Chinese Male / Japanese Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

CHINESE MALE/ JAPANESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:23:43 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, what most attracts you to females of Japanese ancestry?
Their facial features | 67%
Their physique | 6%
Their attitude and personality | 22%
Their education and cultural values | 5%

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, what most dissuades you from relations with females of Japanese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 0%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 8%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 74%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 18%

Assuming you are a female of Japanese ancestry, what most attracts you to males of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 46%
Their physique | 8%
Their attitude and personality | 24%
Their education and cultural values | 22%

Assuming you are a female of Japanese ancestry, what most dissuades you from relations with males of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 4%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 6%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 68%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 22%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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I am Chinese man 100% ^_*
I uesd to know this Japanese girl, she was really nice and attractive but we never gone further than friends, until I asked her out everything was all GO!!! But the nextday she's like nothing happened, saying the same thing over and over: hi, how are you? as if she was playing a game of chess!?!!?

One thing I find is she never expressed how she felf,I didn't know what how when.......with her???

I have to agree with the poll, (I don't think they would find me attractive)!!!

P>S, She truely broke my heart!! ~_~,

Tensai101 tensai101@hotmail.com Saturday, October 06, 2001 at 02:16:51 (PDT)

Hi,

I've started to hang out with this Japanese girl who is attending college
here in the states. I think we get along fairly well.

If I'm interested in becoming a little more than friends, is it better to move "fast" or "slow". For American women, I've found that it's better to try and move fast, otherwise you'll stay merely at the "friends" level.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not interested in a fling, however, I would like the relationship to become more "romantic".

In general, do Japanese women prefer more aggressive men or prefer something that evolves from regular friendships.

Any suggestions? She's 27 yo and grew up in Tokyo. I'm Chinese American and grew up in the US.

Thanks!
Tol tolstor@hotmail.com Wednesday, September 26, 2001 at 10:21:24 (PDT)

I am japanese female married to a chinese man. I think we are one of the happiest couples around! ;)
zhoutaitai

What is the best race, i don't know, and i think there is no best race!. Iam half Korean/Japanese, i was born in Korea, and i was raised up in the Netherlands(adopted). My Dutch parents learn me to respect everbody. I don't care where you from!!, its the inside what counts!. If i cut a Japanese, or Chinese, or a black person, what do you see???!!!, the same colour RED!!!!. Isn't!!!?.
Yuko Matsuda

lai,

You might want to keep your personal history (i.e. 'only dating white guys') from your future Asian husband, because from I where I hail, it's called selling out, unless you only dated white guys because there were no Asian men around (God bless him, I feel sorry for your future man). But hey, at least by lying to him you'll save him from feeling like a cheap replacement for your white boytoys. Just try to make up for your stupid actions in the past by being as good a partner to him as you can. God forbid I run into a woman like you in the future (scary thought). I mean, I'm not against dating whites for legit reasons, but if you did it b/c you have an infereiority complex, then I suggest that you keep it under wraps from him.
God Forbid...

Japanese Women & girls RULE......
I think Chinese and Japanese can get along fine.
Naoki, Chinese/Cambodian Male

I am a Chinese female. I find it is very disturbing that some Japanese or Korean women tell their white male friends that they only date white and they don't like asian males. As a female I look at men as individuals. I am attracted to them because they have qulities I long for, not because they are white or asian. Dear femal follows, please stop being so superficial!! Also I don't think Chinese is better than Japanese or any race is better than others. But, we can learn things from other cultures.
Moody cat

I like japanese girl because their so nice and unique.
James james_c68@hotmail.com

I am a Japanese/Korean woman who has only dated caucasians. Until I moved to this remote part of the world (the small town in eastern US) I did not know what it was to feel so alone and unusual and looking different. I now look back with fondness on the Asian males I knew in Hawaii, and you know, I will now more than likely marry Asian - because time has shown me that I am so much more comfortable - food/thinking process/interests with Asian men. I rather find Chinese men, Hong Kong/Taiwanese/Chinese American to be very attractive in all ways-personality/appearance and sweetness.
lai

Our Han blood is simply the best
chinesemale23

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