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WHAT AA WOMEN WANT IN A DREAM AM
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:18:57 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA man?
Reserved & Cultured | 8%
Warm & Understanding | 85%
Aggressive & Take-Charge | 7%
Party Animal | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the body type of your ideal AA man?
Thin | 1%
Trim | 54%
Sculpted (V-shape) | 45%
Stocky/Heavyset | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the height of your ideal AA man?
Short (5-6 or Under) | 0%
Average (5-7 to 5-9) | 51%
Tall (5-10 to 6-1) | 48%
Supertall (6-2 or Above) | 1%

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AC Dropout,
I live through a crime infested neighborhood and still think in terms of good and evil. In fact, it was through the thoughts of good and evil, that I was able survive. Without that barrier, I may have ended in a gang and would have shortened life span.
Now that I'm in the corporate world, my thoughts good and evil are still there but with a lot more gray. There are actions/people who are evil(mean?) and I prefer not to become like them to succeed. I rather live a middle class existence rather than give up my integrity (poor existence?). It would be nice to have a fancy car, house, not worry about money but is it worth it to give up my morals? A devil’s bargain--a soul for material gains (I’m not religious.)
Also, what's with the line "...calculator to figure out your half including tax and tip, like those Japanese people. " I know asking for girl to pay for dinner--is your business.. but the disparaging…Japanese people...

1/2LostSoul Friday, May 17, 2002 at 09:34:54 (PDT)

be -
I've only been able to behave this way when I was not very interested in a guy, and therefore not nervous. I guess what it means is don't be desperate.

I've been burned before a few times, and now I'm just plain fearful.

but it's funny you should describe that you can only learn the hard way. I feel it applies to me too, though I'm trying to relearn another way. (... why does it always have to be the hard way??)

man, this is pathetic. ok, enough already.

chicky poo Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 19:51:37 (PDT)

to AC Dropout

heheehe, not really. I wouldn't bother figuring it out because I'll be in the ladies' room powdering my nose while you take care of the bill (including my measly half + tips). If you don't have enough, then and only then will I get out my pen and do my arithmetic on the napkin to figure out how much to come up for the difference of what's in your bank account and what's on the bill for dinner.

On second thought, it would probably be cheaper for me to cook you a meal.
MLK Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 19:50:10 (PDT)

hey ac dropout,

I don't understand how you could have figured out how to get beyond good & evil by 6th grade. that would have made you around 12 years old. that's around the time that girls start to get really screwed up! with what they are supposed to do / be.

Anyway, I guess I will just have to accept my life as a spinster, or buck up and try to face life, even though with my current feelings about the probable outcome of everything, I will probably be unlikely to be successful. ok, enough of the whining, I'm starting to make myself sick!

anyway, what I mean is I know that at this time, and probably for another 10 years, I'm going to find it extremely difficult to date/go out/meet people. and I know that times running out as I am already 30 something. oh my god.

ya.
chicky poo Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 15:08:51 (PDT)

MLK,

"This PEA then, is what we're all searching for when we hunt for game?"

Well PEA is already in your system. You are look for someone, stimulus, that will trigger the cascade to PEA into an amphetamine.
AC Dropout Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 14:59:00 (PDT)

MLK,

"I had always thought all along that love is not an emotion but an action based upon willful logical reasoning"

Depends on how you define love. If you go by the victorian definitions then you are absolutely correct. We choose who we woo, and who we will be receptive to being wooed. Free will all the way.

If you go by the psychological model, of templating mating. Then free will play less of a role. Because the template for a desirable mate is the accumulation of experiences a human has over the course of their pre-pubescent life.

However, if you try to understand love from the euphoric feeling humans feel, the narcortic model is far more accurate. Withdrawl symtom from breakups, Displaying physical and psychological addiction to the stimlus, and developing tolerance to the stimlus are all applicable in a relationship.

Consider "love" to be a multi-faceted experience. Perhaps all, or only one, of the definition may be applicable at any given time. Love is one of those things in life where many "truths" can apply.
AC Dropout Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 14:55:00 (PDT)

be,

Interesting very thoughtful. My only comments.

1) Most girls I've been with will drag me by the ear if they catch me serious flirting with another. Not to say flirting is always innocent. But it is okay to tell the guy its gone too far in a not so subtle manner.

4) The 'L' word is so over used in this day and age, it has almost no meaning sometimes. I say judge a person by his actions and deeds and not words. Granted guys who do point 1) too often will compromise this whole judging by deeds thing.
AC Dropout Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 14:21:15 (PDT)

be,

You're a tease. A good tease. But still a tease. ^_^
AC Dropout Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 12:22:56 (PDT)

MLK,

From a molecular biology view point, emotion and bodily response are the same thing. It is an electrical impulse traveling along a nerve. Your view of the world is just an electrical signal.

PEA is an anphatmine precursor found in strawberries, chocolate, the usual layman aphrodisiacs. The bodily response to it like any usually anphatamine, its tolarance level is about 7 years (hence, the 7 year itch), at which point an individual will search for another to provide the stimulus to PEA production.
But then there are also hormones associated with love. Usually on the onset of the first child this sets in. The hormones are even more addictive in nature, like morphine. Longer Pair bonding occurs from this hormone drugs.

" love is not an emotion but an action based upon willful logical reasoning."

The mechanism for love occur through evolution of an biological organism. There was no logic introduce the enviroment, hence the system is not logically based.
AC Dropout Thursday, May 16, 2002 at 12:18:16 (PDT)

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