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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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madly in love,
Women are weird, one minute they act like they're really interested in you and the next they seem cold and distance. My suggestion to you is to stop calling and emailing her. Go out there and get more numbers and email addresses from other women and go out on a date or two. If or when she calls you up again, tell her about your dates. :-) It'll only make her want you more. That way you don't have to seek validation in her. BTW, you're not in love, it's lust.
lordt78
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 06:59:26 (PDT)
Madly in Love,
Regardless of pain or love, do what your heart tells you. Well, I did and I ended up being a wounded rebound guy. But so what? So now I know what happens rather than sitting around thinking what-ifs... Yes, but do be prepared emotionally for rejection. Its always a nasty buggah.
Sam in Montreal
Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 00:19:24 (PDT)
madly in love
dude she is not worth your time. Wake up man, she dont care about you. Dump her. find someone who loves you.
Even if you do date her it wont last. Why have a "not fully committed" girlfriend? Unless you just want to have her as a F*** toy.
SOG
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 22:52:01 (PDT)
Madly in Love.
What's wrong with you dude!.
I am sure she is playing with you. she just wants to make you as a jumping off guy in order to heal her post break- up syndrome, nothing more than that, so , as many guys already suggested, stop e-mailing her then if she don't answer, forget about her!
Pangolin
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 16:37:07 (PDT)
18/AZN Cali,
are you one of those girls who plays by "the rules?" i guest that 18 really means you've got awhile to go before knowing about maturity is about.
villageidiot
Friday, June 07, 2002 at 13:01:57 (PDT)
Mark in Virginia,
I have nooo problem with this topic these days it seems! What attracted me to a certain AM friend is both his unique inner and outer beauty. I can't say if I'm mesmerized more by the way his beautiful eyes glint when he laughs (at my jokes!) or how his full, perfectly-shaped lips purse just so when he's in thought.
I like that he speaks well of and cherishes his family, he listens to me (even when I go off on tangents) and actually remembers what I've said, looks into my eyes and not...elsewhere when he talks to me, makes me laugh, think, and feel so much.
Hmmm, great-looking, intelligent, respectful, thoughtful & attentive, sensitive, and funny. Quite a package, don't you think? Hope this helps. :)
Cinstinna
Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 21:35:08 (PDT)
Madly in love
Dude, don't waste your time. This girl is just playin' with you. Maybe she just want to keep you as a friend. If a girl is really interested in you she would of found a way to take you up on your offer.
move on
Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 19:57:09 (PDT)
madly in love,
One of two things happened:
1)you already seem too desperate
2)she is just using you for attention
I hope it's just (1) and scared her away. Stop calling her and see what happens. If she doesn't write or call back, she's not intersted in you enough for anything to happen anyways.
just a friend
Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 19:29:28 (PDT)
Madly In Love,
It sounds like she likes you. However, you mentioned she recently broke up with her boyfriend. This could mean that they are still going through the "break-up" process. I'm sure this is a frustrating time for her. She could really just want to be alone, she could be going "back and forth" with him. I think the fact that you're around to talk to her when she needs someone to talk to makes her appreciate you. To make a long explanation short, I think if you just stick around and be her friend, especially amidst her recent break-up, she'll put you on her short-list when she's ready to get emotionally involved again.
YorAznBrotha
Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 17:44:50 (PDT)
madly in love,
first off your not madly in love. you cant be so quick. second it looks like shes trying to play you. dont let her make you the rebound guy. if i were you i would ignore her for a while. let her think you got better things to do. shes not responding to you as you like so dont be so desperate. ladies dont like that. if she doesnt come back to you shes never was interested. if thats the case be polite when you see her and just give her small talk dont talk about anything personal. hi and bye thing. dont hold a grudge. you dont want her to see that it affected you. make her think that she was just one of many. hold your head up high, white girls w/ blonde hair are a dime a dozen in this country. theres plenty others to choose from if thats what you want.
18/AZN Cali
Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 16:29:01 (PDT)
madly in love,
Be prepared to dump the girl. My sense is that the girl is on the rebound and she needs to feel "validated" and she turns to you, because she's had a prior connection. But, since the break up, and after you signaled to her your continued interest, she's probably received cues of interest from other males around her and she's feeling better about herself and she's moved on to the next stage in her feelings.
My conclusion: the girl is immature, egocentric, and taking an advantage of your interest in her. The solution: cut her off at the knees now. The situation is going nowhere.
Asian Machiavelli
Thursday, June 06, 2002 at 11:49:31 (PDT)
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