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ASIAN MALE/ WHITE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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SourOranges,
My name is not Jake. I don't have an English name,and furthermore I don't care to elaborate since after all, this is an anonymous forum.
Be A Man
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 13:31:53 (PST)
[128.253.186.46]
Girls want drama
yeah yeah they can deny all they want. But they want adventure just like any man would. So we'll give it to them.
SOG
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 12:18:35 (PST)
[128.193.4.98]
Be A Man, it is quite obvious that you have yet to date a mature woman. Let me dispel some of your ridiculous notions about what we women want:
1)Yes it's nice to have a man to depend on when the going gets rough.
But it's much better to have yourself to rely on. I get through my tough times myself, with support and guidance from my man.
2) Drama- Maybe some women want this. I do not. I prefer a calm and stable relationship, as I'm sure other mature women do. And I take great offense at being called illogical. My reasoning capabilities are as good as, if not better than, any man's.
You have much to learn. Good luck.
Bella
Monday, November 11, 2002 at 11:55:57 (PST)
[207.183.117.60]
Oh yeah... women want two more things (other than a man who she can look upto and depend on when the going gets tough).
They want:
1) PASSION. This is like Days of Our Lives, except its in real life. If men could deliver passion to women everyday, no one would be selling any movies or romance novels. Woman want a guy with drive and vigor. That is a subconscious signal of virility.
2) DRAMA. Women are usually quite illogical. Men think in a linear fashion: if everything is fine and you don't argue and get along famously, why create drama, right? WRONG. Or at least that's what women think. To women, that is what DRAMA is for. Women CRAVE it. It makes them feel alive. Women want to FEEL, FEEL, FEEL things. Even if the feelings are painful or disturbing. Strange creatures, they are... Of course, as women matures, the drama component of a relationship become much less important. but not when they're younger, i.e. before age 30.
This is what I've gathered after dating women from ages 18-27 or so. I've yet to seriously date a mature woman, but I would like to. I'm a little jaded with the 20-somethings dating scene these days.
Be A Man
Sunday, November 10, 2002 at 00:53:23 (PST)
[128.253.186.46]
Hey be a man,
Is your name Jake?
Sour Oranges
Saturday, November 09, 2002 at 03:46:02 (PST)
[209.150.233.202]
Be A Man, people *are* ready to think for themselves. It's just that they don't want to have your hyperactive-ass in their face all the time. Try acting like a normal person and maybe people won't assume that you're just a spaz.
BOOYA.
Elitist
Friday, November 08, 2002 at 23:21:06 (PST)
[172.167.16.100]
mile high asian guy, just wanted to give you a "thanx" for your post...its one of the rare positive comments thats been posted for a hwile..its those kinds of things that are the reasons for me to post on this website..to learn more about interracial dating and stuff like that..i dont know, you really encouraged me for some reason...i didnt even realize the enormity of what i leanred utnil you mentioned it...just wnated to say thanx
i would like to ask the board about their experiences with interracial dating, their thoughts on it, what happened, and how others felt about it..i think that would be interesting for the board to read..thanx yall
Awkward Student
Friday, November 08, 2002 at 22:52:30 (PST)
[24.205.64.102]
Be A Man,
Having a passion in life doesn't mean you have to make other people's life wrong. We are different. Respect others' difference as you would expect others to respect yours. The brightest light of the fire that has ever burnt is the one that brings the people who surrounds it brightness not darkness, warmness not coldness.
Neo
Friday, November 08, 2002 at 19:49:14 (PST)
[172.148.80.202]
Lotus,
Yes, I do come on strong sometimes. I am a passionate person, and I do everything in my life with vigor. My lovemaking, my kissing, my work, everything. I want to stand out, I want to burn bright, I want to think outside the box. This sometimes scares people, causing them to lash back. They aren't ready to think for themselves (sorry for the cheesy analogy, but can any say "THE MATRIX"?). But to hell with that, I say. I think it's better to burn out bright than to flicker away for a lifetime. Who knows - maybe I will mellow out as I age. But right now, I live life the way I see it fit. Good luck with yours.
