Chinese Male / Corean Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

CHINESE MALE/ COREAN FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:23:48 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to females of Corean ancestry?
Their facial features | 68%
Their physique | 11%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with females of Corean ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 12%

Assuming you are a female of Corean ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to males of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 57%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 21%
Their education & cultural values | 16%

Assuming you are a female of Corean ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with males of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 69%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 20%

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Kaf, I really envy you. I want to marry
Chinese guy.
by Boston
massachusetts Friday, August 02, 2002 at 20:19:39 (PDT)

KAF,

I agree with you, I'm a korean female married to a White man. My sister married a chinese man and I envy the type of relationship they have. Her husband is tall and well built but has the character of a real gentleman.
Wishing Friday, August 02, 2002 at 18:19:49 (PDT)

Toronto Chinese Male,

Actually Koreans are very reluctant to date with chinese.

I hate to say this. But most of Korean girls think chinese men are inappropriate subjects to date with and marry with unless they are exceptionally educated and rich..

The crying baby chinese must be a second generation in Toronto or lucky one out of 1.5 billion chinese.

The case is the very extraordinary one. I bet her parents must have denied her daughter the marriage itself from the beginning.

Most of chinese in toronto are low lifes except for the children of Hong kong and the very selected ones from the corrupt businessmen and government bureaucrats of mainland china. Chinese men working in IT industry..are very lucky case....

If you go to chinatown, you will know how they do live for a living.
Korean girl Friday, August 02, 2002 at 14:40:31 (PDT)

I like Korean girls, but the only thing that I won't stand for is the kimchi. I just cannot stand the smell of it. I even tried it once, and the taste is more abhorent than even the smell. I used to hate Chinese dried salted fish and 100 year old eggs, but this is worse.
daaaang Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 21:30:26 (PDT)

Soju,

Actually the only news I hear is that North Koreans sell their daughters across the border in northeast China, who almost always are shipped off to the highest bidder in other provinces of China. Many Han Chinese men cannot find wives due to the one-child policy and its effects (ie selective abortion). I heard that in south China, it is the same with Vietnamese brides being bought at the border and then shipped off all over China.
not funny Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 21:26:59 (PDT)

If I'm correct, is this not a forum dedicated to the discussion of Korean women and Chinese men romantic relationships?

Why is there such hatred from Korean men toward their Chinese counterparts?

Really, I myself am Chinese, and I was told many a times by my Chinese grandfather of the integrity and nobility of the Korean people.

Coming from a man who was General of the Nationalist Army, who (though often times out-equipped and out-numbered) commanded and fought fiercely against Japanese invasion, son of a Northern aristocratic family line whose roots extend as far back as Early Zhou China, an excellent Mandarin horsemen, and who in his later years devoted his life to law as a judge, (in short a proudly Sinocentric man), this is indeed a great compliment. He has yet to make such a comment about any other ethnicity.

His sentiments was felt not only by him but Mao Zedong as well. While many reasons existed for the Communist Chinese to join the Korean War, one was that Mao sincerely wanted to assist a people he also found to be noble and virtuous. This view is recorded in documentation. Cummings book on Korea refers to this statement.

In fact, that book refers to Korea's long-standing partnership and allegiance to China. In a foreign letter from Japan's "Emperor" to the King of Korea, a letter was written back to Japan reprimanding them for using the character "Emperor" for the letter explained, there exists only one emperor and he lives in China.

Indeed, China came to aid Korea many times in the past (both in modern times as well as in history) to fend off foreign invasion, particularly Japanese.

Let me emphasize that he found Koreans to be "virtuous," a people with "de". Many of you don't understand. This is really such a big compliment from a man such as him.

Why is there such inexplicable hatred against the Chinese? Admittingly, the Chinese can be condescending and dismissive, but that does not deserve such irrational animosity.

Understandably, China has been aggressive toward Korea. But that was ancient history. China has long made up for such ancient aggression in imperial and modern times. Really, I find such hatred to be irrational and inexplicable.

Putting this in the context of this forum, is it because Chinese men are dating your Korean women?
Perhaps my grandfather was wrong.
Mislead and Deceived Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 21:06:52 (PDT)

When you say Koreans look down on Chinese, it most often means on southern Chinese. The reason is somewhat apparent. More often than not, southern Chinese tend to look Southeast Asian (In fact, many times Koreans cannot tell the difference from physical appearance alone) and so look quite different than Koreans, Japanese, and many Northern Chinese, Mongols, Manchus, etc. and the cultural differences are wider in comparison. I'm not saying that Koreans have a greater affinity for Northern Chinese either, but you can say that they are more preferable or "acceptable" to the average diehard Korean view especially since they tend to have a "familiar" Korean type face. I guess the key here is that Asians generally tend to be more accepting and/or comfortable when they are around people that look like themselves...initially anyway. And this is a BROAD generalization/observation of course from my 30 short years, lol.
AAX Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 19:28:54 (PDT)

KAF

Are you for real?
You sound like a Chinese guy pretending to be a Korean female.
I know a lot of Chinese men (usually from southern origin) have false perception that Korean females are more attractive than Chinese girls. A lot of them look up to Koreans as superior to them. It is sad, but true.
Chinese girls are as attractive as Korean Girls Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 19:03:23 (PDT)

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