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POLL & COMMENTS
BEST & WORST OF DATING ASIANS
(Updated
Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:30 PM
to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)
What's the best thing about dating an Asian?
Laughing together over funny and bizarre incidents encountered by Asians. |
69%
Knowing your date isn't confusing your personality with racial stereotypes. |
14%
Not having to give long historical discourses to explain your background. |
5%
Enjoying the tacit approval of family. |
12%
What's the worst thing about dating an Asian?
Wondering whether your date likes you or your background. |
27%
Raising family expectations of marriage. |
11%
Being thought to harbor conservative ideas about love and marriage. |
10%
Coping with Asian conservatism toward premarital sex. |
2%
Being dragged into yet another Asian gossip circle. |
23%
Possibility of the family disapproving of the relationship. |
27%
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MLK,
no, I'm not married (strange assumption, btw, as if you had never read one of my comments before). I've lost some of my "friends" because of their datings. I suggest that showed my temperament is significally different from theirs.
"Fun?"-Take a look at a certain comment of mine in the bi-cultural forum.
rare stuff
Wednesday, July 31, 2002 at 13:17:16 (PDT)
AC
Yeah, I can just imagine, you completely bald-headed and wearing an orange jail outfit, typing away on a computer in the jail library about world events in China and Taiwan. :)
Technically, we're not strangers. We're using technology to communicate, and I dare say, I communicate more with you than some of my coworkers on a daily basis. We're only strangers in the classic sense, of not ever having shaken hands over a cup of coffee. But if we can laugh at the strangest things and talk about everything under the moon, then how can you say we are strangers?
We may be a bit strange, but hardly strangers.
And yes, you would be quite butch for a woman. Come to think of it, that would explain some strange things that you have mentioned in passing...hmmmm makes me wonder now about your sexual orientation...hmmmmmmm...
MLK
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 21:20:18 (PDT)
Hank Lewis
:)
Aw, you're sweet. Your wife is a really lucky lady, you know that Hank.
I used to live in New Orleans for a few years (it was a Tulane try-out). I thought I could get used to it, and I did love the food. In fact, it was the only thing I really miss about New Orleans (that and the music. NO jazz has got to be the best kind of music all around). But you're right, it's really backwards and very low-brow. Cro-Magnons all over the place. And the heat was so intense, I was in a perpetual steam bath anytime I ventured outside. Glad to be in California!
And no, I have absolutely no lesbianic tendencies at all. Never thought about it, and on the rare occasion that I do (like when we were talking about the taste of it), I kinda got a little sick. Guess I'm not as adventurous as I think I am, sexually, huh? :)
MLK
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 21:11:55 (PDT)
rare stuff,
With comment like "I let my little brother or good friend consumate my marriage for me." We are most definitely operating on different wave lengths.
It is from my experience, the most comfortable place to be is within the folds of a loving woman.
Oral sex, anal sex, phone sex, manual release, between boobs, celibacy, etc does not compare to the feeling of when a man is within the folds of an aroused female.
It is enough to make a gay man go straight, when done right. :)
AC Dropout
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 15:11:24 (PDT)
Hank Lewis,
Whoowiee, you a good ol' boy.
Going down south to get some homey grits I see. :)
AC Dropout
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 15:02:17 (PDT)
AC Dropout,
the first dating should be a mirror image of what will follow during the time of being married. Otherwise it wouldn't be straigt forward, but a complicated relationship.
For the ideal case which I mentioned:
If I had a little brother I would let him do the dirty work. If I'll ever marry I'd arrange that a friend of mine would do what I'm to lazy for,i.e. sexual intercourse.
rare stuff
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 07:45:36 (PDT)
MLK:
I grew up in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. South Louisiana has its good and bad points a plenty. The problem is what's good is really good (Cajun food, mixture of cultures, partying) and what's bad is really bad (certain areas of the region like Denham Springs where the KKK is highly visible, political corruption being an art form, lack of diversification in the Economy, alcholism). While I can go back to Louisiana to visit, I just can't live there because after living in Austin, Houston, Seattle, Vancouver and San Diego, I just can't live in a place that doesn't have more a forward thinking attitude about certain issues. Anytime I go visit, I feel like I've gone back in time about 20 years sociologically.
Lastly, it's good you don't worry about how it tastes in that it removes any doubts about you having Lesbian tendencies (not that there's anything wrong with it...) and that you have enough confidence not to worry what your fellow is tasting when he gets down to business. Some women are a little self-conscious about that when they have no reason to be. (Okay--sorry for reopening that topic!!!)
Hank Lewis
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 06:52:37 (PDT)
Oooooookay,
Whether you think it's funny or not, I think Linoet's points are valid. I would recommend trying to say something intelligent or humorous rather than nastily criticzing.
Dumbarton
Tuesday, July 30, 2002 at 06:30:43 (PDT)
rare stuff
Aw, come on Rare Stuff...I can't believe you would be lazy on something like that! Dating and romance is supposed to be fun. If it wasn't, this world would be a dreadfully dull place to be living in.
Give it a try. I think you would like it. And none of that arranged stuff either. How could anyone choose someone for another individual? That's not even feasible, especially for unique individuals like you (and even me!)
Are you married? Did your spouse get chosen in that way? Or did you choose your own spouse?
MLK
Monday, July 29, 2002 at 22:36:20 (PDT)
I am caucasian and I have dated a Korean and am currently dating a Vietnamese guy.
deb wildboysrio@aol.com
Monday, July 29, 2002 at 19:49:21 (PDT)
MLK,
I would never doubt the pic you posted, unless it was someone famous. Then I go you know you look like someone famous.
Do I write or behave like a woman on goldsea? I would be a pretty butch woman then.
Technically we are strangers. We've never met. For all you know I can be an innate with internet access, waiting for my next parole hearing. hmmmmm.....dangerous indeed in a brave new world.
So you admit that you're a flirt and a tease. Most women I know don't do that in real life, until you get a few drinks into them. I'm glad I don't participate in such unseemly behavior. ^_^
AC Dropout
Monday, July 29, 2002 at 15:42:17 (PDT)
SPRNZ,
I'm still not sure on this whole PC muscle thing. I know some women who complain if Mr. Bird starts wiggling too much in there.
That whole love element is subjective. Just close your eyes and pretend it just someone you love. hehehe
Anyway I'm still confused by the ping pong balls. How do they fit into this whole Mr. Bird, Ms. Bee analogy.
AC Dropout
Monday, July 29, 2002 at 15:35:31 (PDT)
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