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ASIAN MALE/ LATINA RELATIONSHIPS
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I was hanging out with a Chinese-Portuguese friend (100% Chinese blood)of mine last nite, and went to a bar. His friend was a HOT Brazilian girl (Brunette, 5'8" -- wth heeled boots though -- Ali Landry looking face (the Doritos Girl), an ASS with a slender figure, and a charming smile.), and she seemed to want to talk to me a little. There were about 6 ppl in our group, 5 guys and that girl. There were 2 non-Portuguese speakers, me and this Swedish guy. I had met all of them for the first time, cept for my Chinese friend and one of his roomates. So naturally, not wanting to be the anti-social one, I started talking mostly with the Swedish guy, who spoke perfect English. I got the feeling that the Portuguese girl girl felt kind of slighted by me because I paid almost no attention to her.
There were 2 reasons for this.
One, her English was not that great. Despite going to one of the best colleges in the US. Wtf.
Two, I am used to dating American girls. In America, the dating culture is such that one must play hard to get. Women and men want what seems unavailable to them. Women hate it (esp. in 'pick-up situations' like in a bar or a club) when guys just blatantly throw themselves at girls. Case in point: a quite handsome Brazilian fellow who was in our group was hitting on random American white girls everywhere in the bar, but got shot down each and every time. So being used to the American dating scene, I guess I kind of ignored her in hopes of her approaching (initiating a convo with) me. But she didn't, and she was cold and distant with me the whole night.
I'm dissapointed, but it's all good. There are more girls for me everywhere. But she sure was beautiful, and I do not want to pass up another chance on a Latina hottie. Anyone here from South America, especially Brazil? I'd like to nkow how the dating/courtship ritual differs from that of America. Also it would be interesting to know how dating rituals amongst various Latin nations are different. I heard that Brazil is a verifies 'whorehouse' (sorry, don't mean to offend) from a friend. Men and women have affairs all the time, even in marriage, and the pickups are highly blatant and aggressive. My friend tells me that if you can't kiss a girl within 15 minutes of talking to her at a bar/club in Brazil, you are an imcompetant moron. So this leads me to a question: should I have been more aggressive with her, since she is a Brazilian and is more used to aggressive, flirtatious approaches?
Korean Hombre from LA
Saturday, September 14, 2002 at 08:10:39 (PDT)
[128.253.186.46]
Lianor,
I understand what you are saying. People sometimes ask me if i am peruvian, persian and Italian. I actually get italian a lot. I know it sucks always trying to prove yourself all the time. Trying to prove how American you are or how smart you may be. I am one of those Mexican-Americans who can trace my family back to the 1800's(which isnt that far) and they are from New Mexico and France. Anyways, try to be strong and know that those people are just prejudging to an ignorant extent. If it comes to the point where you must move, make sure that it is to a more diverse neighborhood. Wish you luck.
Also to the ladies,
I love asian men, i really do. From their georgeous faces to to their bodies. Just remember, if you do become serious there will more than likely be cultural differences with regard to parents. For everyone here make sure you ask yourself ahead of time just how far do you think you would be willing to go for love. I just dont want your heart to be broken like mine.
no lovin' latina
Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 08:29:34 (PDT)
[64.156.134.90]
Generally speaking, Asian men are not viewed negatively as potential in-laws by Mexican men and the girl's parents. This is one big advantage that AM got working for them with regard to dating Latina women. All it takes is for the 2 to really want to be together.
One good thing
Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 23:57:22 (PDT)
[64.130.235.33]
From what I have seen, almost all the AM/LF couples were attractive looking, especially the LF. You rarely see an AM with an overweight Latina. Got to say that overall, I have seen AM with a hell lot more attractive LF than I do seeing an AM with a knockout WF. They have much different views of Asian men compared to white women, generally speaking. We hear a lot of talk about WF being sought after wives, but I think Latinas make a better match with Asian men.
We are the majority in CA
Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 18:31:25 (PDT)
[64.130.235.33]
Lianor, why do you feel insulted?
Cad
Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 13:10:51 (PDT)
[64.12.96.237]
Mi Ana,
Three things:
1) If she wants to start a family and you don't, don't purse it.
2) If she wants to start a family and you do too, go for it.
3) If she don't want anything serious, take her out and have fun.
lordt78
Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 12:37:25 (PDT)
[140.212.205.40]
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