a hopeless romantic. And I agree with you, any true, long-lasting relationship MUST be based on trust, genuine love and caring. Anything else would be a superficial farce.
My boyfriend actually told me that he had a crush on me for years before he asked me out! And I never had any idea, he never showed it. So when he asked me out, I was both surprised and flattered. The rest is history. :)
I think a lot of WFs date WMs just because that's who they know or hang out with, maybe it never occurred to them to date someone of another race, but that certainly doesn't mean that they aren't open to it. I know plenty of WFs and WMs that date people of other races. Some work, some don't.
curious girl
Wednesday, June 05, 2002 at 11:09:39 (PDT)
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