Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%

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Sometimes it's hard to tell when a girl is interested in me. Today, I was riding around on the subway and noticed this attractive blonde, but she didn't seem to notice me. I switched to another line on the subway and when I got on the new train, it was packed, so I was standing near the door and it turned out she was right next to me. As I got on the train, she looked at me in the eyes and smiled. She seemed kind of hesitant and guarded, but was definitely direct with the eye contact and smile. I was kind of surprised because I didn't think she had noticed me at all before. So being the dumbass that I am, I just smiled weakly and looked away. Plus, I was with a friend and the train was packed, so I felt awkward. Ideally, I would have liked to turned directly facing her, locked eyes, give her a big smile in return, and start some small talk. And hopefully get her phone number within a few minutes before I would have had to depart the train. In reality, she just stood in the same place but was facing me (but I was not facing her...but my back was not to her). She grabbed out a book and seemed to be pretending to read it and ignore me. I think I'm good at reading people, so I'm confident about that last statement, but I could be wrong. I did notice she kind of looked up and perhaps looked at me a couple of times. I was kind of put off because she seemed to be trying to act all indifferent, though. It made me wonder if she just wanted attention for validation. Or maybe she was just being defensive because I wasn't responsive to her initial sign of interest, if that's what it was. Is what she did a DEFINITE sign of interest and signal for a guy to approach and chat her up?

So, I'm fairly sure I was just being a schmuck. What do ya'll think? By the way I described her, she wanted me to talk to her, right? Going along this line, how does a guy tell when a girl is interested in him (when they don't know each other) and wants him to go up and talk to her?

AM Superman Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 22:33:32 (PDT)

God, this is so pathetic... Madly in confusion, let me tell you a few things about women.
Rule 1: Never pursue women. Let them pursue you... Just be yourself and if they find you attractive and your personality seductive, they will find ways wanting to know more about you. Trust me... I never ask females any question but I usually get questions regarding myself that they want to know. Women that you pursue will lose taste in you and they may find sympathy in which they will flirt with you once in a while...
Rule 2: Be yourself
Rule 3: If you're going to date, make it ahead of schedule and leave her with option so that she felt she's important in any decision whatsoever. Also, it's not polite to ask a girl suddenly because that could infer as a last resort desperation short of thing
Nonexisted Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 17:52:46 (PDT)

madly -

don't sweat her, man. i dated the same kind of girl (maybe the same one! does she live in berkeley?) who said that she broke up with her boyfriend (of 4 years) but really didn't - obviously, she still had some major dependency issues. this after we'd slept together at least three times.

don't let yourself get played, man. you are not in love. this is called infatuation. and this will go away after you get laid a couple of times.

women are a dime a dozen, asian or not.
iconic Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 14:44:05 (PDT)

Here's a question,

What attracts Asian men to white women? What qualities do you like about us?
curious girl Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 13:08:34 (PDT)

"You all sound like a bunch of bitter hard hearted men. What happened to you? Why so bitter towards women?"

ever heard that the most jaded cynics are the most idealistic romanticists?

and you, sir/madame, i bet is the troll who keeps stealing other people's s/n.
villageidiot Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 10:47:07 (PDT)

hg,

"women and money!"
Hey! Now I like shopping just as much as the next girl, but please know that NOT all women are materialistic and obsessed with money! A lot of us do not judge a guy on how much money he makes, or what car he drives, or presents he buys us.
curious girl Tuesday, June 11, 2002 at 10:41:06 (PDT)

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