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CHINESE MALE/ CHINESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:24:19 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to females of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 58%
Their physique | 8%
Their attitude and personality | 18%
Their education & cultural values | 16%

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with females of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 28%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 4%
Assuming you are a female of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to males of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 54%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 23%
Their education & cultural values | 17%

Assuming you are a female of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with males of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 29%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 65%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 5%



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AC girl,

I don't know how you define "real", but my relationships definitely have been "real" and likely had more depth than any of yours.

Phil/Max,

I saw your pic and you are one FINE Chinese guy.

Why aren't there more guys like you in showbiz? The Chinese guys we currently see (B.D. Wong, for instance) is a poor representation of our people.

Perhaps I shouldn't mind.

That only serves in leaving all the cute Chinese guys for women like me. *wink*
Enamored Chinese girl    Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 19:00:11 (PDT)
I had a bad experience with a chinese guy before. I don't blame my experience on the entire population of asian men. That would be ridiculous.
single lady    Thursday, August 22, 2002 at 11:14:07 (PDT)

Proud 2 b Azn (AM),

There is no need for namecalling. I refuse to stoop to that level. I was not directing my message to you. I was indeed speaking to Enamored Chinese girl, and to Maz. I was not speaking to you. You are displaying angry behavior over something that has nothing to do with you. So why are you upset? The message I wrote was to someone else, not you.

Maz,

I came to this forum to see other perspectives. Perhaps to learn more about Chinese men. I wish to learn more and expand my mind. I grew up mostly around White peers. I have always felt like something was missing, I can't really explain. Like a part of me was missing. I have dated chinese men to please my parents. They have been very anxiously hoping that I will obey their wishes, and bring home a chinese man. I am not sure whether that will ever happen. I think its impossible. It all really depends.
AC girL    Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 18:00:11 (PDT)
Proud 2 b Azn

Thanks for being on my side man. Your thoughts were very nicely expressed. Believe me I wanted express some more of my frustration, but was afraid I might curse a little too much in the process.

Keep in mind, I don't hate AC Girl. I do think she is a bit lost, or lost in her own sea of ignorance. I would like to help her see the light if I can. Sometimes people can change.
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com    Wednesday, August 21, 2002 at 15:52:11 (PDT)
AC girl,

"Of course you will say all of those things, because your a man."

What kind of bulls*** statement is that? I think Max is right. Your trying to label half a billion AM on this planet over at most the handful of AMs you've met. It's a pity that a supposed grown up woman such as yourself can be so easily persuaded by such ignorance. He's just trying to tell you that just because you've had bad experiences in the past not all of us AMs treat women badly. So unless you can account for all AMs in this world then I suggest you stop making idiotic statements and grow the fuck up.

"You are going to try and present yourself as a very good guy to everyone. Then you will hide the real you where noone else can see the real you. I am not tricked."

"You only feel that way because you haven't had any real experiences with Chinese men. I know how they really are. I have seen it first hand face to face. I am not fooled by their facades."

You seem to think you know these people better then they know themselves. Of course with your great wisdom you already know everything. What exactly are we AM trying to fake? Again of course in your great wisdom and intellectual greatness you already know what half a billion people in this world are thinking. Here's my analysis of you. Your a pathetic bitter woman who can't read people worth shit.

It's precisely women like you that I have and will continue to dump in a heartbeat. Why would anyone want to be with ignorant sorry excuse for a woman. Any self respect AM out there would do the same.

Why are you here? What do you want us to say? Do you expect somekind of pity? Your not getting any of that here. In fact I look down in disdain on the weak!
Proud 2 b Azn (AM)    Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 19:18:23 (PDT)

AC Girl,

So, do you hate all Chinese men? Have you ever had anyone, asian or not refuse to give you a decent chance because of your background? You never answered my question as to what type of guys you prefer to date. Obviously you either like other asians and or white guys. Maybe other types as well.

Believe it or not I actually have a couple Vietnamese and Korean friends like you. They will only date asians, but they would never date an asain who is of the same asian ethnicity.

How can you really judge me, if you don't even know me? All you know is a few posts. There's alot more to me than just a few small paragraphs.

What was your main reason for joining this poll? Was it to try to get people to not date chinese men?

Latez,

Max
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com    Tuesday, August 20, 2002 at 15:20:01 (PDT)
Enamored Chinese Girl,

Why can't there be more fine girls like yourself?

Latez

Phil
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 12:51:50 (PDT)
Enamored Chinese girl,

You only feel that way because you haven't had any real experiences with Chinese men. I know how they really are. I have seen it first hand face to face. I am not fooled by their facades.

Maz,
Of course you will say all of those things, because your a man. You are going to try and present yourself as a very good guy to everyone. Then you will hide the real you where noone else can see the real you. I am not tricked.
AC girL    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 12:05:49 (PDT)

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