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ATTITUDE TOWARD F.O.B.S
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:18:24 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Assuming you are an Asian American, what's your definition of an F.O.B. ("Fresh-off-the-boat" immigrant)?
Anyone not born in the U.S. | 31%
Anyone who speaks with a noticeable accent | 30%
Anyone who acts or dresses old-country | 39%

Assuming you are an Asian American, what's your attitude toward F.O.B.s?
I am fully open to friendships/relationships with them. | 44%
I am friendly but would not want to get too close. | 41%
I generally avoid them on a social level. | 15%

Assuming you are an Asian American, what do you find most annoying about F.O.B.s?
They play into offensive stereotypes. | 15%
They are obsessed with flashy materialism. | 39%
They maintain Asian customs and values. | 0%
They are no more annoying than other AA. | 46%


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To jjk

you said FOBs that doesn't live the American way of life should go back where they came from. What about Americans that live in Asia and doesn't not live the Asian way of life? there are enough Americans that live in Asia and still live an American way of life. Don't be selfish you AA. You AA are the one that should learn how to appreciate Asian people and Asian culture more.
Asian(FOB) People deserve some respect    Thursday, January 31, 2002 at 14:09:30 (PST)
jjk:
Assimilated? Well, yeah, look at how great it worked for black people, after they had their indigeneous languages beaten out of them.

You think you have the monopoly on "American way of life?" Quite possible to be an American without assimilating. I pay taxes, who are you calling a "leach"?

Proud to be American-born and speak fluent English. Proud to still have people thinking I'm a FOB just because they hear me speaking a foreign language in public.
T.H. Lien.    Wednesday, January 30, 2002 at 20:40:45 (PST)
Mr. Hann,

I've only noticed the ABC/FOB divide in West Coast among the late teen and twenety something crowd. It is pretty much tied into the whole hangout/dating scene, and how exclusive they are in the ABC/FOB population. I think as you get older the individual become more accepting of their self image and will not need to lash out against their counter parts.

I've have notice Asian in their thirty and forty somethings complain about FOB, but that is usually because they are unable to come to grips with change in general among the immigrant population.
AC dropout    Wednesday, January 30, 2002 at 13:30:05 (PST)
um . . . asian pride is kind of annoying
an embarrased asian    Tuesday, January 29, 2002 at 18:19:22 (PST)
Only thing that I'm skeptical about FOBs is whether they will ever be assimilated into the American society.

If you are an immigrant, and you refuse to learn English, refuse to live the American way of life, I think you should go back to where you came from because the only thing you are doing is leaching.

But I understand how hard it would be for FOBs to try to become assimilated. In that case, just make sure that youre CHILDREN will become Americans, not FOBs.
jjk    Tuesday, January 29, 2002 at 13:39:27 (PST)
Man, u guys need to chill out. why r u even bashing on the mainlander? i dont know where every1 lives, but i live in Houston and to tell u the truth the most annoying fobs are the vietnamese ones. they are the main ones tryin to mad dog u, talk shit about u in their language, etc. does any1 from houston agree with me?

TSJ, AC dropout, what do u guys think?
Mr. Hann    Sunday, January 20, 2002 at 22:12:59 (PST)
i'd like to comment on fob from the mainland china, many of them here are pretty annoying, everytime they're on the bus they just HAVE to get a seat, even if it is a tiny space sandwhiched between two obese people. many of them are cheap and selfish, last week on the highway i seen this couple stop the car, the woman gets out of the passenger seat, runs to the free newspaper box to get a freenewspaper, while there was a huge lineup behind their car waiting for it to move!
hockeypuck    Saturday, January 19, 2002 at 15:15:12 (PST)
Materialistic FOBs deserve no respect,

You don't think that you could have replaced ABA for every instance FOB in your post.

Narrow mindedness, materialism, and being a bore is not restricted to the FOB populaion you know.
AC dropout    Friday, January 18, 2002 at 12:48:30 (PST)
to "Materialistic FOBS deserve no respect",

Your bashing on FOBs is a bunch of BS!!
I can tell right from your words you're simply prejudice against FOBs. Typical AA attitude. Its the first rule for you AA to hate FOBs. simple as that. your AA bigotry against FOBs is hypocritical. The AA people that fight against stereotypes and labels are the same people that give the same crap to FOBs. You can't treat FOBs fairly, don't expect Whites to treat you the same. Hypocritical.
Prejudice AA deserve no repsect    Wednesday, January 16, 2002 at 10:34:12 (PST)
It's degrading to use the abbreviation FOB. Either don't use it or implement an equally degrading acronym for ABAs. Any ideas?
Martin Luther Chang    Tuesday, January 15, 2002 at 15:29:32 (PST)

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