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WHAT WOMEN WANT ON A FIRST DATE
(Updated
Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:46 PM
to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)
Assuming you are a woman, which most closely matches your idea of a great first date?
Coffee and Conversation |
51%
Picnic in the Country |
3%
Brunch and Tennis |
1%
Dinner and Movie |
45%
Assuming you are a woman, which gesture by your date would you most welcome?
Brings flowers or candy |
2%
Arrives precisely on time |
72%
Compliments your appearance |
9%
Calls the next morning |
17%
Assuming you are a woman, what's the worst mistake a guy can make on a first date?
Showing up late |
5%
Showing up badly dressed/groomed |
7%
Hogging the conversation |
3%
Making a premature sexual advance |
85%
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I just read the last through the last 6 pages back on this list because I'm going out on a first date (and first interracial date) later on this afternoon. I'm soooo nervous even though I've know this guy for months now. Yes guys, he is black, but only half and the other half is Japanese. He is not gangster but does swear every now and then but no more than any other man I would guess. What keeps me confused is I cannot find anyone that has actually dated him before - but know PLENTY of women interested in him. He seems perfect in every way but then again I still don't know much about him (other than he is some super karate champ, drives a benz and is the finance business but weird cause I met him working at a club???). He's a CATCH!?!? and a good one (I think) - tall, musculer, handsome and kind of cute. There has to be something wrong with this guy. I'm almost afraid that I'll be looking for something wrong with him. Like maybe a 'little' problem (but he is Six foot three). Should I be nervous? How far should I let him go on a first date when I have known him so long. How much should I tease or even bait him for a 2nd date. What the hell am I doing pouring all of this out on the internet for?
spoiled Viet lady
Saturday, May 25, 2002 at 11:01:30 (PDT)
Beijing Angelique,
I totally agree with you about asian guys being so hot. They are!!! I work out at this gym where the majority of the clientele seems to be white...I have no problem chatting it up with/working out in front of all the 'big, buff white guys' or whatever...there are so many of them around, but I don't find them attractive...I suppose this helps me concentrate on working out!!!
Anyway, a new guy just starting working at the gym...he's a personal trainer...and he's the only asian guy working there out of all the personal trainers. Dang, he is hot...whenever he's around, I feel a bit self-conscious.
Interestingly enough, he's the only personal trainer guy walking around that I've really noticed and found interesting...
Cute Chinese Girl
Tuesday, May 21, 2002 at 13:26:41 (PDT)
What I want in a first date is dry, crisp sunny weather if it's a day date. A movie or trip to the museum is an ice-breaker cuz you have something more to talk about (stars, favorite movies, art etc.) Coffee and snack afterwards in a nice outdoor cafe. A stroll outdoors anywhere. If it's a night date, a movie and restaurant afterwards. He can plan for it or ask me what I want to see or where I want to eat.
No flowers or candy. Too romantic for someone I don't know. Simple compliment like "you look great" is all that's necessary. No lingering looks on body please. I like somewhat chatty dates and good conversation.
AMs are #1
Friday, May 03, 2002 at 07:47:06 (PDT)
wondering:
Good question man !!! Okay...why did I notice those two particular guys...?
Well... one of the hot guys was one of the hosts for the event. He was not cute...he was HANDSOME. He also stood out because he was one of the tallest guys there. There is just this charisma about him that catches attention. He was "Cool."
But really...what I found the most attractive about him was his confidence. I like it that he can just say hi and start a conversation even if it's really brief. There were other guys there that night that would just stare at you ruthlessly and yet did not open their mouth once.
I wish that Asian guys (SO HOT 0_~) would be more initiative and worry less about how it would make them look and how the girl would react.
Beijing Angelique
Tuesday, April 30, 2002 at 21:19:16 (PDT)
Du£º
Okay okay!! That was a little exaggerated. Now I think about it...there were more like 8 good looking guys out of maybe 100.
Me IS attracted to Asian guys!!!!! I'm Chinese !
For example...if I'm talking to a hot white guy....I can be really relaxed because I don't really find white guys attractive like that anymore. But when I talk to a hot Asian guy...I'm a bit nervous inside and there's like a neutral intimidation or something ...!!!!!
Now...I would call that ATTRACTION man!!!
Beijing Angelique ( F.O.B)
Monday, April 29, 2002 at 22:08:25 (PDT)
Beijing Angelique...Only attracted to Asian guys!!!!!!!
What was it about those 2 out of 200 asian guys that made you look twice? There might have been something to distinguish them from the others.
wondering
Monday, April 29, 2002 at 21:47:31 (PDT)
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