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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Wednesday, Jan 22, 2025, 06:39:10 AM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%
Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%




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Asian men need to know that a LOT of white women find them VERY attractive and start asking us out.
White girl who loves the company of younger Japanese men    Saturday, July 20, 2002 at 23:42:54 (PDT)
Loving Tenor,
hahahaha, what a cheese fairy tale.
Let me guess you're "Luckyâs lucky guy".
Sorry dude, I don't mean to offend you, but this is the sweetest thing I've heard in a while.
ck    Saturday, July 20, 2002 at 16:37:31 (PDT)
WASPs are much more open than jewish in my opinion
dan    Saturday, July 20, 2002 at 14:57:40 (PDT)
To all those who have expressed an interest in my situation,

I hate to disappoint, but there's nothing to report really. I haven't contacted my sister's best friend, nor has she tried to contact me, as far as I know. I did talk briefly with my sister last week and mentioned how much I enjoyed having dinner with her and her best friend earlier. I also mentioned how impressed I was by S., her friend. I think she understood I was interested without my having to spell it out, and I assume she knows how S. feels about me, so I'm pretty sure she'll pass along the message one way or another.

I'm in no hurry really. If I seem overly cautious, it's because I've been through enough relationships and am at an age where I no longer just jump into relationships with women I feel an immediate attraction to.

I also wanted to respond to Curious Girl's question about which actresses/celebrities we found attractive. The question jumped out at me because S. bears a remarkable resemblance to Melina Kanakaredes, the lead actress of the TV series "Providence," except with a younger, slightly fuller face, and fairer skin and hair. Her hair seemed blonder than from what I remembered--maybe she had blond highlights added?--and it was pulled back into a tight bun, all of which gave her a faint air of the look of Carolyn Bessette, the late wife of the late JFK, Jr., except radiating more warmth. I guess I'd have to say I'm attracted to that look, among others. Large deep-set eyes, intense and expressive, a long, narrow, and slightly aquiline nose, and a thin face with fair skin and hair--these are features very different, almost completely opposite, my own. I think it's too easy to say that opposites attract, I think rather it's the right combination of similarity and difference, of inner similarity and outer difference that most attracts me.

Finally, reading through some earlier posts, I've noticed that a number of guys have used handles similar to 'Asian Brother', so I thought I should change mine, as others have done as well.
Jaelim, formerly 'Asian Brother'    Saturday, July 20, 2002 at 13:08:33 (PDT)
Asian men should definately be proud of who they are. let me give you some reasons to always hold up your head. As far as I am concerned vast majority of Asian American males are cream of the crop.

1. Asian Americans are on the very top of the socioeconomic ladder.

2. Asian Americans by percentage wise hold the most respected jobs. 25% of lawyers with only 3% of population.

Army Joint Cheif of Staff Army (highest possiable rank in army second to bush) ASIAN.

A President of Microsoft ASIAN

In addition there are many more excellent examples.

3. Asian men are loyal,brave and fierce defenders of thier loved ones. Case in point during WW2 asian american fighting unit had the most medals due to honor and bravery from battle.

4. Asian americans are buff, handsome and got it going on. :)

5. Asian men can meet or excel at any competition by men of any other race.
Asian American males are the best,deserve the best and will continually excel to provide a better world for everyone to live in.

As for Loving tenor

That story was moronic. OK just because someone is beautiful doesnt mean their life is messed up. My girlfriend would put all those models and superstars to shame. I'll be willing to be they would start crying looking at how gorgous my girlfriend is. For all those who never read my posts before. She is a beautiful young german-american girl with brown hair and gold streaks. Stunning. I also noticed the women you mentioned frequnted bars and were used as sex toys? listen that shows how much she disrespects her own body. In my opinion the cream of the crop woman are virgins till marriage, they show loyalty as well as moral health by doing that.

Hey man, just because you dont have a beautiful mate, dont slam all the beautiful woman in this world. There is few as it is of them. 1% or less.

Hannybunbun
your son looks just like an asian kid. He looks just like a guy i knew in 6th grade.

SOG    Friday, July 19, 2002 at 22:19:50 (PDT)
Derek2000USA,

Hey, Thanks for coming in with your view on WF/AM relationship. hmmm So I guess your new to this, right? Very interesting comment though.

Hey, did anyone ever tell you that you looks like, the actor Chow Yun Fat? You should try acting, you might make it. Good Luck!!!
Actor    Friday, July 19, 2002 at 16:01:39 (PDT)
Bostonian
Maybe you don't give enough WF a chance? Sometimes we are afraid to show our true feelings to you guys you know.
sobanoodle    Friday, July 19, 2002 at 15:01:09 (PDT)
DoubleD AM
Blue black hair is when the light catches in certain way, the black hair has a tinge of blue. Its more visible when hair is longer.

I'm in a bad way here means that the thought of a certain AM I am interested in sends me crazy. I act like a complete idiot around him. He is very smart, the intellectual type and very handsome. I feel intimidated by his mind - do AM expect females they date to be as intelligent as they are?

sobanoodle    Friday, July 19, 2002 at 14:59:53 (PDT)
To posters,
there are so many I won't take up alot of forum space to type names out individually, but here are the answers you asked. First, Yamile is an old friend of mine and she is Cuban, born in Cuba. I am part Jewish from my mother's side, I am not Jewish as a religion however, Christian, and my father and ALL of his relatives are Dutch, most coming from Freisland and Netherlands, or American born Dutch.
My hair is naturally dark, however through the years I have played with it and kept it blond most of the time... the recent pictures are blond, however due to the addition of Nathan and full time of being a mother made it easier and less expensive to maintain.. and as of a week ago...it is again brown :)
Nathan DOES have his father's cute little mischievious grin!
Thank you for the compliments and for allowing me the honor of sharing my family. And my art is my career as well as something I love.
hannybunbun    Friday, July 19, 2002 at 14:53:48 (PDT)
I met this half Italian girl "L" in a great big town down in Texas where i took my first job after college. She was beautiful not only on the outside but truely a wonderful people on the inside. She had a remarkable heart. We talked about our hopes and dreams our likes and dislikes. It was revealed to me that she had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years. She seems sad at time. So, I did my best in making her laugh. And somehow this also made me much more comfortable with her. She went back to school for senior year in college at the end of August. We went to lunch a few times, but no real dates. I, little bit heart broken, little lonely decided to move back closer to home. I still think about her from time to time, and I miss talking to her. Happy B-day "L". I thought i share a little after reading so much of your posts without contribution from me. Great board, keep up the good work.
Asian Biker    Friday, July 19, 2002 at 14:39:06 (PDT)

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