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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Blondie,
I agree. Why doesn't Kile just find a hapa, instead of saying he finds White females less attractive. I think it was actually rude to come to a place where he knows many White females are at. And then says how he doesn't find us attractive. That is unecessary.
I would never go for a man who wasn't physically attracted to me. Physical goes along with emotional. One is lame without the other.
Blondie is right
Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 09:25:01 (PDT)
Anyone hear the discussion on Sat. on talkradio 97.1 in SoCal regarding interracial dating and marriage?
Basically the program looked at stats which indicated that AM's are the least likely out of all races to date and especially marry outside of their own race. Does family and 'friends' have so much control over AM's that they cannot make their own long-term decisions in life?
I was dumped at college by an AM for an AF - he couldn't take the gossip and jokes from his 'friends'.
So, before I get myself hurt again by looking at a possible relationship with an AM - tell me, do any of you guys really like us enough to want to get serious and possibly marry, or are we just viewed as white chicks to have fun with and then dump when the pressure is on from 'friends' and family?
Pixie
Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 07:24:05 (PDT)
I am a recovering shybie. I'm 26 and I've been alone most of my life. Being asian was a huge factor in that I always believed I never could get a gf, being an asian. My first gf is a WF and she is wonderful. She loves the way I look and who I am, I couldn't ask for a better partner. Anyways, I grew up believing all the stereotypes and the racism that we asians were pathetic creatures that didn't deserve love, especially not with a white woman. However, after having flirted with plenty a woman of all races, I've found that many american women really do find asian men to be desirable. I've been hit on by so many white girls, I don't know what to think! I am absolutely and totally conviced that I was wrong, and if you are an asian male who's looking for a woman of any race, you shouldn't let your race bring you down. We are good-looking and highly sought-after men, my asian brothers. Keep trying!
locke maison
Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 03:07:24 (PDT)
It is great to see that many people on this site are open minded to people of other race. In every tribe and culture, there is always the story of a flood. In chinese character, the word boat consists of a combination of three characters,i.e. sail, eight, and people. Noah's arc was the first boat man created, and there were eight people on it according to the old testiment. We are all descent of Noah. In essence, we are all brothers and sisters. The world would be a better place if people realize that. No matter what color we are, what nationality we are, we are all created equal. We all have the same mother and father!
Sincerely,
Christian Asian guy
Christian Asian guy
Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 02:02:01 (PDT)
i'm just gonna say whats on my mind.....
if you got something negative to say after reading my post - dont bother replying to me.. because i can careless if you disagree.. on the other hand if you agree great! hit me up a reply :)..
this blond / brunette crap is really getting irritating, because honestly it doesnt matter. plus its kind of messed up.. how would u like it if they said something like "yea.... i only find chinese girls attractive blah blah blah.." i mean.. dam if i was korean.. hearing that would kinda make me feel like "urGGG" its not a cool feeling man......
plus i've met the cutest girl with PiNK hair :P.......but her natural hair color was brunette :D
-who started this arugument anyway.. let me know so i can smack him.-
why don't we talk about something usefull...like why there isnt more AM/WF, AM/LF, AM/BF---relationships?
obviously its cause AMs are shy...but why should we be? what do you have to lose if you get rejected? i mean yeah being rejected sure isnt fun, but hey you can't expect all of them to give you there number.. i mean even if your superfly... theres always someone cuter then you :P. ok.. i dont know if that made sense but this is what i mean... lets say your REALLY fine.. you'll prolly go on macking on every girl and have less fear of rejection.. no?..but why would you only mack when ur that fly? i mean theres always going to be someone finer then you.. so u got nothing to lose...
i come back here and read up on you peoples every few weeks....and leave the site with more confedence.., im glad they have it.. its a one of a kind poll... and it can be a very usefull tool to help u realize being shy dont get u anywhere.. i mean look at the poll percentages biggest numbers on the "dissuades you from IR" are "I don't think they would find me attractive." well i guess the feelings mutual.. so lets do something about it and start macking..
