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CHINESE MALE/ CHINESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:24:17 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to females of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 58%
Their physique | 8%
Their attitude and personality | 18%
Their education & cultural values | 16%

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with females of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 28%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 67%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 4%
Assuming you are a female of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to males of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 54%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 23%
Their education & cultural values | 17%

Assuming you are a female of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with males of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 29%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 65%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 5%


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to i love chinese men:

thank you for your extremely flattering comments...

BTW, are you a really hot Chinese-American female? just curious...
i love hot chinese women    Friday, November 22, 2002 at 19:25:07 (PST)    [24.90.51.12]
I prefer chinese men over any other Asian. They are the most handsome and protective. They are passionate and endearing.
I love Chinese Men    Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 14:15:03 (PST)    [64.12.96.237]
"I have not had an affair with a married man yet. I do however really enjoy flirting with men. Especially ones already in a relationship. I will flirt with a man even if he is holding hands with his girl. I could care less. I always get their attention and its really so much fun! I love seeing the angry jealous face of the woman every time her man winks at me, or licks his lips and smiles. I like to dress sexy and attract attention."

I saw this in the infidelity section and thought it was absolutely hilarious!! Oh I'm laughing up a storm over here.

The above paragraph just serves to show your complete and utter insecurity. You really enjoy flirting with men that have girlfriends just to make them jealous. Maybe you were fat and ugly in high school and you're getting back at girls or something? If you flirted with my boyfriend he would just laugh at your complete lack of self-respect. Then he would hold me tight and say "Sorry honey, I've already got a girl. Oh and by the way- dressing slutty doesn't attract quality men. Dressing with class does."
Grow up little girl    Monday, November 11, 2002 at 12:27:18 (PST)    [207.183.117.60]
Miss Yu, I am neither fat nor jealous nor insecure. I am proud of my looks as is my boyfriend. You are obviously lacking in moral sense if you think "innocently flirting" with another woman's boyfriend is alright. Why don't you save your energy and flirt with single men? Or do you like to annoy those of us with boyfriends? Most men don't find women that go on and on about how pretty they are to be attractive. There's obviously something wrong if you need to incite jealousy in other women in order to soothe your fragile ego. Maybe you will understand these things once you've grown up.

SIGH Why do I waste my time? Does no one have morals any more?
Grow up little girl    Monday, November 11, 2002 at 11:29:36 (PST)    [207.183.117.60]
Grow up little girl,

Hey! There is nothing wrong with dressing sexy and feeling beautiful about myself. Some women don't have the body or the face to wear sexy clothing. Those of us who do have the bodies, and look good should be proud. I don't dress slutty, I dress sexy. There is a difference. I do it in a classy way, and believe me I get NO complaints at all. Only from fat and jealous women. I think you're just insecure and don't feel very attractive. Obviously you are intimidated by any woman who innocently flirts with your man. Too bad for you! Haha! Flirting is alot of fun and nothing more. I can flirt because I am single and I like to have fun and enjoy myself. I am young and very pretty, I deserve to enjoy life.
(Sexy Miss Yu) ^-^ MadameYu@sexyasia.com    Sunday, November 10, 2002 at 09:56:06 (PST)    [152.163.189.170]
^-^ haha, I think you must have some sort of insecurity complex if you feel the need to dress sexy (aka slutty) and talk to and wink at other womens' boyfriends just for attention. It's also pathetic to come on here and assume you're so gorgeous and that other girls are soo jealous of you. Sounds like you have a big empty head.
Grow up little girl    Wednesday, November 06, 2002 at 09:23:41 (PST)    [207.183.117.60]
to me, an important factor in the attractiveness of chinese women lies in the cultural upbringing.
asian women (brought up in asian tradition) in general are more caring to their men and have high morals.
this distinction sets them apart from western women. generally speaking of course.

but what do chinese women think about this themselves?
Rain    Tuesday, November 05, 2002 at 11:36:34 (PST)    [80.60.89.76]
dsfbcbsijbdax,
I agree that chinese couples are the most beautiful ones. We do look so good together. When we are together and are with deep feelings. It gives us a radiance that is so precious.
4chinese men only    Friday, November 01, 2002 at 08:50:47 (PST)    [64.12.96.237]
I only ask because I see more and more AF/AM with piercings and tatoos. Most of the time girls will get their belly button pierced. Or a tatoo on their lower back...usually a chinese symbol. Guys will usually get their shoulders, pecs, shoulder blades tatooed. I got my eyebrow pierced this summer which got me a lot of compliments. I'm thinking of getting another. Perhaps a tat...we'll see.
Proud 2 b Azn (AM)    Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 23:50:31 (PST)    [64.228.39.65]
This is what I believe in. I think that Chinese males and females look very good together.
dsfbcbsijbdax    Thursday, October 31, 2002 at 14:03:52 (PST)    [148.4.22.10]
Proud 2 b Azn(AM)
I think its reaaally sexy.

