What AF Want in a Dream AM | Asian American Poll

WHAT AA WOMEN WANT IN A DREAM AM
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:08 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA man?
Reserved & Cultured | 8%
Warm & Understanding | 85%
Aggressive & Take-Charge | 7%
Party Animal | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the body type of your ideal AA man?
Thin | 1%
Trim | 54%
Sculpted (V-shape) | 45%
Stocky/Heavyset | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the height of your ideal AA man?
Short (5-6 or Under) | 0%
Average (5-7 to 5-9) | 51%
Tall (5-10 to 6-1) | 48%
Supertall (6-2 or Above) | 1%

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Thanks Sun Tzu for the straight-forward advise for men. There will always be exceptions to the rule, but I think you hit it right on the nose when you describe what AF wants. I only gripe is that a lot of AF tend to be difficult to approach. They look away and act uninterested. Why do women do this? It doesn't make sense to me. Wouldn't it be much easier to find someone decent if you were more friendly and approachable? Think about it, would you be interested in someone who appears to have a bad attitude? What you do attract are the selfish jerks with the over-inflated ego's. It's a self-defeating behavior if you think about it.

Panda Sunday, December 30, 2001 at 09:59:32 (PST)

I did mean "funny-haha" - type funny. I enjoy a good laugh!
chicky poo Saturday, December 29, 2001 at 17:36:14 (PST)

Why is it always the man who has to do everything in a relationship? A guy has to sweep the woman off her feet, keep her off her feet, always surprise her with gifts and vacations, initiate romance, drive them around everywhere, etc. Women on the other hand will just act kind, loving, and caring in return -but at the same time expecting more and more from her man. In other words, men will climb mountains for women but women will rarely do the same for men.
asian guy Friday, December 28, 2001 at 09:38:51 (PST)

chicky poo, sorry for saying this but "don't fall for their crap" is right.
He might come off as a jerk, but he is right.
I learned at a late age never to ask a woman what she wants in a guy, is like asking Afghanistan for Bin Laden, you won't get a honest answer. Mostly is not that females meant to lie, it is just that they are not aware of what they want.
I want to help young asian brother out there who have trouble in the dating world. There is just few things you have to realize.
You ever hear a woman say they want someone thats funny? What they really meant to say is they don't want a boring relationship. In a relationship you got the keep the woman on their feet. Mysterious, spontaneous, surprises, make the girl feel special and entertain. Thats what Chris Rock would meant "Rationalizing your dick" LoL you give them all the goodies at once and pretty soon the girl ill be bored and the relationship foul. Keep some element of surprises.
it is true, most girls want a guy who treats them good and are loyal to them. But them diffinately don't want a wimp either. Women are built with a nature desire for security, need for protection and support. Notice the repeating theme of I want a guy who is empolyed, confident, caring, good body and assertive? Those are all qualities of leadership and strength. Too often most of those qualities are asociated with a guys who are jerks, it is rare to find a gentleman who demonstrate both strength and sensitivity, so thats why you see a lot of girls dating jerks, because given a choice between a sensitive caring wimp or a jerk off guy who can protect them, 9 out of 10 girls pick the jerks. See girls have no choice, they cannot fnd a strong gentlemen so they go for the strong jerk over the weak caring guy.
Finally girls are sexual creatures who desires sex as much as you and I, tho social stigma has it that it is frown upon for girls to express desire of them liking sex, so girls are less expressive about it. Thats why, girls wants a guy who they are sexually attractive to as much as any other guy would want an attractive girl.
Guys general rule of thumb, don't treat a girl like a sacred object, treat them like a human as you are. Otherwise liek I said before they would get bored quick.
Second give the ladies something special and extraordinary, be strong, protect them, assertive yet respectful, be sensitive and thoughtful to their needs but don't show it in a gay way, treat them good but don't suufocate them with kindness.
And also make a better man of yourself, respect yourself, have a job so you can take care of your woman, have your own identity, no girls like a yesman. This way even if you are rejected at least you have a dignity.

Sun Tzu Thursday, December 27, 2001 at 11:57:22 (PST)

a revised list from Chicky Poo:

someone who is at easy & fun, but not boring.

thanks,

chicky poo Friday, December 21, 2001 at 05:49:19 (PST)

Naki --
I guess you're right. the list is completely useless. I am not someone who would want to be "the princess" or however mr.crap puts it but actually he's right: Nobody cares about anyone so it's best to understand this and not think that anyone ever cares about anything. Makes dating and life in general much easier.
chicky poo. not looking. Thursday, December 20, 2001 at 23:34:31 (PST)

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