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CHINESE MALE/ COREAN FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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I am not going to claim the child. I want for him and his mom to live out their quiet and peaceful lives. Let my secret with them disappear. I don't want to give them more hurt than it already is. I guess this is the only best solution. But, I believe in God and I know I will be punished for this. But, it wasn't my fault. Can't any of you see this? Inhee probably married her husband through parental arrangement, as I know she doesn't love him. But, she has made her decision to stay with him, and I respect her always for her decision. I know she still has me in her heart. I don't want to reignite a fire that probably cannot be saved. My advice to all Asians who read my pathetic story is that do not marry out of parental consent or convenience. It will hurt you later. As I am an unfortunate victim. I can't claim my son. He has his dad now. If both he and his mom someday comes to my door steps, I will always welcome them. Now, I just start life all over again.
A pis.s.ed off Chinese man in S.F.
Thursday, October 11, 2001 at 19:18:49 (PDT)
A pis.s.ed off Chinese man in S.F.
i see you whining like a little baby about how you were hurt by a women...boo hoo hoo...i do not sympathize with you because you were dumb enough to have unprotected sex and now you have a child you did not anticipate.
why are you pissed?? cuz you got hurt or because you have a kid you didn't want?? from reading your post i think you were more upset about not knowing the chick you just banged and were totally into were married. i feel sorry for your kid!! grow up and i hope you take some responsiblity for your kid.
kendall
Thursday, October 11, 2001 at 03:33:38 (PDT)
BooHoohoo, so sorry.
But what the hell is the point of telling your SOB story all over the internet? Be a man and keep it to yourself! You sound so whiny.
Jason
To Pissed off Chinese man in SF
Thursday, October 11, 2001 at 02:32:14 (PDT)
I think this topic is kinda interesting....coz i am having the same problem =p
Sleepyduck hou_mok@hotmail.com
Wednesday, October 10, 2001 at 13:42:57 (PDT)
hmm...
dude, I don't know whether I should feel sympathy for you for falling for a lying evil biach--who cheated not only her husband but you too-----OR
castigate you for practicing unsafe sex, and not telling the woman's husband.
Well dude, if you were my buddy, I'd be more sensitive, but since this is the internet... well dude, she is an evil, stupid, naive woman, but you are also the same. what can I say, live and learn.
Of course, you might have been lax about birth control, because you really loved her and marriage was within your realm of thought (although I doubt it), even then, her own stupidity about this doesn't justify yours, you guys should really discuss these sort of things before uhm... uh.. haveing intimate relations.
sorry to be so cruel.
self-righteous moralist
Wednesday, October 10, 2001 at 11:49:01 (PDT)
I don't even know where to begin with this. I have a son. Unfortunately, to this day, I can never call him my son. I had an affair with a woman from Seoul. I never liked her, but a guy at my age at that time couldn't have resisted the opportunity. I never knew Inhee was a married woman until she told me she was pregnant with my child 5 years ago. We met in an evening computer and accounting class in a junior college. I was working full time back then, and college at night provided some relief from the stress and alienation of work. I needed the class to further my career. She was the only one of 3 other Asians in our class. I sat in the back of the room most of the times, and she often got a seat near mines. We talked a lot for one month in that back of the room. First it was from academics to personal life. Every night after class, I had more of a chance to chat with this lady over coffee and fast food. Sometimes, I saw hints of her being unhappy for whatever reason. During midterm, we knew we a tough exam coming. The 2 weeks prior to the exam, our professor canceled classes for us to study. I knew I needed help on this exam and so did she. I had to juggle work and school at the same time. Inhee offered to meet at the school's Carl's Jr. for review together between me and Inhee. I accepted thinking she knew more than I did. Well, on the 2nd day, I said we needed a more quiet place to study and review and she agreed because the library at that time was crammed and quite loud. I told her she can come to my apartment if she didn't mind. OK, one thing led to another and we had non-stop love for 2 weeks. She initiated it. I fell for it. I really thought this was the girl I was going to be with. For the rest of the semester, we made love on the weekends every week up until December. We took the finals, and I ended with high grades in that class. I felt happy it was over with and that I had a lovely girlfriend. Later that day after final exams, she took me out to our cars in the lot and told me she was 1 month pregnant. I didn't know how to react. I wasn't ready for this news. Then, she had tears running down her eyes and started crying. She said her husband would be coming from Seoul in couple weeks for Christmas. I was shocked. I asked her why she never told me she was married? It was too late. She cut off contact with me and I did not want to speak with her again. Yes, she is still living with her husband here in the USA. Her husband never found out the paternity of the child, because she did not have a large stomach to show it by the time he arrived from Seoul. She called me to say it was a boy. She cried again and said she will always only love me and no other until her last day to the grave. I hung up and wanted to cry too. And, all these years later I have never heard from her again. Why? Why this had to happen? I can never trust Korean women again. In fact, I can't trust any other women again. I still have feelings for all this. What should I do years down the line?
A pis.s.ed off Chinese man in S.F.
Monday, October 08, 2001 at 18:13:26 (PDT)
to Curious:
I think you were referring to Harisu. Looks like a woman in every sense. Hell, she/he looks better than most women I know.
oh boy or make that oh girl
Sunday, September 30, 2001 at 19:41:25 (PDT)
I've dated almost too many Korean girls in my lifetime and all I have to say is that its great to date them, but its HELL after you breakup :)
Too much KimChee I think. Makes em fiesty. But I guess that's one reason I like them!
ZenithNadir
Saturday, September 29, 2001 at 02:49:17 (PDT)
korean female
it's true that other asian ethnicities like the Chinese get plastic surgery,too. BUT it's a known fact that Korea has one of the highest, if not the highest rate of having plastic surgery among asians. Young Korean men and especially women are given plastic surgery as a graduation gift after high school or university.
a bitter pill to swallow
Thursday, September 27, 2001 at 09:50:09 (PDT)
Hey, who's that Korean actress (quite pretty), but turns out he/she is a tranvestite (originally a male)? She (or he?) is supposedly famous and in quite a few Korean TV shows.
Curious
Friday, September 21, 2001 at 15:17:09 (PDT)
all asian races get plastic surgery, especially the stars such as jacki chan. You just can not say that Korean girls are the only ones that get plastic surgery because I know a lot of Chinese girls who got surgery too.
korean female
Thursday, September 20, 2001 at 20:15:49 (PDT)
NEED HELP
Ask her out! From what you told us she definitely seems interested. Ask soon or you'll kick yourself in the @$$ for a lot longer than if you do nothing!
Slider, 24, Chinese American male
Tuesday, September 18, 2001 at 20:26:10 (PDT)
Anyone into Korean Pop? Man the girls on the music videos are so gorgeous. I love thier feminine voices. I wish I knew Korean. When I see them I don't think of sex much but instead I feel like I want to love and protect them for some odd reason. Man I think it's their adorable eyes.
chineseguyinfatuatedwithkoreanwomen intense112@hotmail.com
Thursday, September 13, 2001 at 12:54:29 (PDT)
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