Max's gf,Just a girl, and all the other insecure women on here:
Its noones fault but your own that your in a relationship that you don't feel lucky. If you don't feel good about yourself, confident and pretty then I feel sorry for you. Women like you get overly touchy and sensitive if an attractive woman who like to dress real sexy, like me for example...if I were to approach your men and say,'hey, hows it going?' and nothing more...and maybe give a wink? You will get all jealous and green with envy because you are not confident with who you are and are insecure. Too bad for you women. It makes me laugh.
(Sexy Miss Yu)
^-^ haha!    Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 12:40:17 (PST)    [152.163.189.170]
Proud 2 b Azn,

that depends on what is pierced and tatooed. But in general, it's a great turn OFF. Everytime I see something pierced except a ear, it almost makes me feel the pain and feel sorry for a person. Nothing to be turned on about, ha?
Cutiegirl    Wednesday, October 30, 2002 at 11:38:49 (PST)    [131.252.149.185]
This is completely off topic on what's happening now but I just had a question for all the ladies out there. What are your thoughts on guys with piercings and tatoos? Is it a turn off or turn on?
Proud 2 b Azn (AM)    Tuesday, October 29, 2002 at 22:31:21 (PST)    [64.228.39.174]
Just a girl is BORING,

I didn't try to be anyone's advisor. And I am sorry you misunderstood me. But that's just what's going on with me now. My boyfriend is handsom too, he knows that and he thinks that he is the Master of the World and sometimes next to him I feel like I am some accessory and he just needs me to show to everybody what a macho man he is and that he can get any girl he wants. It's so hard to be with him sometimes. What makes me stay with him you might ask even if he doesn't treat me well? Cause he is handsom. And everytime he is next to me I realize that and cannot brake up with him. What can you do when those cute eyes look at you? You forget everything bad and just want to be with him.It's called an addiction, like drugs or alcohol. You know that it's bad, but you cannot give it up. So am I lucky that my boyfriend is hot and handsom? No.
Just a girl    Monday, October 28, 2002 at 19:04:47 (PST)    [131.252.151.55]
Just a girl,

I completely agree with you that judging people only by appearance is wrong, especially if it's just someone's picture. And I am sure that you didn't want to say anything bad about Max, that you were talking about people and attitude in general. Max is a great boyfriend. I love him with all my heart. I should agree with you that it's not that easy to be with attractive people and sometimes I feel frustrated, but I trust him and know that he won't distroy the kind of relationship we have now, cause it was so hard to build it. We have a great time together and I don't know what my life would be like if I didn't have him.
Max's gf    Monday, October 28, 2002 at 11:04:44 (PST)    [131.252.253.112]
Just a girl,
From what I read, it seemed that PrettyMoonKitty was only complimenting Max on his looks. I wonder why you felt the need to be some sort of ADVISOR. That was very unecessary. Perhaps the Oprah Winfrey Show or Sally would be interested in your boring scoldings.
Just a girl is BORING    Sunday, October 27, 2002 at 15:49:40 (PST)    [152.163.189.170]
Just a girl,

I would have to agree with you that judging by someone's picture you can't tell what kind of person they really are, and that personality is what is really important. Yes, sometimes attractive people are not easy to be with. My gf is very beautiful and has a great personality. Guys stare, and hit on her all the time and always try to hang out with her. It can be a bit frustrating at times. The important thing is that we love each other, I trust her, and she trusts me. We treat each other very well and are always there for one another.
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com    Friday, October 25, 2002 at 11:48:03 (PDT)    [131.252.151.62]
:)

Don't judge a person only by appearance. Max is handsome, I do not argue with that. The look is important, but nobody knows what's really going on between two people, what they go through in their relationship. You cannot say by the was a person looks if he treats his girlfriend well or not. So you cannot actually say judging only by the picture if Max's girlfriend is lucky or not. She might not be that excited about it. Attractive people are not that easy to be with. Personality that's what important.
Just a girl    Thursday, October 24, 2002 at 14:57:40 (PDT)    [131.252.149.185]
Hi Max :)
Yes, its mee! Wow! Your girlfriend is very lucky! She had better hold on to you very tightly...
wanna steal you away :P
LOL! I am kidding! many blessings and goodluck to the both of you!
:)    Thursday, October 24, 2002 at 07:39:06 (PDT)    [64.12.96.237]
XUE YEN
I was raised by an asian stepfather. My mother had me out of a casual relationship and she was in the same situation as you were. She held out hope for an asian man to come into her life. Just as she thought things were hopeless, my stepfather arrived and swept her off her feet! 30 years later I love and respect my stepfather as he were my natural father. ABC Taiwanese Guy is right in saying that asian men are more open minded when it comes to women with young children. I stand as a testament to what he says. Don't lose hope! The longer the wait, the sweeter the reward for you!
Chinese Canadian    Monday, October 21, 2002 at 16:53:55 (PDT)    [24.42.151.252]
:)

Is this PrettyMoonKitty? Whoever you are, thanks! I'm glad you liked the pic. Yes, I do have a girlfriend, and she is awesome. If this isn't PMK, then who are you?
Max orgazmo83@hotmail.com    Monday, October 21, 2002 at 15:23:32 (PDT)    [205.238.9.194]
Max,
You have a girlfriend? I didn't know that. Well, you look very handsome.
:)    Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 16:45:51 (PDT)    [205.188.209.112]
XUE YEN,

I know personally that if I liked the woman enough, i wouldn't mind if she even had 2 young children. and yes i am an American born Taiwanese guy. We are very open minded about this sort of thing because we are not as traditional. Still we are Chinese =) Be patient... you will find a great Chinese guy American born or not who will love you and your kids.
ABC Taiwanese guy    Saturday, October 19, 2002 at 21:51:10 (PDT)    [65.184.91.9]

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