Asian Male/White Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:28:55 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to White females?
Their facial features | 61%
Their physique | 22%
Their attitude and personality | 14%
Their education & cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with White females?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 15%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 73%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a White female, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 73%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 17%

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I need help!!
I have a situation here thatās actually very lame. There is a woman(wf) I liked and still like a lot, she was my first date and the only women Iāve ever dated. Iāve known her since the 1st grade cause we went to the same elementary school however we rarely spoke to each other except that we went to each otherās birthday parties and that was about it. After ES, we went to separate HS where we never saw each other until my final year in HS when I asked her to my matriculation dance because I had no one to go with. When I called her (after searching vigorously for people who had her number) she was so surprised and in fact remembered me after so many years. I found out from some friends that she just broke up with her boyfriend at the time so it was perfect since my prom was 1 week away from the day I called her(**keep in mind-her prom was 2 weeks after mine**). She said yes and I asked her if she would be interested in coming to the after party, she declined so I thought it was no big deal. I also heard from a friend(at another HS) that he saw her at their after party so I was puzzled why she didnāt want to attend mine, also this was like her 5th or 6th invitation that year because she was such an attractive 6f natural blonde, green eyes, buttermilk skin and long legs that reached up to my belly(j/k)

From here on everything just went to hell. I wonāt go into much detail just that everything I planned went wrong and wasnāt what I expected. We were late&barely made it for the couple photo shoot.
I was extremely angry with some people that caused our lateness and major annoyances -she on the other hand was a perfect lady and didnāt seem to be affected. We were in such a rush I wasnāt ready for the photoshoot and I came out in the pic so horribly. I was so pissed off for that entire evening my behavior Altered completely. I neglected my date so much including
*not listening when she initiated conversation cuz I didnāt spoke the whole time.
*ignored getting my jacket when she nudged against me saying she was cold.
*forcing her to dance
*ignoring her most of the time

Yeah I know, looking back I want to shove my head into a horses ass. Iām inexperiecned&have never dated anyone before. I phoned a week later to thank her for coming with me only after my persistent friends convinced me to call b/c I was so embarrassed. She was excited that I called (even after 1 week) and thanked me for the gift I gave her that evening-a rare animal candle. Note-I gave her a similar candle for her birthday in the 1st grade and not only did she remembered but she still has that candle after 12 years! We spoke abit about a possible ES reunion, I gave her my number and she ended the call by saying ćcall me if we have eve have that reunionä Iām perplexed if she really wanted me to call her or if it was just an nice way of saying goodbye-women language? She has my number and didnāt invited me to her dance the week after&from then on I assumed it was a passive rejection?

That was 3 years ago, Iām now in 3rd year college(canāt believe Iāve made it so far), there hasnāt been a day that goes by that I donāt think about her, Iām going nuts! Iām surrounded by beautiful women at college all day but have no attraction to them at all! Not 1! I havenāt given her our photo shoot till this day out of fear and embarrassment& I woundnāt give it either cuz the photo was horrible. It seems like a lose-lose situation, I want to get rejected from her in person so I can finally have closure but it would be too awkward to see her again knowinging that I didnāt give her a copy and she would probably want to know why. There is still a part of me that still thinks I have a chance w/ her but Iām giving myself false hope, she could even be married now or moved away- Iām suffering from low self esteem and extreme remorse for the way I treated her. If there is anyone who wants to put me down, donāt bother, Iām already worse as it is. Does anyone have some optimistic comment/suggestions?
Jon Jon rookie_decoy@hotmail.com Sunday, August 25, 2002 at 01:48:44 (PDT)

When a beautiful women is in IR with a men, wheather he be AM/BM/WM/LM, people do question themself why is she with him. So it is why I asked,
For the WF on this board that are in IR with AM. What makes you attracted to AM. It's it fetish, sex, looks, atitude, personality, culture or what?
Hidden Identity Friday, August 23, 2002 at 13:54:22 (PDT)

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