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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:29:02 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%
Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%


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iconic, i think it's very rude of you to ask bali-boy so many personal questions like that. why don't you email him privately if you want to know and besides, why should he share with you. who are you? see what i mean.
wf    Friday, August 09, 2002 at 09:38:59 (PDT)
is this woman from australia for real? she goes through an every day experience and she's here saying because of bali she's now under therapy! get real. i'm sure the men in bali treat american women nicer because we carry ourselves in a respectful way. i've had one trip to that beautiful place and had no problems. i did see a table full of drunk aussie women making a spectacle of themselves, so i think that if you place yourself into certain situations, you're asking for trouble. act like a lady and you will be treated like one. don't blame the men, blame yourself!
wf    Friday, August 09, 2002 at 09:36:33 (PDT)
ck!

How immature are you! I am appalled at such a thing to say! Who said I went g to Bali to get laid? I happen to go on many vacations in the summertime thankyou. Vacations happen to be a time for relaxing and putting my mind at ease. It is also a big part of my therapy. It sounds as though 'sex' must be in your head most of the time. Maybe that is something you are constantly thinking of. I for one have more important things to focus on in life. I did NOT go to Bali for SEX! You are being a typical man who only thinks of sex all the time. You are quite absurd.
What kind of a fool are you? Its Asian men like you that leave a sour taste in the mouth of Australia.
quite shameful!    Friday, August 09, 2002 at 09:32:15 (PDT)
why am I not surprised:
"Dare I ask you if you'd make such generalizations about black guys? Are they angry, gang-bangin' mysoginist gorillas with huge dicks?"

How absolutely disgusting. Is this your ways of thinking perhaps? What if I were to speak about some things about asian men who have buck toothed smiles and severly slanted eyes, choppy english, and bowing their heads like "yessir yessir yessir" How disgusting! Stop thinking with your mind stuck in the gutter. I do strongly feel that it was wrong of Size 2 wf, and a couple of other females on here to judge all asian men based on some bad things that happened to them. It is wrong to say that all asian men are bad. There are some very wonderful men in this world. Judging them based on their racial background is very wrong. Why not judge people as individuals instead? It makes more sense. I have only been to this site a couple of times due to schoolwork and my job. But I love seeing encouraging things written about AM & WFs. More positive imput is needed and less negative imput!
positive words are much better!!!!!!    Friday, August 09, 2002 at 07:20:46 (PDT)
Christian Guy,

Arrogant people come in every color, shape, and size. sure there are some asian guys that are really arrogant, but there are a lot who aren't. And I feel that many people in this forum jump into conclusions without even getting to know other people that well (e.g size 2 wf who hasn't had a deep conversation w/ the guy at the gym and already assumes that the guy is an asshole).

ck    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 22:54:42 (PDT)
SunShineRedd, south dacota, wf, or WHATEVER...,

Leave ojanimal (Iconic) alone, you are going way overboard. Don't you have anything better to do???
Christian Guy    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 22:17:43 (PDT)
SUNSHINE REDD
You're an airhead, go pick your freckles.

lordt78
Stop molesting all the new women pollsters, you're pathetic.

Why are you guys apologizing for something you haven't done?
ck Wednesday, August 07, 2002 at 14:05:17 (PDT) etic boy.
Yeah, right? These guys are so corny.
I've sinned!    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 18:56:38 (PDT)
Christian Guy:

<<"I think that Asian men can be a bit arrogent on the outside in the beginning of the relationship because they want to prove that they are just as good as any white guy. Asian men are generally looked down upon by white people even though we have better education, better professions, better financial status, etc. Asian men know what other white people are thinking about them. Therefore, it is only natural for us to show that we are just as good as any white guy. For example, for those who have not read my earlier posts, I am a highly educated health professional.">>

Yes Asians can be a bit arrogrant. You just showcased that in the quote above! Maybe I misinterpreted your post; but from what I make of it, you are one arrogrant Asian dude!
MikeM    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 17:38:41 (PDT)
am:

Get off size 2 f's back! Many of the posters did ask her to keep them updated on the story, and she did. Don't criticize her if what she said about one Asian dude made you feel insecure about the "Asain" image. That wasn't badmouthing--it was an explanation of why she was turned off by his attitude.
MikeM    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 17:27:35 (PDT)
Hey everyone,

Leave the white lady from Bali alone. She obviously met one of those "gigolos" and got swindled. Maybe she really did fall in love with this guy and was hurt. I can understand that. Hopefully she'll learn to think rationally about Asian men after her anger has subsided.

Just for the record, women are no better. I've met women in Holland, Argentina, China, Philippines and Brazil that were no better than these Balinese guys. They technically weren't prostitutes, but were not different. It's a matter of survival, I suppose. It is rather sad though, I must admit.
Let time heal it.    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 17:13:20 (PDT)
Christian Guy,
Yes, you might be right. There are probably some people here who is trying to split up the relationship between WF and AM. Just ignore them, they are just sissy who can't show their true identity but instead only hide in shadow. Kinda like AL QUEDA and OSAMA BIN LADEN but never did they succeed. lol
What AM and WF have together are wonderful, special, sacret and no one can break it. So I say to them, "KEEP TRYING". Those people who try to attack "US" [yes I say us because WF here on this forum are like our sister, family; together we are brothers and sister, boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, and best friend] are just jealous. We are a strong bond and it'll take a lot to break this bond. So again I say to those "Keep trying".
Azn-Pride    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 14:59:49 (PDT)
Hey guys, thanks for answering my question. Even though I was expecting a female's answer. Anyway, I wonder if there are more WF or AM on this forum. Anybody here ever thought about this? Sometimes I wish Goldsea can tell how many member visit this site and number of males and females.

SHOUT OUT!!

ironic,
Welcome back ironic!! So what's up man, how you doing? Long time no see!! lol
Christian Guy, [Welcome back]
What's up, How's life dude? And thanks for sharing with us your wonderful story. Very nice!!

Glad both of you can join us. Much appreciation!!
Azn-Pride    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 14:35:05 (PDT)
ck, am
you know what they say about nice guys, we end up picking up the pieces.
i think size 2 has a few loose screws though. the guy didnt live up to HER fantasy.

miss i go to bali to buy love,
again, its sad what happened, but i have no sympathy for you. yes, you are attracting the wrong men. why? i dont know. but if you dont grow and learn, then i cant help but think you're stupid for making the same mistakes. im glad you decided to undergo therapy.

maybe AM's arrogance is a defense mechanism, from growing up feeling out of place. ive been looked down upon being asian. but all i know is, you act like a bitch, ill treat you like a bitch, even if you are the blonde hair blue eyed gem you think you are.
jared    Thursday, August 08, 2002 at 13:09:19 (PDT)

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