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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:27:42 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most attracts you to Latinas?
Their facial features | 70%
Their physique | 16%
Their attitude and personality | 11%
Their education and cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are an Asian male, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Latinas?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 11%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 15%
Assuming you are a Latina, which of the following most attracts you to Asian males?
Their facial features | 71%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 17%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a Latina, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with Asian males?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 10%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 16%



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I am from Nicaragua. I don't like it when people keep mistake me for being from MidEast. I am so tired of it. I am insulted when it happens all the time. They call us Camel Jockey and ugly thing like that. I have getting so many discrimination from people at some place here in this town. I am thinking of packing my things and just move away. I just met really sweet guy who moved here from Korea. I would like to continue what we started seeing each other. I think its safer that I leave anway. He said he wants to keep his job here. I hate to leave him behind. This place really does suck too much to stay on anymore. There is no hope for me here. I am tired of being spit upon and yelled names by the white.
Lianor    Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 10:13:02 (PDT)    [152.163.189.232]
MI Ana
What's your point? Come back when you score not when you could've of should've of , would've of blah blah.
no guts no glory    Monday, September 09, 2002 at 19:47:45 (PDT)    [205.188.209.112]
Japaspanglish, It's True,

Its unfortunate that you encountered asain males who had that stereotype about you. I try to never have any pre concieved notions about anybody, cause I know from experience, it sucks! I'm chinese-american and I have dated Latinas and have found them to be very warm, and nuturing. Not to mention, very attractive!

Hope your experience with those few won't create a bad image of asian males in your mind, cause I'm sure there's a bunch of AM's out there who don't pin stereotypes on you and find you beautiful for who you are.
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com    Monday, September 09, 2002 at 15:36:23 (PDT)    [205.238.9.194]

japaspanglish,

I have met some of the nicest japanese and korean men. I think you are right. They have too many stereotypes about us.
its true    Monday, September 09, 2002 at 10:07:50 (PDT)    [205.188.209.112]
I was just joking with a girl I met yesterday. She is from El Salvador and I held her hand and stroked her cheek (which I know is wrong) and asked her if she was ready for a family and wants to have children?

She is 3 years older than me and close to reaching her early 30s and so I know she is fighting her biological time clock.

We glanced at each other for 3 times before I stepped over and talked with her. She then got her bag and books and walked over to my seat. We chatted that whole hour in the comp. lab. She was getting her Masters in biology.

From the looks of it she had "the thing" for me. But, I wonder if she does this to all guys and was it because she was nearing "that age" and she wanted a man now?

I was so stupid to think like this, because then another Asian guy who sat directly from us had the nerve to cut in our conversation and try to hit on her. He sounded like a FOB and did not even smile. The girl sounded cold toward him so he then understood and left the place.

Then, I joked to her that I had a Mexican grandmother (which wasn't true). She then took her finger and motioned my eyebrows and up and down my nose and said I didn't look too Asian. I took the palm of my hand and felt my nose more than my lips and knew what she was saying. I didn't like that at all. I don't know about other Asians, but Chinese don't like to be mistaken for hapas because in the past we did mix with others in our history (Turks, Persians, Arabs, Jews, Armenians, Mongols, Manchus, Viets, Coreans).

All in all, I know she was attracted to me.

But, I don't know? I still got her number and am thinking should I give this a try or not?

I want to explore more, but she looks and sounds and feels like a dateable person.

Why wait, huh?....
Mi Ana    Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 19:19:43 (PDT)    [64.130.235.33]
japaspanglish,

Yeah. I hate that stereotype. I don't know why many of them see us in that way? It could be due to media. Oh well.
People that see us cats in heat? like sluts or something? Me vale madre
valemadrista    Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 15:26:52 (PDT)    [152.163.189.232]
I have dated Japanese and Korean men.. the biggest problem.. their stereotypes of us latinas as hot oversexed passionate females (I am not a cat in heat thank you) and approval and acceptance by their families which makes it difficult to have a serious relationship..
japaspanglish japaspanglish@aol.com    Sunday, September 08, 2002 at 10:37:35 (PDT)    [152.163.189.232]
After a month of hiatus, I'm back with a vengeance.
OK, down to the point. Here's my dilema:
A week or so ago, I met this cute Ecuadorian girl (I'm Chinese Ecuadorian, BTW) through a friend of mine. For obvious reasons, we got along quite well, she being the only Ecuadorain girl I've met since I came to the States, though the reverse is probably not true. I was hopeless drawn to her, & according to her friend, she was quite enthusiastic about meeting me too, being excited before & after our first "date".
Unfortunately, I've also heard of rumours that she's seeing someone already. I've thought about asking her friends to verify that, but am worried that she might "warn" that Ecuadorian girl instead. Premature declaration of intent often ends awkwardly & can be counter-productive. My plan right now is to hang out with her more often, & if she indeed has a boyfriend, sooner or later she'll introduce him to me. Meanwhile, I'll keep up my offensive.
KC Henry Yeh yeh_henry@hotmail.com    Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 21:57:56 (PDT)    [63.205.197.78]
Sometimes Shy Guy!
Oh, hahahaha! Please don't get the wrong idea! I am very interested in shy ones, but my thoughts are that a shy guy and girl won't get very far. While I have no problem talking to people I'm less attracted to, I'm only shy around the guys that I'm really attracted to! AAHHHH!!!!! NOOOO!!!!!!!!
Me! Who Else?!?!?!    Saturday, September 07, 2002 at 18:13:54 (PDT)    [138.86.151.21]

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