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WHAT AA MEN WANT IN A DREAM AF
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:19 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an AA male, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA woman?
Cool & Sophisticated | 30%
Warm & Caring | 67%
Sultry & Sensuous | 0%
Bubbly & Sociable | 3%

Assuming you are an AA male, what would be the body type of your ideal AA woman?
Waiflike (size 1/2) | 1%
Slim (size 3-6) | 52%
Shapely (size 7-10) | 47%
Voluptuous (size 11 & up) | 0%

Assuming you are an AA male, what would be the height of your ideal AA woman?
Short (5-3 & Under) | 0%
Average (5-4 to 5-6) | 53%
Tall (5-7 to 5-9) | 47%
Supertall (5-10 & Above) | 0%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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short, fat, dumb, and depressed:

I have so much respect for you in a sense that you have such a unique/refreshing personality!!! (I have read a couple of your other posts on other polls.)

Very cool.

Besides...your description doesn't sound bad at all. I have a friend who is 4'11 and she is absolutely gorgeous.
I also know you wear glasses(from a post of yours a while back)...hehehe...
ME TOO!!! (Or at least I should...)
Anyways...your glasses just indicate that you must be a very knowlegable and well-read person.

Your Fan, Beijing Angelique Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 00:31:27 (PDT)

To g and anonymous, if you think that all asian men want waiflike girls, then why is it that on this poll only 1% (yes ONE percent) chose size 1/2 (waiflike) as their ideal? Sizes 3-10 are the most ideal, and those are normal sizes, not waiflike.
please explain Friday, May 17, 2002 at 08:43:28 (PDT)

to short, fat, dumb, and depressed

hahaha, you make me laugh! How can you possibly call yourself dumb when you're taking the LSAT? 4'11 at 110 pounds is what they call petite, not short and fat. It's something I've often wanted to be when I felt too gangly and large around the small dainty girls with small hands and feet. You're beautiful just the way you are. If you want to be a little taller, wear platforms. They can bring you up at least three inches and make you look good in clothes. I wear them to look good in clothes and I end up towering over some of the guys (not good). Keep your long hair. I have found out (quite by accident, mind you) that men prefer women with long hair. They absolutely lust over long hair. Don't ask me why, I don't know. They just do.

To Anonymous
Not true. I'm curvy! In fact, too damn curvy, but Asian men are all I date. AMs like curvy girls just as much (if not more) than any other normal guy, but the majority of the AFs are thin, and so, that's why you'll see them with thinner girls, there's just more of the thin girls around.
MLK Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 21:25:39 (PDT)

Thanks M. Yes I do have a curvy figure, I have curvy hips and thighs and legs, but my boyfriend says that is what attracted him to me! He says he loves my curvy body and when he sees pictures of models in magazines he always says "Ugh, she is too skinny, she's just not attractive". So there ARE asian men that find curves attractive. I wear small sizes (4 or 6) but compared to a waif-like asian girl with stick thin arms and legs, I do look big. But all that matters to me is what I think of myself and what my boyfriend thinks of me.
curious girl Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 07:57:11 (PDT)

Hey all,

Hopefully I am the dream girl for some guy out there. Here are my stats:

Height: 4 foot 11 and a half
Weight: 110 pounds
straight black hair past shoulders
majoring in psychology...taking the LSAT for law school
medium tanned skin

short, fat, dumb, and depressed Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 23:07:44 (PDT)

to curious girl,

yes I am asian. I am chicky poo!
hmmm/chicky poo/I don't think you are fat! Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 17:26:18 (PDT)

me:

In defense of g, I do not think this person meant that anybody who is not waiflike is not desirable. I think he or she's point is that Asian men are most likely to be attracted to somebody who is thin. I know somebody who is a very pretty African-American girl who is very thin (yes, waiflike) who has experienced having a Thai boyfriend. I on the other hand, I have curves and guess what, I have never experienced having a boyfriend who is from Thailand. Does that mean that I am not desirable? Of course not, but me getting a boyfriend who is Asian is not very high or in my case, zero for they are not that attracted to women who are curvy.
Anonymous Wednesday, May 15, 2002 at 12:48:49 (PDT)

I can relate to curious girl. You probably look good and is slender. I also think that maybe you have curves and that can make you bigger than you look. Asian standards of thin is usually "waif-like". I myself can fit into junior sizes but I have been called fat because of my body type (I have a very shapely figure). The important thing, curious girl is that you are happy with your weight and I think your boyfriend is too.
M Tuesday, May 14, 2002 at 12:47:23 (PDT)

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