Chinese Male/Chinese Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

CHINESE MALE/ CHINESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:24:20 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to females of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 58%
Their physique | 8%
Their attitude and personality | 18%
Their education & cultural values | 16%

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with females of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 28%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 4%

Assuming you are a female of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to males of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 54%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 23%
Their education & cultural values | 17%

Assuming you are a female of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with males of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 29%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 65%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 5%

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I used to have misconceived stereotypes of Chinese women from Asia (China, Hong Kong, etc.).

I own an apartment complex. Lately I have rented out to a Hong Kong couple. The wife is quite good looking.

I am a quiet person, and I would not anticipate her sexually aggressive nature.

Her husband is a doctor at a nearby hospital. If you are wondering, yes, he does look like the geeky type. I think he might even be years older than her.

When her husband is not around, she would try to flirt with me through her eye contacts. I would sit in the office just looking at the surveillance cameras and try to avoid her.

One night, it was kinda windy and she was walking around and doing her usual walk. She says it is for exercise. I told her to come in my office as it was cold. She looked like she was shivering. I offered her some coffee. She said she liked coffee any chance she can drink it, as her husband only drinks tea. I was laughing.

Then, we talked. Friendly talk I might add. But, then the eye contact started to heat up again. I told her that her husband is such a lucky man to have such a nice and beautiful wife like her. She asked me why I am not married? I was just laughing, taking it as a joke. Then, she asked me if I like her, if I wanted to f*** her?

I then, put down the coffee, and looked at her. I told her that it goes through my mind all the time, but it would not be the right thing for me to do. She then came and sat on my lap. She put her breasts in front of my face. She said she felt how hard I was getting down there.

I had no choice but to close the office door and bring down the blinds.

I taught her some stuff and she taught me some as well. She was a great love maker and she said that Chinese American guys look stronger and more confident than the real Chinese guys.

This woman is very sexual and I think it is just a stereotype that Asian women in Asia are sexually inhibited.
I told her if she got pregnant, that I would burn down the whole apartment and kill her if the baby was mines and she threatens me with child support. She was laughing. But, I can't stop f#cking her whenever the chance arises.

I am a bad man. Yes, I know. But, if I didn't do it, she might look for a white, black or Hispanic guy to do it. If I satisfy her, as long as it is in the same "family."

One flame started it all, and it is getting hotter in the bedroom everytime. Thursday, July 04, 2002 at 21:37:39 (PDT)

My grandmother (from my father side) is a quarter Chinese. However, the Chinese influence in my family (my father's family) is quite little (I'm more Malay than Chinese), but the Chinese ethnic is still quite visible in the family of my grandmother (from my father side).

Anyway. Like many people, my early attraction would be from the physical side, however, also like many, the things that would made me feel comfortable of having a relationship with a girl later on would her personality and attitudes.
Edo Andromedo Christyono Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 05:53:43 (PDT)

Just wondering,

To answer your question, My all family lives in the US. My dad is from Agra (India) and my Mom from Taiwan. (^_^)

You know what, actually quite alot of people that mix Chinese/Indian like me.
Nandhitha Monday, June 17, 2002 at 10:20:03 (PDT)

Just wondering,

I'm living in the USA. All my family live in the US. So My Mom & Dad, and I were American born. I know my grandpa is from Agra (India) and my Mom's family side is from Taiwan. (^_^)
Nandhitha Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 02:35:37 (PDT)

Half Chinese and half Indian? I have friends who know a few but I have never met one. There's Sophia Raj (is that her name?) who is a model or actress from HK. I guess she's the only person I've ever seen who comes from these two ethnic groups. Where's your mom or dad from, Nandhitha? I've read somewhere that there's a sizeable Chinese (Hakka) community in Culcutta? Maybe one of your parents or both are from that area?
Or perhaps HK?

Just wondering Wednesday, June 12, 2002 at 09:23:59 (PDT)

Yes. Everybody have their twin somewhere. I found mine. She is the best Indian movie star. My name Nandhitha, I'm half chinese & half Indian. Living in US. In US not much Indian as much as in Canada I guess.

My friends told me so that I look much like Kajol (Indian Movie star). But I don't believe it. Till One day, I went to Toronto, Canada. When I strolled along to the Indian Shops. I passed one of the Indian Music & vcd shop. And one of the posters sticked on glass window caught my eyes. I saw face on the that poster. How come she looks much like me. I just stood there and wondering. Suddenly, the Shop owner came out so excited. He screamed and called me " Kajol. Oh my goodness. Kajol, are you going to shooting a film here? And blahh...blahh.." He was so excited. And I still wondering. I told him That he mistaken. I'm Nandhitha not Kajol. He din't believe me. Then I showed him My ID, he start to believe that I'm not Kajol but still not believing that I look much like Kajol. Well, so do I. Kajol is like my twin sister.
Nandhitha Saturday, June 08, 2002 at 09:57:24 (PDT)

1/2 LostSoul,

I know all faces are look alike. Even every body have their twin somewhere. Which is not the real twin sister/brother.

I take your advise to check it out " alllooksame.com". The good thing is I passed the test. The result I got " Genius - You may have a career in this". I guees it all the faces correctly.

I know, somehow I can see the diffrences, but that's doesn't mean 100% Perfect.Correctly.
For sure 1 or 2 I'll make mistakes.

Thanks for the good Web site though.
Indo Girl Tuesday, June 04, 2002 at 01:35:58 (PDT)

Indo girl,
Check out your ability to recognize the faces.
http://www.alllooksame.com
i believe one makes mistakes.
1/2LostSoul Sunday, June 02, 2002 at 11:28:58 (PDT)

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