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Ok, this is my final post about the gym guy. Yeah, he really got into my head, for some reason. I've never felt like that about anyone before, where I admired them for so long. Anyhow, we ran into each other again over the weekend, and we chatted for awhile. First of all, we exchanged numbers (he didn't call me like he said he would). And then he started bragging about his car, motorcycle, hot tub, places he's been, you name it. I'm not sure what kind of women he's used to dating, but they must actually be impressed by his things and his money. We have entirely different priorities. Then, he said how he has different groups of friends, "I have my WHITE friends, my BLACK friends and my ITALIAN friends. What about you?" I replied, "I just have my friends." I thought that was weird. I'm not going to talk to him any more. It's apparent I'm not his type, he's not mine, and there's nothing anyone can do about that. At any rate, I now realize that it was a mistake to introduce myself in the first place. If a guy really wants to meet someone, he'll take care of it. From now on, I'll let them come to me. This is my last post using this name, so if someone tries using it, it's not me.
size 2 wf out
Monday, August 05, 2002 at 06:34:24 (PDT)
AMs, what is your 'type' of WM? Beach blondes with huge titties? Sensuous brunettes with slender bodies? My IDEAL WF would have to be Virginie Ledoyen. She was in "The Beach" with Leo DiCaprio. Et aussi, elle est Francaise!! Bravo!
Follow the link.
http://www.atpictures.com/display.php?cat=actress&path=/virginie&loc=serv4h&img=virginie4.jpg
Well, there are better pictures of her, but she looked cute in this pseudo-cheung-sam get-up. Man, is she cute or what?
Virginie can sleep in my bed any day
Monday, August 05, 2002 at 02:52:03 (PDT)
Hey all,
When I first found Goldsea, I wrote a story under" True Stories" because I had just had the baby, and we were living with the in-laws, and my MIL was pretty uncaring toward me, to put it politely. I was interesting in learning more about Asian culture and about finding other peoples experiences being in an inter-cultural relationship.
Goldsea popped up in my search while browsing on our computer.
It is funny how little things in life can add up! When I posted that story, it included my then email address. I did not know it would be published. To my surprise, I received emails from many people, ranging from sympathetic, to giving me advice on the situations. I got some e-pals out of this without even trying to and knowing I would!
One forum poster here, who had a very similar situation, she is a white female also married to an Asian male, and with a unfavorable MIL situation.
We started writing long emails to each other over the months. It seemed that this lady adn her husband were moving 4 hours away from us, and so this weekend we met them in person after many months of communicating, as they drove up for the weekend to visit us.
It was so exciting to meet people that we shared our personal stories with, our funny jokes and sometimes our heartbreaking incidents. It was so much fun, we went to Dim Sum, shopped together and ended the day perched on the couch, the baby being his charming entertaining self, and looking through each others photo albums and exchanging stories of how we met our significant others:)
Thank You Goldsea for bringing people together. :)
Hannybunbun
Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 18:29:32 (PDT)
[We're always grateful for your stories and very gratified to learn of such meaningful connections! --Ed]
jared,
haha... maybe you're right. But what do you expect me to do? I was with someone everytime I ran into these white girls. When I was in the elevator, I was with a good friend of mine who was visiting from out of the country. Didn't feel like approaching her. I will def approach the next WF who shows interest.
Wfs are cute.... still
Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 14:43:39 (PDT)
size 2 wf,
Jeez, he really does have ur cute little panties in a knot, doesn't he? It must be frustrating, and I can relate. You're in the typical position of a guy, who usually does the chasing. So I'll make an exception for you though you're a girl, and dispense some guy-advice to you.
This is it:
Wait. There is nothing more you can do, since you are the one that showed interest. If he is interested, he will talk to you about it. And if he does talk to you the next time he comes to the gym, be a lil' more aggressive, don't let another chance go.
In the event that he isn't interested,
he will take two paths of action:
1) Give you an ambiguous answer ("maybe next week"). In this case, I would just counter with, "Listen, you should just tell me if you don't find me cute. I don't like it when people waste my time," with a smile. You should get a straight answer by that time.
2) Avoid you altogether in the gym. Then you either have to pity him for being such a pussy and leave his coward ass alone, or go and talk to him.
Personally though, in this case I feel that you MUST press him to know for sure if he is interested or not. If he is a MAN and a gentleman, he will gently brush you off, while making sure he won't hurt your feelings. You must respect and appreciate it if he does that. I know I do when women graciously blow me off w/o being a complete bitch or a pussy (forgive the pun). Then you must move on. That is the way of the universe. It can't possibly be personal, because he doesn't know you. That is what people seem to forget in their fear of approaching people -- if they don't like you, it's b/c they're having a bad day, have a mate, or you just aren't their type. It doesn't mean that they think you're mean, boring, dorky, or a slut. They can't possibly know that about you, since you're strangers.
Good luck.
The Dating Game
Saturday, August 03, 2002 at 22:13:16 (PDT)
Reese Witherspoon is about as cute as they get. I wish more WFs like this roamed the Earth.
ga-ga for Reese
Saturday, August 03, 2002 at 02:13:26 (PDT)
wfs are cute:
those white girls sure are polite and have manners :)
dan
Friday, August 02, 2002 at 22:37:56 (PDT)
WFs are cute...,
you're over-examining it. stuff like that is practically meaningless.
you need to get out more. and next time be a little more courageous
jared
Friday, August 02, 2002 at 21:40:50 (PDT)
ET,
So, you wanna battle? OK, "ET, I choose you!" "Go, ET!"
Loving Tenor, trainer wanna be
Friday, August 02, 2002 at 21:12:54 (PDT)
size 2 wf,
"We pursuit what retreats from us." Don't fall into your own little mind game. Just ask any friend of yours and show her/him what you wrote here.
Best wishes to you, gal. Sounds like you need a lots of help, LOL.
Loving Tenor
Friday, August 02, 2002 at 21:08:30 (PDT)
size 2 wf,
I really don't feel like this guy worths any of your more time. Sincerity is the most important key element in any relationship.
Loving Tenor
Friday, August 02, 2002 at 20:55:39 (PDT)
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