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WHAT AA MEN WANT IN A DREAM AF
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:18 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an AA male, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA woman?
Cool & Sophisticated | 30%
Warm & Caring | 67%
Sultry & Sensuous | 0%
Bubbly & Sociable | 3%

Assuming you are an AA male, what would be the body type of your ideal AA woman?
Waiflike (size 1/2) | 1%
Slim (size 3-6) | 52%
Shapely (size 7-10) | 47%
Voluptuous (size 11 & up) | 0%

Assuming you are an AA male, what would be the height of your ideal AA woman?
Short (5-3 & Under) | 0%
Average (5-4 to 5-6) | 53%
Tall (5-7 to 5-9) | 47%
Supertall (5-10 & Above) | 0%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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MLK, how 'bout this line?

Would you like to have breakfast with me? Should I call you or kick you?

Sorry, couldn't help it... Just saw the line suggested somewhere else...
AM manly man Thursday, May 23, 2002 at 00:00:12 (PDT)

gurliegirl:

Oooh...I love girly girls...especially when it's just "fake" and they really like having guy friends (even if I don't like the idea that they have so many guy friends when I'm dating the girl).

How old are you? Sounds like your metabolism is still sky-high, like that of many young Asians (stereotype?). I have an incredible metabolism, especially since I lift weights and do cardio a lot. Careful, though, cuz it's gonna gradually slow down as you age, especially if you don't take care of yourself.

Weight fluctuation of a few pounds over a matter of days is normal. A lot of it might have to do with water retention or dehydration. My own weight fluctuates a lot, but is very stubborn about staying within a very small range. The body is like that...it's homeostasis.

It's actually easy to gain weight if you know what to eat and don't mind that the weight is mostly fat tissue. Just eat very frequently (every 2-3 hours if you can), eat a lot of carbs, fats, and protein together (fats and protein optional, especially protein). Eat tons of carbs...have huge meals of pasta with lots of olive oil. Eat all the fast food you want... Eat first thing in the morning, and eat not too much earlier than when you go to bed.

In fact, a really good thing to do is to take 1-2 spoons of olive oil and take it like medicine at the end of several of your meals per day. Flax seed oil and fish oil are even better. These oils are extremely healthy (just don't overdo it). There's a lot of misinformation out there about fats being bad for you. I drink some juice first, throw down a couple of spoons of flax seed oil into the back of my mouth so I don't taste it much, then throw down some more juice to cover up the taste. Within a day of starting this, my skin started looking so much better. It's really a great source of energy. Plus, your body will actually tend NOT to store these types of healthy oils as fat in your body. Lots of other good stuff about it. ANYWAY...

It'd be even better if you could gain muscle weight by lifting weights properly. I love women who are fit with some muscles... strength, stamina, intensity from learning to lift weights, really strong legs... It's all gotta be good for something... ;)

AM manly man (Pokemon-Assassin) Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 22:32:24 (PDT)

MLK:

To look good in short hair, a girl needs to have a cute face. Like that girl in There's Something About Mary, or Sammi Cheng. Because the short hair, especially if it frames the face, will emphasize your face...so you better not mind people noticing your facial features more. Also, short hair seems to look better on those who naturally have a happy, joyful look on their face most of the time.

AM manly man (Pokemon-Assassin) Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 22:08:13 (PDT)

What do most guys want, honestly? Here's the MAIN thing. But, we want a girl who is HOT as hell!!!

-Sorry if this seems a little shallow, but trust me, you'll get over it.

"Big" & Tall, AM Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 18:31:36 (PDT)

MLK,

Not to sound too forward. But I absolutely adore the shoulder length cut. I think I saw the cow licks come back in the city recently. A shorter boy cut is also good. But a women needs good facial features to pull it off. But there are so many styles with shorter hair that any girl could look good with hair length from shoulder and above.

I like also short hair on women for practical purposes . Some women with longer hair don't wash them on a daily basis. And when they do wash their hair, it takes forever. Also waiting for women to prepare to go out who has long hair is a date in and of itself.

Also girls with long hair are forever worried about split ends. So once you get to know them and they act more casually around you they are forever looking at the ends of their hair looking for split ends.
AC Dropout Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 15:35:12 (PDT)

In my opinion, personality is absolutely the most important thing in a woman. An Asian girl who's physically plain but has a great personality will win me over every time.

I'm not saying this to score points with women. I'm saying this from experience. My church has a diverse group of congregants. On one particular Sunday I noticed this beautiful blonde sitting next to a plain Asian girl. The blonde had long hair, chiseled features and (yes, I noticed) big breasts. She was the center of male attention without a doubt.

We started talking, to get to know one another, and a funny thing happened. When it was the Asian girl's turn to speak, she lit up the room. I was amazed. She was unbelievably beautiful. She only said a few introductory things about herself, but somehow it was enough. I'm not sure how she did it, but she exuded intelligence, class, warmth, kindness, poise, charm and inner beauty all at the same time. For the rest of the morning, she totally overshadowed the blonde.

I am a happily married man (and too old for her), so I observe all this out of intellectual curiosity. I noticed a lot of young guys equally smitten with her. I think they probably started pursuing her that very afternoon.

AM who supports AF Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 13:17:40 (PDT)

ok MLK, i'll stand in line for you and I'll also pay for dinner too... but cannot afford to serve you dino meat.. It's all bone(mineral deposits) anyway. why would you want it? (did i hear someone willing to pay for Jurassic Park)
Also, i know this cute short hair girl--cute but not as pretty as another the long hair girl.

1/2LostSoul Wednesday, May 22, 2002 at 13:10:26 (PDT)

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