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WHAT AA WOMEN WANT IN A DREAM AM
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:00 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA man?
Reserved & Cultured | 8%
Warm & Understanding | 85%
Aggressive & Take-Charge | 7%
Party Animal | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the body type of your ideal AA man?
Thin | 1%
Trim | 54%
Sculpted (V-shape) | 45%
Stocky/Heavyset | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the height of your ideal AA man?
Short (5-6 or Under) | 0%
Average (5-7 to 5-9) | 51%
Tall (5-10 to 6-1) | 48%
Supertall (6-2 or Above) | 1%

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SOG：

Qualities that make up the most memorable/significant love of your life are not necessarily qualities that will make a good husband out of a man. A good marriage requires sense...not sensibility.
AnGeLiQuE (10yrs too young to talk about complicated matters!!!!) Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 23:33:15 (PDT)

To Hannybunbun

Glad you found your dream guy. Glad that he is asian too. lol. I know that's almost impossiable in this world. Kudos to you.

Well know everyone knows what ac dropout is. lol.

SOG ( Soldier of God) Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 20:36:01 (PDT)

Hey AC Dropout,

I was wondering why you chose that name. Did you drop out of grad school in applied math? How did you end up starting your own business? I am sincerely interested since I have a similar background to yours and am leaving academia. It would be nice to have a role model, even in the lightest sense of knowing someone similar to me is out there and succeeding.

My wild guesses for what AC means:

Applied Combinatorics
Applied Crytography
Amherst College
Asian College
A Chinese
some play of words on AC/DC
Animal Cannibal
Ass Caning
Ass Caressing

Just kidding on those last few ones...

Honey Roasted Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 14:24:48 (PDT)

AC Dropout

"...unless for public image dictated I was not to pay myself and discretely take more stocks in the company instead (strike one on quality #1 from your list)."
You misunderstand me. What you are doing is called "wise allocation of funds" that has been cultivated and harvested from your own hard work. You hurt no one and rewarded yourself for a job well done. Didn't I say that "...money begs the intelligent man to please take it"? Integrity, in my humble opinion, is applied to situations like...hmm...the Enron scandal, where, as CEO, you actively pushed your worthless stocks on your employees and then cashed everything out at the last second, making yourself filthy rich and putting all those who have been loyal and faithful to you and your company for years, flat broke with no retirement funds and even in some cases, owing a lot of money on borrowed funds that went to buy the stocks. That, my dear AC, is what you call a culmination of strikes 1, 3, and 4 (integrity, fairplay, and compassion). I'll let the Enron executives keep #2, intelligence, but that's all they have going for them, and intelligence without the tempering effects of 1, 3, and 4, have horrible disastrous effects like that. I could never live with that kind of man. He would just give me the hives!

"...I'm just a normal guy."
Yes, you are. I've read some of your more scandalous offerings on other posts, and dare I say, they were just as disgusting as your finger-foods, to say the least. What was all that about--the mint and penis thing? A person could seriously injure herself with a peppermint candy stuck in her windpipe while doing other activities! I once knew a girl who died from a piece of chewing gum that lodged itself in her throat as she was singing in a choir!

As far as drinks go, why would anyone waste good wine throwing it on an over-inflated man? Liquids can't hurt a balloon ego, it just rolls off and makes a mess. What you need is a good barbed remark (or the pointed end of a stilleto heel) to puncture a hole or two in the right places. That and a good swift kick in the pants will always do the job.
MLK Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 12:44:03 (PDT)

1/2LostSoul

Yeah...I had a feeling that my standards were really high. It's not hard to find a good-looking guy, or a guy with lots of money. The gorgeous hunk who also has money is more difficult to find, but still nowhere near as difficult as what I'm looking for. That's why they're both (hot-stud & money-bags) at the bottom of my list. To find the man I want, I'd have to go back a few centuries, I think, when they still created men like that, because in this day and age...there's no such person who exists that can still be able to deal with life in the 21st century.

hahaaha! so true regarding your comment that there are "...less absolute truths as there are more many relative truths". I guess I should clarify that my ideal guy should have a relatively high amount of all of these (except for the fairplay...there is no such thing as a relatively fair man, except for this, that, and the other. A disloyal person is a disloyal person, and there's no relative half-shades there.

"...i don't believe that justice existance anymore (not that it ever existed)." And that, my dear 1/2 Lost Soul, is the reason why I only listed the first four qualitites and skimped on the rest. I'll give this to take that, you know, but it's hard to give on qualities like compassion, fairness, intelligence, and integrity. I'd rather do without the exquisite good looks and the bronze muscles and the loaded mansion on a hill with horses and expensive cars than skimp on a high-quality man who cares and understands and treats people fairly.
MLK Wednesday, May 08, 2002 at 12:12:57 (PDT)

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