What AF Want in a Dream AM | Asian American Poll

WHAT AA WOMEN WANT IN A DREAM AM
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:05 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA man?
Reserved & Cultured | 8%
Warm & Understanding | 85%
Aggressive & Take-Charge | 7%
Party Animal | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the body type of your ideal AA man?
Thin | 1%
Trim | 54%
Sculpted (V-shape) | 45%
Stocky/Heavyset | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the height of your ideal AA man?
Short (5-6 or Under) | 0%
Average (5-7 to 5-9) | 51%
Tall (5-10 to 6-1) | 48%
Supertall (6-2 or Above) | 1%

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bj angelique,

what about us chinese illiterates? I wouldn't mind knowing the last items on your list too!
chicky poo Friday, April 26, 2002 at 04:09:40 (PDT)

chicky poo:

How can you find one of those...?

It's very easy to find one of those.

It's only hard when you want to find a man with ALL of those:)

I don't think a man can have all of those qualities. It would probably take a bit of time and a few guys to experience all those qualities.
Beijing Angelique Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 22:36:58 (PDT)

I'm afraid these long shopping lists for male qualifications just reinforce the stereotype of asian women being superficial. Yes it's good to have standards, and not to settle, but for god's sake, 41 qualifications??

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my thoughts:

I'm not a representation of Asian women nor do I feel that my ideals are superficial.

Dude! You only live once...! Mind as well make your significant other worth while!

Those are not qualifications. Those are what I would prefer a man to be close to if I'm to rationally pick a guy. But my idea of love comes from books and it's not rational. So...most likely the love of my life could be far from those qualities.

You don't love a person based on how close they can live up to the qualities that you desire, you desire qualities based on how close they can describe the person you love !!

BJ Angelique Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 22:30:46 (PDT)

Moonshineprincess:

I don't know man! I associate bad personal hygiene with facial hair.
BJ Angelique Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 22:17:28 (PDT)

to BJ Angelique
Thanks for the literal Chinese translation.
"...So...you like good looking guys...???"
Doesn't everybody? Show me one girl who doesn't like to look at good-looking guys and I'll show you a lesbian or a male dressed in females' clothing. Of course, my standards for a mate is somewhat more complicated than just having a pretty face, but hey, it's a really really good starting point.
Re" Kashiwabara - Wow! That's some looker! Got any more exciting pics for me to stick my eyeballs on?

to chicky poo

That sounds about right for me too. Especially the "not a cheater" part. I would rip the foreskin off a guy who cheated on me. heehehe. j/k
MLK Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 20:14:57 (PDT)

screwed up chicky poo,

Yes, I don't know how the word foreskin got on this thread about Dream AM.

I always find the words "foreskin" and "stipend" great ice breakers on a first date.
AC Dropout Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 13:49:05 (PDT)

MLK,

Now you think I was male prostitute as a kid. Even though there were asian girls I knew in HS who were busted for a prostitution ring, I definitely had no involvment in that venture.

Sounds like you want Mr. Mom, not a mate. Better yet just marry a husband and hire a nanny/housekeeper/accountant to take care of the rest.

5'10" is that a height or length measurement? Wouldn't want to feel inadequate you know.
AC Dropout Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 13:41:51 (PDT)

For the simplified Chinese impaired

37. A talented person
38. Easy-Going
39. To have style (dashing)
40. To have deep thoughts
41. Dashing not Dirty

AC Dropout Thursday, April 25, 2002 at 13:31:33 (PDT)

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