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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%
Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%




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SOG,lordt,villageidiot,Pangolin

You all sound like a bunch of bitter hard hearted men. What happened to you? Why so bitter towards women? You guys are negative.

lordt,
Who are you to give advice on how to treat a woman? You don't even know the basics of being polite with a woman. You fail miserably when it comes to common courtesy and warmth. You should know that by now.
"clouds the mind & sees into your soul"    Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 09:05:22 (PDT)
Madly in confusion,
Sounds like you may have a girl who's not happy with her current bf. Girls like that are (w/all due respect) monkeys....They're hanging on to one branch and won't let go until they get a grasp of another. Get it? A girl like that could go for you with a little convincing. But considering the situation, you are always better off not being infatuated with just her. You'll only be setting yourself up for disappointment. Rather, go ahead and show her that you like her...but at the same time show her that you're a wanted man yourself. In other words...date other women. I'll leave it at that.
YorAznBrotha    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 22:27:28 (PDT)
madly in confusion or love,

"We pursue what retreat from us.ä (or something like that) from the movie ãTao of Steveä.

She IS interested in you, but she wonât give herself to anyone sheâs interested in. Prove yourself worthy and then she will be yours. Worthy men donât wait around the whole day for one girl to call. Worthy men have options. Worthy men have a busy life other than chasing girls. Worthy men offer girls the opportunities to get on the fun rides he has in his life. Worthy men challenge the girlâs worthiness to be with him. Get it?

Good luck!!

Loving Tenor lovingtenor@bigfoot.com    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 19:51:22 (PDT)
Hey Madly in Confusion,

Forget about that girl, pursue a girl with no bf and especially go for one that you can TRUST not one who keeps you guessing like a stupid lunatic and still end up at square one.
Holliday's One & Only Asian Lover    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 18:55:48 (PDT)
madly in confusion

there you go. u just admitted that you don't really know her at all. so tell me, how is it that you're in love?
if you two clicked, you'd obviously communicate more. if she was REALLY interested, she'd definately (and willingly) set aside time for you or else you may feel like youre ranked 99th in place of importance. hey, i know how it feels. i thought i was in love too. i only saw this girl one or two nights every 2 months or so. on those nights wed have the best fun but i realized that in our everyday lives, we hardly knew each other. as much as i tried to persue it further, it was obvious she didn't have the time for me; too busy working, making $$$. (women and money!)
women = hot and cold. listen to lordt78's advice, youll notice how much more she wants you. update: the girl i mentioned does all the calling now. but you know what i tell her..."sorry friend, t'm too busy." she's not worth it
hg    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 14:20:44 (PDT)
"Hey idiot im a male. And yeah im 18 how old are you?"

ever heard of sarcasm? i knew you're an "AZN," but what you've written is most similiar to this book called "the rules" for girls on how to play games. it's like those stupid "speed seduction" books or "casanova" classes, refined forms of mind-games are still mind games and shows a real lack of maturity. basically "the rules" talk about how to manipulate feelings and to play mind-games in order to make the other person think you're desirable and whatnot, real shallow if you ask me.

as for me, i'm 23 and have no desire for such games. it's good to know about it so that when i come across some girl who is a "the rules" girl then i know to run the otherway as fast as possible. the same goes with women, they ought to learn about those "seduction techniques" so that when they recognize them run as fast as their high heels will allow.
villageidiot    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 13:11:35 (PDT)
madly in confusion,
Leave her. Don't waste your time any further. Alot of people like to play games, men and women are guilty of that. You need to focus on your needs sometimes. And what you need is honesty, and consideration. You need someone who is not going to make you feel confused and unhappy. Find someone better. As soon as you allow your heart to let this girl go ... the right one will be right around the corner, trust me on this. Its how it works in life.
friendly advice    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 09:40:58 (PDT)
madly in confusion,

You sound like a really nice, sincere person and I think you deserve a lot better. This girl sounds like she's the one that's confused. You deserve a girl that's straightforward, and is not coming right out of a relationship. Believe me, there are tons of WFs out there that find AMs attractive. Never settle! Good luck.
curious girl    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 08:42:19 (PDT)
Madly in love/confusion,

go out with her, stay the same way you've been. But don't concentrate all your efforts on her. Keep your radar on for other women.

just a friend    Monday, June 10, 2002 at 08:26:57 (PDT)

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