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Can anyone relate to this?
The past few years that I've been dating my boyfriend, I/we never or at least rarely think about the fact that we're of different races. Sure I've learned a lot about his culture, gotten used to some of the differences, met a lot more Asian people, but overall we've just been concentrating on "us" and being happy together. I've been coming to this website for a few months now because I find it interesting, but sometimes I just get sick of the whole labeling thing, like I am a WF who is dating an AM, not I'm Ms X dating Mr Y. I just want "us" to be "us" and not represent anything. I'm also tired of the hostility from some on other forums towards interracial dating and whites (not all, just some). I am all for being positive and supportive of all of you, sorry for being so negative this time!
curious girl
Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 09:50:54 (PDT)
Dr.Justice MD aka Ionic
obvious
Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 09:05:20 (PDT)
Hey y'all.
Well, before I start, I want to throw out a disclaimer to people who object to pornography. I happen to think that it can do wonders for a couple's sex-life. My white g/f and I use it regularly. So it Porn offends ya, just skip this post. Thanks.
My girl and I were always kinda miffed about the lack of Asian male/non-AF porn in the market. Whenver we go to the video store, the only interracial sex flicks are the ones with white girls and black dudes. They don't do much for us. So we ususally end up watching a bunch of white people f***. =(
Then while surfing the net we found a site that actually features Asian men with non-Asian women. If you ladies (and guys) like a little visual stimulation, then this site is for you. I've alredy joined, and look at the contents with my girl often. It's hot stuff. I'm not sure what the website's policy is regarding listing other URLs, so if the Ed doesn't object to this, I'll post the URL in my next post.
Oh, and another website is the official fanpage of Linda Thoren, who is a Swedish Pornstar. Apparently, she does a lot of photo/movie shoots in Japan. I haven't seen her Asian videos yet though. Check out her personal website by doing a search of her name on Yahoo!. The free section has an article about her work in Japan.
Asian Horndog with a hornier white g/f.
Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 02:03:39 (PDT)
[Yeah uh, listen, horndog, appreciate the thought but we'd rather not become porn central. People know how to use Google if they want to look up that kinda stuff. --Ed]
EVERYONE,
It seems that the last few weeks of posts have been occasionally about: someone sour on Balinese men, Asian-male arrogance, cross-gender/cross-racial bashing, and many other personal rivalries that have developed.
Asian guys, please do not waste your time bashing each other or anyone else, no matter how idiotic the other person sounds, it only links you to a tiresome and unflattering pigeon-hole of senseless ranting with another person. - Which by the way is well documented on the internet by this wonderful forum for anyone and everyone to see. It only serves to make you and possibly asian males as a whole seem petty and childish. And I know you all don't want that.
Caucasian Females that hate Asian men, or who are "thinking of never dating Asian men again", Ok, why are you mentioning this on this forum? Do you think this will all-of-a-sudden spread through the Asian-collective like a BeeHive and we'll say "Oh, we are so sorry for treating you BAD." This presumes we are all like the A**holes you've met. If you really think that Asian men are a lost cause, then pick yourself up and go for what you think is right for you. Asian males aren't a collective bargaining organization that is concerned with losing "members". Love us, Hate us, but with no more or less contempt than any other type of man. If any individual has hurt you, take it up with that person, but don't make strangers pay for it, the rest of your life. Life is too short to be racist and to "campaign" against Asian males and the women who seek relationships with Asian males. That is what you are doing when you post on a place like this about "How [you] hate Asian men now".
As Far as the subject of Asian male arrogance, I think it's a ridiculous subject entirely. This isn't something that anyone should be proud of being. And this isn't something that should be excused. When either of the two happens, it only perpetuates hate. This is why I am perplexed by the few Asian guys who accept this as a badge of honor. We are not better than anyone else at doing things. But we are no worse. We are just different in some ways, sometimes. And by our appearance and from our Ancestry, we will always be different from others.
Love us for our individual uniqueness, love our culture as a group, if you will. But don't ever love us or hate us as a group for some intangible personal attribute that can be traced to all of humankind. I thank you all who have read this. And I hope the we can get back to the point of discussing relationships.
Something encouraging, helpful, and enlightening would be nice.
Steven (Formerly: Empyrean20@aol.com) Empy23@msn.com
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 23:44:18 (PDT)
A lot of WF's are attracted to AM's. They prefer to date AM's. If you do not believe me, just look at Asian dating sites on the internet. There are many beautiful hot WF's looking specifically for AM's. AM's need to have more confidence in themselves.
Big Brother
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 23:33:05 (PDT)
guy who can't read women too well,
Up to you to act upon things like that, maybe some women would be open to exchanging phone numbers where they withdraw their money and in a country not of their origin, but who knows. But I do think you are reading too much into things. Why not just be helpful and answer people's questions. Do you think everytime a woman says anything to guy, it's an invite to a date? She might have asked the same thing if it was anyone there, no offense to you. As far as, if "they" [Australian Women] are intereseted in Asian guys, I'm beginning to think from places like this forum, that Women in the world are just as likely anywhere to be interested in Asian guys. But a word to the wise, try not to play up on the physicality of people, including yourself. Try talking more about what's inside.
Steven (Formerly: Empyrean20@aol.com_ Empy23@msn.com
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 22:59:38 (PDT)
Hi All!
I'm new to this site and I thought I'd introduce myself. I suppose I'll post myself as Max. I just graduated with a double major in marketing and advertising management. I live in Portland, OR. I'm Chinese-American 5'11", medium build. I've lived in American my whole life, however I do speak Mandarin fluently and have a good balance between my Chinese and American cultures. I'm not a banana, nor a FOB. I'm what's in the middle. Too bad there isn't a popular term for people like us yet.
I'm bigtime film buff. I'm also an actor and practice martial arts. I do modeling occaissionally. I'm into every kind of music you can think of, from all parts of the world.
As far as dating goes, I've dated girls from all over the world from Asian girls,and American white girls to European girls, Middle Eastern Girls, and Hispanic Girls. I think one of the only type of girls I haven't dated yet would have to be African and Indian. Not because of preference, but lack of contact. I look forward to exchanging opinions and, or pics with all of you.
Latez
Max
orgazmo83@hotmail.com
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 17:09:10 (PDT)
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