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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
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I totally understand what you are saying. I get so frustrated myself when i see these beatuful girls with such losers or dogs. I believe it is due to lack of education and also with culture. I am sure you already know all this. These girls become so isolated within their own cities, that going outside of their dating boundries is just as challenging. You're right though, they believe that this is all there is to see and feel. Which is so sad to me. That is why every chance i get, i try to learn more and experience various things in my life. The more I learn, the more i can expose other UNAWARE latinas, to things such as cookery beyond chain restaurants, outings besides clubbing, sophisticated fashion and the joys of asian men. hehehehe especially the last one.
Wednesday, December 18, 2002 at 15:45:38 (PST)
I am a asian guy who grew up in the states and I dated more white girls than any other race ( even more than asians). I always thought hispanic girls were sexy, beautiful but was always intimidated by there beauty even if i thought they were attracted to me.
Friday, December 13, 2002 at 19:54:49 (PST)
i totally agree with you. there's nothing wrong with high expectations. with realationships, you want them to be as vivid as they can be.
this leads me to a question. i don't mean to stereotype/generalize hispanic culture, but is there a general cynical mentatlity to relationships? for example, are little girls raised to believe that all their men are to some degree liars, cheats, dogs, etc... i know a couple of latin women, (including the one i spoke of in my previous post) who are convinced they must do whatever it takes to keep their men, including lying and playing games. if she has to lie to him to keep him happy, and vice versa, so be it. (it's part of love?) i understand now why she won't leave him, because she truly believes this is the best there is. i find it sad, because i was raised to believe there is a certain beauty to love. not all people are 'evil', so why settle for less? i guess it works for some people.
is there any truth to this? i understand it all depends on where and how you're raised (i'm from NYC). i suppose if you're were raised around dogs, dogs are all you know.
Friday, December 13, 2002 at 10:17:59 (PST)
I was wondering if there's any Latinas in the MD/DC/VA area? 26 Asian male here.
Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 17:16:42 (PST)
I was born in south America, with Italian, Spanish, guarani (indigenous from south of America) blood. I am Caucasian, green eyes, brown hair.
Here in North America I am a Latina; In south America I am a mestiza. And yes, I am fascinated by Asian man since I was a little girl.
Thursday, December 12, 2002 at 10:54:20 (PST)
To Chow-mein boy:
I finding out myself just how much this whole dating thing "sucks." No other way to put it. I do have high expectations, but see nothing wrong with that. If my heart makes me change my ways then so be it. I think you should experience all that you need, but the catch is.....to be honest. If you are honest, then the sparatic light hearted relationships between you and any other women will be well understood between one another. The only thing that i can warn you about is latino families. I find that almost all the men are very protective over the females in their family. I dont care how old/young and beautiful/ugly she may be. If she is close with her family, she will tell them what is going on in here life. I know it is none of there business, but i dont want you to get cussed out or chased down. hahahaha But then again i am sure you can handle it. How old are you by the way?
Ohh yeah if anyone else remembers me.....my boyfriend and I finally broke up. I have dated several people and it has been interesting. An interesting game you could say. But i think i finally found an asian(korean) guy who shares my humor, perverse and old-fashioned views on life, confidence and love of basketball. Wish me luck.
Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 11:54:54 (PST)
You know, I live in the dating capital of the world. Through my profession, I have seen that no one is faithful, not even those with the ring on their finger and with a spouse and kids at home. Not even those ladies who look like innocent angels.
At this point, I am not looking for a wife. I just want to have fun and explore. Maybe down the line, I might think about it again. But, I have seen enough and a lot to be afraid.
The way I see it is, if I don't try to get any, others will. That is just how it is in the dating/mating game these days.
I don't know what race or nationality you are, but I don't want to insult my intelligence by replying to your gibberish trash. If I knew where you at, the convo wouldn't even be as civil. by the way, I traded in my old Nintendo many years ago to a very stingy Korean store owner in some black ghetto. He tried to bring down the price so low, that I just gave it to the poor old pathetic guy for free.
Tuesday, December 10, 2002 at 01:51:07 (PST)
i'm in the same exact situation... i have feelings for the girl but i won't even admit it to myself because 1)she has a boyfriend 2)i'm not the arrogant type to assume i have a strong enough impact on her that she leaves him 3)i don't want to set myself up for heartbreak. i haven't crossed that line yet and i don't think i should.
as in my case, i'm sure you two have great chemistry and she seems intrigued by you, which she most likely is. she might be the sweetest girl you know and he can be the biggest jerk in the world, but chances are she won't leave the guy. i can't explain why. old habits die hard i guess. and it really isn't fair to you that she leads you on while you sit around and wait. i think a lot of the advice people have given here is just to move on. you have your own life and i assume you want to be happy too. meanwhile be a friend (but don't get too buddy-buddy) and let her see what she's missing.
i guess in the dating game, anyone w/o a ring is fair game, but i dont want to deal with the complications. i assume you want the girl to be with you wholeheartedly, w/o doubts or second thoughts. but if your goal is to get laid, then disregard my advice.
Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 19:26:09 (PST)
Come on, you are embarrassing! Either you're really young and immature or just trying to blow your own horn. I doubt you meet any quality classy women.
Simply because based on your comments you don't seem to have any. Never mess with another man's girl until its over for sure. And if she's mess with you although she has a guy, you think she'll stop with you?
" I can be a much better lover and person than the other guy?" HAHA!
Are you for REAL, McDaddy?? Or is ChowmeinDaddy?
Chinese boy, stop posting and go play with your Playstation.
Sunday, December 08, 2002 at 18:05:59 (PST)
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