WHAT AA WOMEN WANT IN A DREAM AM
(Updated to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA man?
Reserved & Cultured | 8%
Warm & Understanding | 85%
Aggressive & Take-Charge | 7%
Party Animal | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the body type of your ideal AA man?
Thin | 1%
Trim | 54%
Sculpted (V-shape) | 45%
Stocky/Heavyset | 0%

Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the height of your ideal AA man?
Short (5-6 or Under) | 0%
Average (5-7 to 5-9) | 51%
Tall (5-10 to 6-1) | 48%
Supertall (6-2 or Above) | 1%
firesnake,

Every kid who went to the specialized highschool, feels they're a dork at sometime or another. Even the cool kids in highschool. In the American psyche who ever heard of a cool kid taking 2 or more AP classes. Or taking all the regent exams.

Don't worry over time even the dorkiest person has someone pursuing them for love. Nothing is too hard for Cupid's butt-shaft.

"is it psychologically possible for one person to be a constant "stimulus for future highs"?""

If you believe in true love then yes it is possible. But like I stated before the amphetamine are later replaced by hormones in a pyshical addiction aspects of biochem love. Then pychological addition occurs. So it can last a lifetime. Hence, developing a tolerance to the stimulus is unlikely if one chooses not to. Just like one can choose another stimulus and stray from a long stable relationship.

A Sty. friend told me about the class. It was in the old building, so maybe the class was phased out. It wasn't an AP course that much I remember. Since you guys switch classes every semester It's hard to keep up.

Alcohol and brain cells. Well just remember only weak brain cells die. So it only makes you smarter.

The enchantment aspect of love doesn't exist in the paradigm. That's the nature of the scientific reasoning. Leave no myth unturned and no warm fuzzy feeling unexamined.

"Are you in love?"

I'm in the labour of lost love category. :)

Perhaps I am an old love-monger and love is but my hobbie-horse.

Comfort me, Firesnake: tell me what great men have been in love?
AC Dropout    Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 13:53:20 (PDT)
to AC Dropout

Oh, one more thing. I agree with your assessment that I should stay away from men who have strange last names that will cause me to sound funny (Mrs. Kelly Belly or something to that effect is just horrific to me). Or if I can't help myself and just have to have this guy, at least change my first name to create a more harmonious sounding handle that I can live with. heehehe...how's that for sounding like a girl?
MLK    Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 12:40:31 (PDT)
to 1/2LostSoul
Here is your chance to do something fun for yourself. Photography is a wonderful thing!!! Plenty of women do it. And if you're going to teach, do it for a little bit of money. My experience is, people tend to appreciate what you are trying to teach if they have to come up with some cash, even if it's just a little tiny bit. Good luck with your search. And you are right about the fact that women won't hang out at an all-guys thing. You have to try to do the things that they enjoy to do, like water-color painting or something like that.
MLK    Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 12:03:20 (PDT)
to rare heathen stuff (chaste!!)

It's not a matter of daring to be chaste or anything that superficial. It's a matter of KNOWING for a fact how much better a relationship is when coupled with great sex that keeps me on this side of the fence, the one that my creator has created for me to enjoy and live to the fullest.

Sexuality has nothing to do with prestige. It has to do with knowing who you are and being comfortable with yourself and proud of the way that you have been created to perform. Are you comfortable with your body? Are you comfortable with your performance? Are you comfortable with your sexual identity? Are you comfortable when in the presence of others who are comfortable about their sexual identity, their bodies, and their performance?

Once you answer these questions, I think you'll be able to figure out where your lack of sexual drive is coming from. Good luck with your search for your sexual identity.
MLK    Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 11:59:51 (PDT)
MLK,
hahahha.. good point, i should go where the woman are. Pottery, painting is not something i'm interested in. I was thinking of photography or teaching (volunteer work). But I feel strange that i would do something just only to meet women. I have been taught to only do productive/mandatory tasks-very similar to a robot--command and obey. I don't usually do stuff for enjoyment (unless it's playing computer games). I would like to go to a day trading class but that's mostly guy. And i'm not sure if they can teach me anything.
Of course, every point is mute because i'm too poor to consider anything short of free..hahhaha (or should i be crying)

1/2LostSoul    Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 12:10:54 (PDT)
AC Dropout --

You are way too generous with your assessment. I have a feeling that I have 'Please victimize me' stamped across my forehead. Simply put, I'm just a dork. Is there a known male radar for dorkiness? To be confused with lust? Because I am a far cry from the rosy picture that you paint.

As for guys sole intent to obtain sex -- is it psychologically possible for one person to be a constant "stimulus for future highs"? The rush of amphetamines seems to be related to excitement, which usually ties in with the novelty of different experiences, which would nullify any one constant stimulus or source (person) linked to these different experiences.

Hence, no 'keepers'.

Was there a class at Science that discussed the nature of alcoholism? I took advanced chem and ap bio, but .. don't have any recollection of anything I studied. That data repository got cluttered with thoughts of work and deadlines and what it means to be in love. Plus my brain cells are jumping ship with considerable alcohol intake.

Though your reasoning sounds a lot like Mendelian genetics. :).

Love doesn't seem very possible with your jaded yet realistic assessment of guys being driven to obtain sex.

Are you in love? No curveballs with two-backed monsters this time, please.

firesnake    Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 10:34:39 (PDT)
MLK,

a sad thing is that many men still think they could impress women by exposing their sexuality. In the future I hope, there will be less stress regarding this topic because people will be able to get children without the psychological and physical strain from which our ancestors had to suffer, i.e. women won't need to give birth and men won't need to play the macho role.

My sources:
Margaret Mead :"Sex and Temperament"
(shows clearly that for instance the women of the Arapesh tribe of Northern PNG can live happily without "orgasms").

www.accsoft.com.au/~drgcjlom/huli1c
(shows that the heathen Huli tribe of PNG has celibate "priests"/shamans ;the Arapesh were also heathens and chaste by the way).

www.nhk.or.jp/bunken/BCRI-fr/h13-r1
(a Japanese study exposed by the Japanese channel NHK about sexuality shows that many non-Christians don't like to have sex)

-After all: it's all a matter of that you dare to be chaste or celibate,it's your choice,in the beginning others will laugh about you but later you'll discover that they're superficial snobs because they associate sexuality with prestige.

rare heathen stuff (chaste!!)    Wednesday, June 26, 2002 at 10:22:25 (PDT)

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