Chinese Male / Vietnamese Female Relationships | Asian American Poll

CHINESE MALE/ VIETNAMESE FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:23:28 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to females of Vietnamese ancestry?
Their facial features | 72%
Their physique | 12%
Their attitude and personality | 13%
Their education and cultural values | 3%

Assuming you are a male of Chinese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with females of Vietnamese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 13%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 68%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family. | 18%

Assuming you are a female of Vietnamese ancestry, which of the following most attracts you to males of Chinese ancestry?
Their facial features | 63%
Their physique | 8%
Their attitude and personality | 15%
Their education & cultural values | 14%

Assuming you are a female of Vietnamese ancestry, which of the following most dissuades you from relations with males of Chinese ancestry?
I don't find them physically attractive. | 1%
I don't find their personalities and attitudes appealing. | 10%
I don't think they would find me attractive. | 71%
I'd rather not deal with the disapproval of family and friends. | 18%

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I'm a pure vietnamese girls, but alot of people think I'm filipino or mix or sometimes hispanic. I don't really know why, I'm not mix or anything, both my parent are pure vietnamese. I thought it was not a good thing to look mix or whatever. I don't know, alot of times I wish I look alot more asian.
Bebee Tuesday, June 25, 2002 at 16:31:22 (PDT)

I must say that the Vietnamese girls with a little French blood is the bomb!

They look just like Hispanic women, with more well-endowed and proportioned bodies. It is very sexy when they have this type of body along with an Asian face. It is just so sexy!

I must say that Vietnamese and Filipina who resembles Hispanic girls are the most beautiful looking in this world!

These 3 groups look like Hapa girls, but without the white attitudes.
lover of all women Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 14:10:19 (PDT)

To the one that posted to the TraveLLEr:

goto: Comparing Asian Nationalities page
The TraveLLer Friday, June 21, 2002 at 19:16:34 (PDT)

To, the traveller;

"which is now known as the Cambodian "Mon-Khmer""

Wrong, the Cham and the khmer empires were TOTALLY different. They may have blood relations but they were totally different empires all together. The khmers and the Cham were historically recorded to have warred with one another and the Cham only moved to where cambodia is today because of the vietnamese peoples hatred for them, for that they had for no reason sacked the capital of the vietnamese nation at that time and killing half the inhabitants, in retalliation their land has been seized.

"That is why the Vietnamese local king has to sacrifice and give some tokens away to the Chinese emperor yearly."

This is called TRIBUTE, smaller countries pay bigger countries so that they DO NOT attack. This DO NOT in anyway mean that the weaker country is under the bigger countries control, just that fear existed. Like the mongols who had the pope himself pay tribute to them, but in no way was italy part of mongolia during kublai khan's time. Plus a leader is the man that the people choose, so what does it mean that the chinese called our leader a 'landlord'? We never actually accepted another leader or recognized anyone else, we saw him as a ruler. And plus that is if your analogy is true, the vietnamese people always had an emperor. What others consider them is no matter of our own. Another weak insight.

"The Ming dynasty of China during the 1700's was to annex into its empire"

Just to let you know, the Ming empire had TOTAL control over vietnam for a little over twenty years. They castrated boys, raped women, and killed men to weaken the vietnamese spirit to assimilate them into the chiense han, but once again it did not work and the people once again stayed loyal to the vietnamese blood.

"Prior to that all of the Vietnam local kings are considered to be "Vuong" or in chinese "Wang", the status is equivalent to the European middle age as "landlord""

But to the contrary, if you go even farther back the vietnamese were originally indepenent, they were said to be the Yueh. After bring conquered there WAS NO actual emperor, just a leader of the people. In this one thousand years alone the vietnamese people warred ten times, that doesn't make it seem that we submitted well.

"The high class and rulers of Vietnam spoke different language than the commoners. They spoke the "Han" language, the pronounciation is similar to Cantonese; however, its dialect derives mostly from the Mandarin."

For the entire time the vietnamese language was under restrictions. AT half the times it was even OUTLAWED. BUT, your observation is once again WRONG. The commoners AND The upperclass learned the vietnamese language in underground schools, which were funded by the "wang/voung" themselves. The upperclass no matter how close to the chinese learnt vietnamese in underground schools. ALL of the famous vietnamese poets spoke vietnamese and were good friends with the people. Poets like Nguyen Binh Khiem and many others spoke vietnamese. The WRITING was in chinese, that is how the nobility of the chinese and vietnamese communicated. You think if the upperclass spoke "han" the people wouldn't? Plus another thing you have gotten wrong. The vietnamese language as a whole has A LOT more influence from cantonese, if your analogy where we spoke "han" is true then why were we more influenced by cantonese? PLUS, HAN is an ethnic NOT A LANGUAGE. Another mistake.

"Imagine how 10,000 French Soldiers can control more than 15 million people in Vietnam..."

Yeah, that's why all of the vietnamese peoples heros at that time were against the french. And the same reason why we celebrated when the french lost right? Man, we may have been influence but we didn't want to be slaves EVER. You tell me we wanted to be slaves and YOU ARE NOT a viet for sure. How can 10 thousand men control 15 million? Especially when most of them were rural and spread out, the french had extensive influence on the urban MINORITY. VERY SMALL.

AND i agree with the moderator/editor, please let this slip through, because it will teach the traveller to actually know, rather then read one source and blabe on in a forum which it has no connection too. Even in these forums there are knowledgeable people.

Here's a GOOD advice, STOP POSTING HISTORICAL info in relations forum/thread.
GO HERE: http://goldsea.com/Poll/Comparing/comparing.html

Thanks for your patience my good editor.
Man, misinformation again, and go to the comparing thread for historical stuff Thursday, June 20, 2002 at 17:50:58 (PDT)

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