you know what would be fun? :D (pUhaha thinking evily)
how about this lets play a game, yea a game it'll be hot!.....for the single people, lets set a goal of how many rejections we are trying to get in a week. yes rejections not #'s.. why? because its time yall see rejection as a goal.. so we can accept it. its a good way to help those shy ones :D.. start with something small like 2 rejections the first week.. and then 4 the next.. :D
hey you dont have to try it.. but i sure will.. and you know what? i garantee you'll double or even tripple dates/friends/whatever.. law of probability! cuz for every "no u cant have my damn number" theres a "suRE!"
anyway i think im talking to much..
sorry if i sound like a child.. i dont really feel like typing with great grammer..
out
AzN-aKiRa-21 odonandy@aol.com
Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 01:00:18 (PDT)
Dear Proud 2 b Azn,
When I was in university, I met lots of hot Asian girls. Lots of white guys are hitting on them. I figured that if there are hot Asian girls, there must be hot Asian guys. I used to go to a white church and there was a hot blond white girl who really liked me. I mean all the white guys are hitting on her, but she sits across from me and prefers to talk to me when we are out in a group to a restaurant. However, later the pastor started to give me attitudes. He is the type that is against interracial dating in his church. I was the only Asian male there. There were some African-American males there as well, but NONE of them received attitudes like I got. There were some Asian girls there as well. Some white guys hit on them, but it was not a big deal to him. I guess some people are just like that. Not all Christians are hypocrites. I had some real Christian brothers in that church. I treat them like my own brother.
Sincerely,
Single Asian guy.
Single Asian Guy
Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 00:09:14 (PDT)
what a shame.
I confused the word "bald " with "bold"..Geez.
pangolin
Monday, June 24, 2002 at 19:03:54 (PDT)
Proud 2 b Azn,
HAMs, oh my god, that is too funny! That is awesome though. There are tons of WFs that find AMs attractive.
Megan,
Your post was really honest, sincere and humble. What ethnicity is your husband? How long have you been married? I agree with the other post that even though you date or are friends with non-white people, you can still harbor prejudice and hate in your heart. Maybe it's the way that we as white people are brought up. But I am right there with you, trying to eliminate any traces of prejudice or hate from my own heart, and replace them with respect and love.
SOG,
That's cool that you have a great girlfriend that you're so proud of. I myself never thought of my boyfriend as any kind of conquest, and I personally hope he doesn't think of me in that way. I think that he's dating me for me, but maybe the conquest, ego boosting is part of it, who knows? Maybe it doesn't matter.
curious girl
Monday, June 24, 2002 at 15:23:27 (PDT)
Loves WF Blondes,
yours is just the dumbest and most superficial post i've seen here in a long time.
kevin
kevin
Monday, June 24, 2002 at 14:40:25 (PDT)
Asian Guy,
Are you pimping for your brother the dentist? Why would an adult need someone to find him a date. I would never date an Asian man who depended on his brother to find him a date, and if he's a dentist, he must meet women all the time he could go out with.
The REAL Megan
Monday, June 24, 2002 at 14:02:36 (PDT)
SOG,
I admit that when I get a man in my bed who worships me that it does feel like I have successfully conquested him. I don't see anything wrong with it and I enjoy knowing that I'm boosting my Asian boyfriends ego.
The REAL Megan
Monday, June 24, 2002 at 13:58:10 (PDT)
Let's not forget that the problem of mixed or ambiguous signals between AMs and WFs can also be the source of much positive romantic tension. Crystal clarity may be desirable when working out business arrangements but it can short-circuit the building electricity in a romantic situation. Ambiguous and misread gestures after all are the crucial element in any love story, whether it be Jane Austen or Harlequin romances. This makes AM/WF couples potentially some of the most romantic around, in my opinion, particularly today, when people seem to 'hook up' without much hesitation, reflection, or thought. The stories behind AM/WF relationships, on the other hand, often involve elaborate courtship, a long history of miscommunication and tension, and (sometimes) a happy ending...
AM Psychologue
Monday, June 24, 2002 at 13:53:57 (PDT)
Hi A Korean Man =)
I am a white female of Hungarian and Italian background.
prima ballerina
Monday, June 24, 2002 at 11:37:43 (PDT)
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