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CHINESE MALE/ COREAN FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:23:48 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to females of Corean ancestry?
Their facial features | 68%
Their physique | 11%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 6%

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with females of Corean ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 12%
Assuming you are a female of Corean ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to males of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 57%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 21%
Their education & cultural values | 16%

Assuming you are a female of Corean ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with males of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 2%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 9%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 69%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 20%


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Have any of you noticed that when Korean girls go out with Chinese, Vietnamese or Filipino guys, it is always the Korean girls doing it? Why is that?

Oh really? cuz, for you boys corean girls are a staus symbol. besides don't fool yourself i'm around the corean social scene in nyc, and i have yet to seen corean girls with any viets or flips, i know of one chinese guy with a corean girl. but most of his friends are corean.

Maybe because they are attracted to a different type of looking Asians? Those Chinese, Viet and Flip guys are darker, shorter, more slender but more talkative than Korean and Japanese guys. They know how to strike up and keep a conversation going, while Korean guys just try to attract a girl by his pretty face.

Corean guys are very outgoing, you have no clue what you are talking about. i'm glad you said we are better looking, thanks.

Girls would of course go for the ones whom they can talk and laugh with, not the ones who expect you to look and love them.

DID THIS STATEMENT MAKE SENSE?

And, Chinese, Viet and Flip guys are viewed as bad boy types. They have more vices compared to Korean men. Maybe girls are attracted to this sense of danger and carefree ways. It is not as routine and predictable as it is with Korean guys.
I don't go for them, they hit on me Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 16:29:56 (PDT)
Just look how insignifiant you are. goldsea doesn't even have viet or flip men and corean women poll, why? cuz, corean girls just aren't interested.
bad boys? too many chow yun fat movies?
woooo...i want to a gangsta loser.
PASS THE DUTCH....MON    Tuesday, August 06, 2002 at 20:47:11 (PDT)
Korean girl,

The opposite is true as well. Chinese are very reluctant to date Koreans--even Koreans who are rich.

Why? Because rich Koreans are simply successful liquor store owners or nail shop owners. Money from these enterprises are looked down upon by the Chinese.

If you go to any K-town, you too will know how "they do live for a living."
That Much Harsher From the Flip Side    Monday, August 05, 2002 at 11:27:54 (PDT)

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Chinese girls are as attractive as Korean girls,

One day if not already,you will find the right guy, Asian or not. I myself, nor my husband have ever heard such perception about Chinese women. We live in Seattle and the whole asian social discussion is pretty benign.
Good Luck
KAF    Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 18:24:15 (PDT)
AAX
I think you hit the nail on the head, I think most Corean Americans can't tell the difference between Chinese Americans and Southeast Asians. And since Corean Americans don't have the highest opinion of Southeast Asians they might be lumping the darker southern Chinese with Southeastern Asians. In Asia and perhaps around the world, darker means inferior, less educated, etc. I'm not trying to justify if at all, its wrong of course but reality. I do feel closer to Northern Chinese than Southern ones. I don't think there is alot of Corean women marrying Chinese guys, I seldom hear of such unions.
Daanng:
You're not a true Corean, kimchi is addictive,it does stink and needs some getting used to but once yoiu develope taste for it yuou can't get enough, even my wife( white)and most of my ex girlfriends (mostly white)loved it.
I have a causcasian friend who actually regularly buys it at the Corean market. LOL
Sean    Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 18:02:47 (PDT)
Have any of you noticed that when Korean girls go out with Chinese, Vietnamese or Filipino guys, it is always the Korean girls doing it? Why is that?

Maybe because they are attracted to a different type of looking Asians? Those Chinese, Viet and Flip guys are darker, shorter, more slender but more talkative than Korean and Japanese guys. They know how to strike up and keep a conversation going, while Korean guys just try to attract a girl by his pretty face.

Girls would of course go for the ones whom they can talk and laugh with, not the ones who expect you to look and love them.

And, Chinese, Viet and Flip guys are viewed as bad boy types. They have more vices compared to Korean men. Maybe girls are attracted to this sense of danger and carefree ways. It is not as routine and predictable as it is with Korean guys.
I don't go for them, they hit on me    Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 16:29:56 (PDT)
AAX,

I don't see it as you do. Not even the so-called northern Chinese look anything close to Koreans. Just look at Jet Li (Kungfu star actor) and Wang Zhizhi (basketball player). They are native Beijing northern Chinese (close enough to Korea geographically). If you look at their faces, they look just as Han (southern Asian) as do the Cantonese. Don't deny your Han roots and claim Altaic. You are not.
Seung Kim    Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 16:24:45 (PDT)
The fact that so many people (I suspect Korean guys) who jump on this board and spew forth so much hate and mud on the love between fine young Chinese and fine young Korean women are player haters and indicative of how common dating is between Korean girls and Chinese boys. I feel a sense of urgency and raw emotions from the hate letters I read here. Those people who post it only make themselves look more bad. They got no play, no game and no love. It is just so reflective by reading the stuff on this board. Some of you go to extreme extents in the the verbal insults.

I am not jealous if a Chinese girl is dating a non-Chinese. It's just her choice and I only try to be a better man for any girl I meet.

Like it or not, Chinese men and Korean women have been dating each other for a long time (since the beginning of time) and we will continue to do so. I just love America, the land of so much opportunities.
let them love who they want to love    Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 16:21:26 (PDT)
Mislead and Deceived,

That was an awesome letter, I couldn't have said it better.

To "Chinese girls are as attractive as Korean girls",

I'm a Chinese man married to a Korean girl. Believe me, I don't know one single Chinese man who thinks Chinese girls are any less attractive than other women, and I've never heard of this southern origin perception.I don't doubt your perception,but I do know that ALL ethnicities have their strength and liabilities and that is what makes us all equal.

Now,"Korean girl",

You sound like one of those people who criticized the "Cosby Show" because you believed it was unrealistic to see an African American family headed by two professional parents.Your caste system is so obsolete you don't even realize how silly it sounds.
ABC    Sunday, August 04, 2002 at 16:20:44 (PDT)

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