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CHINESE MALE/ CHINESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:24:18 PM
to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)
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"strong" AF,
What is there for us men to understand? What did the AMs on this board do to either you or AC girl to deserve this hatred? Just because we AMs share the same culture and bloodlines, it doesn't mean that I'm responsible for another AMs actions and vice versa. Am I sorry that those AMs treated AC girl bad? No I'm not. Bottom line is that it's all a part of dating and finding who you want to eventually be with. Everyone has gotten hurt and sometimes it goes on even after your married.
You also claim that we're "jealous and bitter". I can't and won't assume to speak for any AMs on this board but I for one could care less about who you prefer to date. If you want to be with a WM, BM, or LM then that's great...all the more power to you. I hope things are GREAT between the 2 of you. But to turn around and hate AMs is another story. That I will not tolerate. I have no problems fighting to the end. I've done it before and will do it again.
AC girl,
I'm sorry I sounded a little harsh in my post. I did go a little overboard but if you knew what I've done at goldsea then you'd understand where I'm coming from. Every chance I've gotten I've defended AFs from sell-out AMs, hateful WFs, and yes on occasion I've even defended AFs against racist fetish freak WMs. In fact it wasn't to long ago I just finished a ridiculously long fight with a WM who thought AFs are are uglier then WF and are self-hating and easy. If you don't believe me try going to the gender divide forum and go back to posts by Matt Richardson.
I know you never asked me to defend AFs but I happen to think AFs are as good as it gets. Then all the sudden this happens. Just how am I supposed to react to that?
I was actually happy to read your last post. To me there was at least still some hope. If you prefer other types of men then that's your own business. Nothing wrong with that. I've always supported peoples right to be with whomever they wish. I hope that you someday find Mr. Right. Whether he be an AM, WM, BM or LM. Just be open minded enough to give us AMs a chance.
Proud 2 b Azn (AM)
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 23:39:23 (PDT)
Strong AF
First of all I'm NOT bitter, and I'm NOT jealous. Its perfectly fine to date outside your race. God knows, I've dated several non-asians. If you're curious I've had white, hapa, asian, latina, and arabic girls. So to say somebody else can't date outside their race would be wrong, wouldn't it? Besides you can look back to my previous comments and you won't find one where I say it is wrong to date outside your race, or anybody else for that matter.
Dating outside your race is one thing. Labeling about 2 billion other people as bad, selfish, arrogant is quite another. You might want to think about that.
Are you one of those people who think ALL asian men are bad? Have you ever stopped to think how you would feel if someone labeled ALL asian women are bad, slutty, or stuck up?
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 13:42:42 (PDT)
AC Girl,
I'm just curious, what city do you live in? Do you live somewhere in the midwest?
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com
Wednesday, August 28, 2002 at 10:43:35 (PDT)
AC girL,
Do not apologize to them. If the men cannot understand your feelings its their problem. If you choose to date other men it is your decision. These men are only jealous and very bitter. So, do not apologize.
strong AF
Tuesday, August 27, 2002 at 11:35:55 (PDT)
Max,
I agree with you. I want to become more open minded with my people. That is why I came to this place. It has taught me alot from just reading the various posts on here. I accept your apology. I want to also apologize to you and anyone else who I have offended here. I have much to still learn.
Mr.Hann,
No I have not had any bad experiences with non-asian men yet. Not yet. That does not mean that I will not experience some things in the future. I do know there is a less likely chance of it it. With non-asian men they treat me as if I am really important and mean something incredible to them. I know that I am just an average woman, but they made me feel like I was beyond average. Maybe it was only a fetish they were acting on. As I have said before, I still felt a part of me was missing. I would like someday know if it is possible to meet a good chinese man.
AC girL
Monday, August 26, 2002 at 07:41:42 (PDT)
AC girl,
1. ok, from your post we now know that you are also chinese. i dont think you've notice or care, but chinese female also have a rep. for things, but you don't see other posting stuff saying all chinese female are like this and that.
2. you just attacked us saying we(CM) are immature, rude, and thoughtless. how do expect Proud 2 b Azn and the rest of the other chinese guys not to be mad?
Mr. Hann
Friday, August 23, 2002 at 16:36:20 (PDT)
Enamored Chinese Girl,
Thanks for the compliments on my pic! If you ever run into any directors/casting directors, send them my way!
Yeah, I agree with you in that there should be more handsome asian faces in Hollywood and showbiz in general. It is getting better, but we still have a ways to go. I think Chow Yun-Fat, Jet Li, Jason Scott Lee, and Russell Wong are great actors and very handsome. No, I'm not homosexual, but I can tell when someone is good looking. None of the guys I mentioned have reached superstar status yet. Jackie Chan has, but I don't think he's really considered sexy. Jet Li and Chow Yun-Fat will become superstars. It's only a matter of time.
I just hope one day to be given the opportunity that asian-american actors can be successful in every genre. That is my big dream. Will I ever get that chance? Time will tell.
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com
Friday, August 23, 2002 at 14:32:51 (PDT)
AC Girl,
I grew mostly around white peers as well. And at the time my few experiences with asian women were pretty negative. For a short time I thought most asian women were materialistic and snobbish. However I realized I couldn't let those few bad girls shape my perception of all those other great asian girls whom I've yet to meet. My current girlfriend is asian and she's a really great gal.
Let me ask you this. Have you ever had a bad experience with a "white", or "non-chinese" guy? And if you did have a bad experience, why didn't you let that shape your perception of those types of men? Just a thought.
Although I think you have made some ignorant comments on this poll, I no longer think you're an ignorant person. Just a bit lost. I was lost too for a short time. I apologize if I called you ignorant. All I'm suggesting is don't be so closed minded and prejudiced against your own people. There are such things as tall, handsome chinese men who treat their ladies like princesses. Hopefully you will meet one someday to prove it to you in person.
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com
Friday, August 23, 2002 at 14:24:52 (PDT)
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