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behind closed doors,

If your TKD sabunim is asian, I can assure you that there are protocols in asian culture for mistresses.

Basically sucessful men in asia still openly have extra marital affairs. It is just accepted in the society. If a wife is frigid, it is common in asian society for the wife to tell her husband to get a mistress, a second.

It is also not unheard of in asian society for men to run off with their mistresses. Since polygamy has been outlawed in most of Asia after WWII. But it is just as common for a mistress to remain the second and kept in another domicile.

I think when people enter a extra-marital affair expectations really need to be set from the start. At risk here is the stability of your sabunim family. And your risk is basically you may be wasting the "best years" of you life on a relationship that may not meet your expectations.
AC Dropout Thursday, July 18, 2002 at 09:07:35 (PDT)

TSJ:

Yes! They beat you up if you are a follower of FAGong or if you fit the profile of a anti-govt demonstrator. (Sad fact is that America is becoming more and more repressive and facist as well)

behind closed doors:

I think it is pathetic you need to leech on to your sensei to get the strenghts you need to develop yourself.
If you are a white woman I understand that completely since you haven't been with or seen the real inner and outer strenght of a Asian Man so you're admiration is commendable. However it doesn't excuse you to use your sex to be a homewrecker and you should let your Sifu to work out his own problems with his wife without further added to the problem.

That's what happens when you mix sex into the picture.

You can't develop your martial arts fully with sex in the picture. Martial arts is Martial arts and Sex is Sex. never should the two combine otherwise it will combust like oil and fire.

When you are in war mode the last thing you think about is sex it is only after the war and the fight and you are safe then you can think about sex.

Am Truth Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 13:21:04 (PDT)

AC Dropout,

Can I please have your email address? I really would like to talk to you. I feel really confused about the whole thing. Its confusing. I know its not right to sleep with him. If you can give me some insight on this it would help alot.
behind closed doors Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 07:52:14 (PDT)

TSJ,

Dude I have lived in Asia. That is a misconception. I had more physical violence in the USA tangling with Asian gangs in one year here in NYC while in High school, then I did living in ROC, PRC, and HK combined.

Of course you don't go from a city in USA to a village in asia. You head out to Shanghai and Taipei. That like going from NYC to Trailer Park, USA.

Live in Asia for a while. Most asians who are bilingual find it refreshing to be considered a majority. I do, that why I go back a couple a times a year.
AC Dropout Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 07:02:14 (PDT)

"Okay if you're doing this to get your black belt faster. It won't work."
AC Dropout

What do you mean? Why won't it work out? He must love me anyway, why else would he be sleeping with me? This is not just some sort of game. This is for real.

I feel sick about it sometimes though. I don't really understand why.
behind closed doors Wednesday, July 17, 2002 at 00:21:06 (PDT)

behind closed doors,

this is selfish from you.

By the way:
Martial arts skills cannot be tranferred by the way of sexual intercourse. Otherwise the Spartan warriors and "waroks" of Java wouldn't have died out. Celibacy combined with the correct spirit during training make a martial artist powerful. First chastity, then training.
rare stuff Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 17:03:15 (PDT)

behind closed doors,

Okay if your doing this to get your black belt faster. It won't work.
AC Dropout Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 16:15:48 (PDT)

Hey, did anyone see UFC: Brawl at the Hall?! Man, that was dope! Matt Hughes silenced all doubters by beating Carlos Newton by ref's decision. One of my favorite fighters, the ultimate showman, Genki Sudo, definitely put on a show as he totally outclassed a green Leigh Remedios. One shocker was Mark Weis knocking out Eugene Jackson in ten seconds. It didn't even look like that hard of a blow, but it just totally stunned him. Check it out if you can.
TSJ Eric@KristinKreuk.net Tuesday, July 16, 2002 at 00:56:06 (PDT)

You guys can talk about racism, and what not, and how bad America is, but the fact of the matter is, you wouldn't trade your life in America to live back in the village in China, would you? You think the government treats you bad here... shoot. Over there, it's YOUR OWN people beating the crap out of you.
TSJ Eric@KristinKreuk.net Monday, July 15, 2002 at 11:52:03 (PDT)

it give you control of your body
asian Monday, July 15, 2002 at 09:33:34 (PDT)

AM,
I admire your comment completely. I think that is why I am sleeping with my taekwondo Grandmaster. He possesses all of those strengths and it is such a turn on for me. I can't help but feel the way I do. I just feel so special when he and I are together intimately. I know hes married and everything. But hes so powerful and strong. When I am with him I feel so safe. I wish he would leave his wife, and give up his career and choose me instead. I wish he would just run away with me to another city. I can make him happy. I know I am so much younger, but I am a woman inside. Much more of a woman than his boring frigid wife.
behind closed doors Friday, July 12, 2002 at 13:01:55 (PDT)

latina loving korean hombre,

I hear ye. But the head-butt can mess up your hair, man. What the point in mess somebody up if you ruin your hair in the process. :)

8 DQ. Jeez. What are you doing? Loading your fist with a rolls of quarters in the ring?

Mike Tyson watch out.
AC Dropout Friday, July 12, 2002 at 10:25:06 (PDT)

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