Be A Man
Friday, November 08, 2002 at 02:42:40 (PST)
[128.253.186.46]
Be A Man,
I don't want to offend you by this so don't take it that way. I just want to ask you that if people want to be virgins until they are married, isn't it their choice? Some people I know keep saying how they regret it and wished they had waited. I have no regrets and I am thankful for that... but you can't tell people it's just "sex". Maybe for you it is like that but for others it's a different story, regardless or not of society standards. It seems to me that Awkward Student's original post was just asking about how to treat her on his day out with her... and he mentioned he was young. In time his ideals might change, but why do you come on so strong against everyone here? Are you bitter about something? I am just curious after reading your posts...
Lotus ^.^
Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 15:15:03 (PST)
[216.221.32.162]
Be a man
no he does things becuase THAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
You can think what you want but dont justify it by making what is not right into what is right.
After all this is America, do whatever you want, no one is stoppin ya. Just dont bash other people who are trying to do the right thing.
SOG
Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 13:36:50 (PST)
[128.193.5.190]
"y dont you continue to have meaningless nookies with girls, while i'll actually have meaningful monogamous relationships!"
- Done. Like I said, don't you worry about me, choir boy. And I hope your future wife is willing to work with you to improve your non-existant sexual skills once she beds you. Besides, who's to say she'll be a virgin anyway? You won't find too many hot virgins these days. It's always the really, RIDICULOUSLY prudish ones ("Eewwww.... you KISSED me!!!" *looks up to the sky* "Forgive me Lord, for I have sinned..."), the ugly ones (let's face it - ugly men and women find it difficult to get laid without compromising their standards), and religious zealots. I'd settle for beautiful and intelligent. You should take the time to catch up with us in the 21st Century, while you're in the 18th Century. Your talk about 'being a virgin til marriage' and all that stuff really does tell me that you have no experience. Like they say, it isn't a space shuttle launch, it's just SEX. Once you lose your virginity to your special wife, you'll find it won't be so great. The first time ALWAYS sucks. Even with the one you love. What rubs me the wrong way about you is that you do things because society tells you that its the right thing to do.
Be A Man
Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 13:59:14 (PST)
[128.253.186.46]
I haven't posted here in a long time but I've been keeping up on the daily postings and this is my two cents on Awkward Student's experience.
From the beginning you could tell that he was young and relatively inexperinced to the dating scene. I kept telling myself "if I only knew then what I know now" what a difference it would make. But you've got to learn through experience. He concluded his post with "I learned that going with a white girl really was boiled down to going with a girl." I think it's great that he came to this realization. Don't forget it.
The biggest blockade in inter-racial dating is "acceptance" by both parties. Not just of the person themselves but of their family, friends, and society. If people would set those aside and just give the relationship a chance they just might be surprised. Sure, problems are going to exist. Sure, they're problems that most other couples don't have to consider. But if it's a relationship you want you will learn to resolve those problems.
I agree, this is easier said than done. But don't stop things before they start. Give it a chance. Of course, if you're not looking for a relationship then we're talking about an entirely different subject :)
Mile High Asian Guy
Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 11:59:32 (PST)
[64.12.96.237]
guys guys guys
1.) be nice to the white girls on this site, we like them! remember that.
2.) be nice to your fellow asian brothers. OK, cut the cussing or the bashing, we dont need any of that.
If you got nothing nice to say. Say nothing at all.
Awkward student
hey bud, I like the fact you are loyal to your future wife. That's an admirable trait.
love doc
I dont know man, I question your tactics. Good for blitz and for picking up girls for one night stand but for long term relatinships games just dont hold water.
SOG
Monday, November 04, 2002 at 22:52:19 (PST)
[216.239.163.217]
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