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CHINESE MALE/ JAPANESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
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Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:23:43 PM
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Curious Taiwanese American Guy,
well I dont know about american taiwanese, and is those japanese woman you are chasing after true japanese?(born in japan)?
Well if they are, start dressing like a taiwanese man or teen(similar to japan clothing) and talk in your native tongue *chinese* and act all like... excuse me.. where is tokyo tower?And make sure u are tall.... cause during I heard japanese woman liked the fact that there are tall men in china (also tall men in japan..but u know ppl).And be handsome~~~
Better yet.... Be yourself~ If she doesn't like u... find another one.
baka!
Saturday, February 16, 2002 at 19:00:45 (PST)
There's this guy at my school who is Chinese, and he's going out with a Japanese girl. I don't think that they are having any problems. On a side note, if there are any objects on my part, it's just because I like him. Oh well.
Cali
Saturday, February 16, 2002 at 14:02:19 (PST)
Japanese seem girls love me!
I'm Chinese American male. I've known a few Japanese girls, was with this really sweet airline hostess for many years. Although it didnt work out in the end, i will never forget her and she will always be special to me. I'm with a Chinese girl now, but definitely have had many admirers who are japanese americans and/or Japanese. I work at a Japanese bank, and honestly I find the girls there to be so receptive, even the ones that are not available.
I really dont see an issue with Chinese/Japanese, etc. We're pretty much the same; look pretty much the same. I think as long as women find you attractive your nationality is no issue. I think this is definitely the case with Japanese women and Chinese Men.
BTW: I think Japanese women in general make better girlfriends than Chinese American women. CHAm are usually the ones with the attitudes from my experiences. Chinese girls, those that arent born in the US are the best however. Just my experiences. Not being judgemental.
Well, just a few thoughts from a ChAm male.
ChAm male in NYC
Saturday, February 16, 2002 at 00:23:02 (PST)
Curious Taiwanese American guy,
In Japan, you find lots of Chinese and Taiwanese men with a Japanese live in girlfriend or wife more than the other way around. This was common in my generation (i'm in the 50s) and probably more so now. Japanese girls if approached by a Chinese or Korean guy will often prefer them over native Japanese men.
Yokohama lady
Friday, February 15, 2002 at 16:10:55 (PST)
""I find Japanese women to be very attractive, but I wonder if they would be interested in Chinese men. I have read and heard that Japanese have a deep-seated feeling that Chinese are second class.
Curious Taiwanese-American guy""
--If it makes you feel any better, the Japanese have that feeling with all other non-Japanese people as well, except maybe the whites to whom they kow tow to all the time.
But seriously, there is no sense making generalizations since every person is different no matter where they come from. Japanese and Koreans for example have hated each other's guts for awhile and the prejudice Japanese have against Koreans is well documented. However, that doesn't prevent the fact that many Japanese and Koreans end up marrying one another and even more so now. Treat the lady like a lady. Unless you do something moronic like blow your nose in your hand in front of her, you should be all right.
GDS KA
Friday, February 15, 2002 at 12:56:06 (PST)
I'm a japanese female and had the exeperience of going out with a chinese male. If it wasn't for unfortunate circumstances, he would definitely be the one for me. He has confidence, sweetness, humor, wit ... just everything. We could have been good together.
nisei female
Saturday, February 02, 2002 at 18:39:13 (PST)
I find Japanese women to be very attractive, but I wonder if they would be interested in Chinese men. I have read and heard that Japanese have a deep-seated feeling that Chinese are second class.
I wonder how women from Japan would respond to a Chinese-American guy's attempt to get to know them?
Curious Taiwanese-American guy
Monday, December 24, 2001 at 21:10:08 (PST)
wow, there is actually a website for this. kewl.
anyhow,
i ve been going out with a japanese chick for over a year and eight months and she is totally a dream come true.
i am a chinesecambodianthailaofrenchamerican gook and she is "pure" japanese (whatever the heck that means).
we get along because we don't believe in culture and religion which tends to seperate people.
racism sucks, i experienced this growing up in america and realize one way to end racism to get rid of the idea called RACE. i am telling you to GET the HELL outside of your puny customs and traditions of your country and experience the world (gosh darn you!).
i don't like it when people love their culture and country so much that they become narrow minded idiots like the people and family members that i grew up with. as you younger gens know, your parents suck. they teach you history and history is sometimes full of lies and made up facts. they can bend history to influence feelings and thoughts.
i grew up hearing how horrible the "other culture" is because of what they did in the past...well to that, i say who gives a crap. why the in hell would you want your kids to learn hate? do you see the situation in the middle east? religion. culture. race. boundaries. history. the hell what them all.
many worlds dudes, why the hell this one? creamymommy@hotmail.com
Sunday, December 09, 2001 at 18:26:50 (PST)
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