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WHAT AA WOMEN WANT IN A DREAM AM
(Updated
Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:19:10 PM
to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)
Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the personal style of your ideal AA man?
Reserved & Cultured |
8%
Warm & Understanding |
85%
Aggressive & Take-Charge |
7%
Party Animal |
0%
Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the body type of your ideal AA man?
Thin |
1%
Trim |
54%
Sculpted (V-shape) |
45%
Stocky/Heavyset |
0%
Assuming you are an AA female, what would be the height of your ideal AA man?
Short (5-6 or Under) |
0%
Average (5-7 to 5-9) |
51%
Tall (5-10 to 6-1) |
48%
Supertall (6-2 or Above) |
1%
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I like my man tall, ideally 5'11" or 6'0", I guess it's because I don't consider myself short at 5'5". And definately, I like my man with some meat and muscles too, thats because I don't have a "typical" asian body. What I mean is the "typical" petite, skinny, and no curve body type that most asian females have. And by all means, I'm not trying to say I'm miss little perfect either. I guess if i have to describe myself I have to say I'm robust... except for my ass, I need some of Jennifer Lopez's genes in that area. I think thats why I get asked out alot by African american and Hispanic males rather than Asain males. Sometimes i wish i was like the other typical asians(small, skinny, petite), because most of asian males are attracted to these types more.
K.L.
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 21:21:01 (PDT)
Man, it seems as though finding a truly Nice guy is so hard to find nowadays!
I have lots of stories to back this up. However, 2 struck me the most.
I. The Case of the Pretty-Faced Player:
At first, I couldn't help it bought buy into the "generic" male preference which was of course: a charming, confident & charismatic, tall, dark, handsome, the whole package. I got one, then I also got played on BAD.
So the not so educated bad, boy bombshell was a rollercoaster relationship gone wrong.
II. The Case of the Quiet, Educated, Pudgy, Nice Guy:
Then, I dated just the opposite. So, I dated an older, not so charismatic doctor, who gained quite a bit of pounds throughout med-school. I fell under the illusion that he was more gentle, commited, family-oriented, and a good provider.
Most of all I was looking for a man who didn't have the looks but: HAD A BIG HEART. Since he appeared to be the shy type, who really had little experience in dating, I was hoping that he'd be different. Boy was I wrong on that!
He was just as bad. It turns out, he stuck up as heck. He had the money, but it didn't replace how treated me. It was so superficial.
He basically tried to buy me into his shallow life, he bought me anything I wanted. But all he wanted from me was to sit there & look pretty in front of his friends/family. He didn't really take his time to get to know me.
I wanted love, he wanted something that would compensate for his lack of self-esteem: the shallow materialistic life that could temporarily buy him his ego.
So, the pudgy, well to do doctor, nice guy, good provider complex couldn't failed in the love department as well.
You got the fat rich ones, the good looking ones, ALL types, and what do you have: ALL MEN ARE SHALLOW, IT'S HOPELESS!
Men are so egotistical, all they want is more, more of one thing & more of anything:"THE MORE THE MERRIER".
All women want is TRUE LOVE, it's simple as that.
Why can't men lay off on the ego & just open up & be true to themselves!
Waiting for Mr. Right!
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 20:28:50 (PDT)
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Mouse
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 18:36:15 (PDT)
MLK,
Yes, I agree, AC is compassionate person. But who knows his true identity, he could be you. My bet is that is a 28, married, no kids (he has way too much time), was a player, not sure about now. With all his stories, he does not sound like a very faithful person.
Of course, he could also be a pyscho trying to pick up impressionable ladies. I find it strange that he does not have a hotmail, yahoo, msn, or any email account besides work. And damn it, how can a person with his own company have so much free time? I jealous about that aspect of his life.
As for you, MLK, you are 24 year old woman who lives at home with parents, soon to graduate with a master. Your parents are reasonable well off but you for crave for independence which explains why you want to pay for your own expenses. I believe in your heart, you will enjoy more what is earned rather given. You are mature for your age which could be due to the fact that you have been through a 'trouble' life before (most likely a internal struggle). Also, you eye for physical beauty but in heart, wit wins.
For me, I’m a torture soul seeking a key to unlock the chains that bind me to the pain and suffering that I have endured. And no, I’m not suicidal if you must know.
1/2LostSoul
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 09:07:12 (PDT)
rare stuff,
Doesn't Scandanvia have the highest rate of heroin coma in the world?
Leonardo di Caprio? who? what was the last movie he made. Jet Li made more movie than him.
AC Dropout
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 08:38:31 (PDT)
MLK,
I'm not forty....like you keep on nagging. ^_^ And I'm human. Thank you very much.
What AF wants a AM that isn't even human.
You can only take a relationship so far if the otherside isn't human.
Isn't that right little miss butterfly?
AC Dropout
Monday, August 12, 2002 at 08:29:14 (PDT)
AC
If you don't faint or 'play stupid' your way out of conflicts, sometimes, you don't live to win the conflict. There is a time to stand strong and a time to slink off to regroup your armament. And then, there is a time to lose 'strategically'.
I don't faint when discussing more critical issues either, just the non-critical ones when it just makes more sense to let the other side win so as to achieve a general state of happiness.
This, actually, is one of the biggest of my secrets in dealing with men (and I'm sharing it here with you so should you have the fortune to find a woman who understands this great secret, then you will have at least some defense against it). I let the man win on every single minor point, but insist on triumph over one or two major points.
Because I choose my battles very carefully, I always get what I want. And, I have the advantage of NOT being a nag. I never nag over little stuff, but I am unyielding over major ones.
MLK
Sunday, August 11, 2002 at 13:30:48 (PDT)
pookie
Let me guess. You are a male, who sometimes posts as female to confuse the crowd.
MLK
Sunday, August 11, 2002 at 13:21:57 (PDT)
1/2LostSoul
Have you ever thought about the fact that AC may not be a male--may not even be of the human species! :)
My bet is he's married, in his mid forties, and has at least a couple of children, at least one of them a girl, since he's very sensitive about the problems of girls on some of these boards. And he needn't be humble. A man with wit and knowledge can't help but expose it every time he communicates. It's really hard to hide intelligence and compassion after months and months of discussion and debate.
(btw, this general thinking also applies to you, so don't think I'm letting you off the hook so easily)
MLK
Sunday, August 11, 2002 at 13:21:06 (PDT)
B. Lee
You never left my good side. Believe me, if I wanted to pick a fight with you, in two rounds, you would have no defenses left.
:)
MLK
Friday, August 09, 2002 at 20:56:14 (PDT)
AC Dropout,
"males dominate society still".
-Superficially,yes. Don't understimate the new anti-male trends from Scandinavia, especially Sweden. The more cooperation (quantity-wise) between people is asked for, the less competent are men. So the "new men" will once have to be soft and more or less gay.
Remember that Leonardo di Caprio is a star because he looks so soft?
rare stuff
Friday, August 09, 2002 at 18:03:03 (PDT)
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