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(Updated 12/10/00 to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

Which of the following is the most attractive quality about Asian American men?
Good Looks | 43%
Attractive Build | 12%
Attitude & Personality | 14%
Education/Intelligence | 19%
Professional Success | 5%
Sense of Style | 7%

Which of the following is the least attractive quality aspect of Asian American men?
Looks | 5%
Build | 7%
Personality | 11%
Sexual Attitude | 6%
Success Fixation | 14%
Insensitivity | 53%
Style/Demeanor | 4%

Which factor contributes most to the negative image of AA men?
Large proportion of recent immigrants in the AA population | 24%
Three major wars between the U.S. and Asian nations | 2%
White American men seeing Asian men as a threat | 12%
The media catering to existing prejudices | 36%
Asia's relatively recent emergence from poverty | 14%
Clash between American culture and Asian male upbringing | 12%
Large proportion of geeky-looking computer nerds among Asian males | 10%

Which would most dramatically help the image of AA men?
Asian male achieving sports stardom on par with Michael Jordan | 17%
AA male becoming elected President of the United States | 9%
East Asia attaining living standards on par with the U.S. | 20%
Asian male achieving movie stardom on par with Tom Cruise | 54%

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     I have spent almost all my life dating Asian American men exclusively and now I'm married to one. From the first time I laid eyes on a well muscled, bare chested Asian guy I knew I was hooked. There is something so well proportioned about most athletic Asian American men. Plus, I love the way so many Asian American men get that perfect tan when exposed to even a little sun. And I cannot say how much I like the fact that most Asian guys don't have much chest hair. I love nipples and there's nothing worse than a mouthful of hair when I'm going down on a man's chest. All in all, from a physical stand point there is nothing better than an Asian male.
     Now, the other thing I like about Asian men is the culture. I'm of european descent, but I'm fascinated by the ancient cultures of Asia. All the guys I've been with for any length of time have not only had great bodies, but have also had wonderful minds and been able to share so much about their ancestry. I've never tired of learning about the cultures and practices of not only their parents and grandparent's generations but even further back.
     I just can't say it enough. Asian guys are the best, no other race even comes close.

What's wrong with fobs? most fobs i know from HK are well-educated, raised and brought up in affluent families, have the rich diversity of understanding both american and chinese cultures, sensitive, and most importantly KNOW THEIR CULTURAL ROOTS --- unlike the narrow-mindedness of AA's who are white wannabes who are stuck in the middle of no where. outcasted by non american asians and their own kind, whom they call FOBS. at least fobs have a sense of belonging, and the majority of them come from wealthier families then AA's. fobs' also have a better sense of style then AA's who dress like thugs. -- stop discriminating against fobs, as they are from the same blood as you AA's are.
CBC guy

     AF 29,
     You have no f***ing clue. I'm telling you once more, you have no fucking clue. Also, there is nothing racial about the word FOB, you spaz. I believe it was YOU who started doggin' on ALL Asian men by lumping them in a group. You had it coming. Perhaps it's YOU who has an inferiority complex, and a grudge against AMs? I date a great Southern white woman, and right now have no reason to be mad at AFs, as I am busy enjoying the relationship. You reek of hypocrisy so badly that I can smell it from here at my desk. Go and cleanse your conscience before you talk to me again. Pathetic.
     And please, don't use the semantics game on me. I come from the South, and to my knowledge, Southern men are known for their chivalry and politeness ('cept to presumptuous)idiots like you). How eloquent or well educated a man is has NOTHING to do with being a gentleman. It's all about being down to earth and sensitive, which you most definately are not. If you knew my credentials, your jaw would drop down to the floor, I guarantee it. Don't assume I'm an uneducated fool, just because of the way I write or speak. When I'm doing business, I use standard English. When I'm at leisure, I let my guard drop and my Southern drawl returns. Do you have a problem with that? You're pretty judgemental yourself, lady. That would be called "regional linguo-racism". You've got nothing on me, you hussie. Give me a friggin break here. I think your boyfriend needs to stuff his white cock back in your mouth to shut you up, because you have no idea what you are talking about.
Asian Gentleman (but not to you).

I don't like how that 'asian girl' from Cyberai@bolt.com is putting down all asian guys. She doing what has been done to all of us before and negatively stereotyping. Do you like it when people automatically classify you or assume things about you because you are an asian female? All asian men are not the same. We are diverse in our own right. Like everybody there are good apples and bad ones. You shouldn't be doggin' all of us because of negative experiences you've had with some men.
2sweet_viet@click2asia.com

I betcha this ASIAN FEM is some dude trying to start shit. Like if there isn't enough bullshit already. C'mon now. If you can't bring something positive and constructive to the discussion table, let it go. Here is a nickle, go get yourself a clue. Please.
TChun

Hey. What's wrong with geeky computer nerds? We make wadloads of cash. Mostly, we don't know enough beautiful women to give it all to, so we just stash it all away.
ka ching

     To: "A pissed off Asian Gentleman"
     I have to thank you for making me laugh so hard after reading your commentary. So your idea of a gentleman is to use curse words in order to get your asinine point across to a woman? Seems quite evident that you have unresolved issues with asian women and non-asian men. Yes, there are plenty of strong, decent Asian males out there; unfortunately you don't even come close to rating in that category. All you've succeeded in doing is showing asian women how much of a pig-headed, racist, uneducated*, immature CHILD, you truly are. Perhaps you are the one who is in dire need of some much needed oral sex, though I highly doubt any woman in their right mind would ever be foolish enough to even have pity on you and give you a "mercy suck". Grow up, maybe if you try hard enough, you might just come off as a semi-nice guy.
     (BTW: You want to be a gentleman? Stop trying to act or sound cool, and learn to respect others.

* "I'm telling all of y'all" (?) "We couldn't care less" (?)

A gentleman would know the proper text:

"I'm telling all of YOU" "We COULD care less"

     One more thing:
     Your fondness for the term "FOB" is not only insulting & ugly, but it shows how much of a racist you are towards those from your own culture.
     In case you're wondering who I am? I happen to be a "FOB" myself.
     What a sad, pathetic, little man you are...
AF 29, "you know, the kind you look down on"-

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