Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:28 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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Eugene:

Did you know the last name of this "Hank"--in other words was it "Hank Lewis"? If it was, boy I am sure his wife would LOVE to hear about this Hapa Chick in Dallas!
Janet Chang-Hawkins Thursday, September 06, 2001 at 08:43:06 (PDT)

Hapa Chick in Dallas - what a crock of bullshit your story was. Guys don't get so hard that they last an hour on their first sexual encounter. They get so hard that they last 15 seconds. Your just some lame guy trying to write porn and not very well either. Keep your day job.
Naki Thursday, September 06, 2001 at 07:12:29 (PDT)

Hey Eugene:

I'm sorry that you were such a WIMP and DIDN'T GET ANY during your experience at UT! Weren't you cut from Lambda Epsilon Pi's pledge class because you were too much of a prude? Hah! There were White guys we tried to recruit because they were cooler than you!

Laughing LEPP!!! Thursday, September 06, 2001 at 06:50:38 (PDT)

Goldsea rulez
DJ Hartley djhartley@inksyndicate.com Wednesday, September 05, 2001 at 22:33:29 (PDT)

Hey Hapa Chick:

Was that you and your "deflowering" guy in the Jester Center 3rd Floor North who kept on having all that loud, noisy sex so I couldn't study Organic Chem during Fall Semester 1986 and Spring Semester 1987? We had to relocate our study group to 4th floor south because of the two of you! I got so sick and tired of hearing all this "Oh Hank! You're so hard!" and "Oh Allaina! You're so tight!" "OOOOH!!! AAHHHHH!!!" and all that other crap.

Why couldn't the two of you just do it in the car or go get a room at the Red Roof Inn? I nearly flunked three classes because of you and your boyfriend's constant loud f***ing and screaming! Didn't you realize that the point of going to college was to get an education, not to get drunk and screw all the time? Yeesh!!!
Eugene Wong Wednesday, September 05, 2001 at 05:37:40 (PDT)

It was great... :)
I had been waiting for the right person... :)
And I think my girlfriend was the one... :)
She was also a virgin before having sex with me as well... :)
It was a time to be remembered... :)
Although I wish I could have ejaculated later... :)
Anonymous abc@msn.com Sunday, September 02, 2001 at 20:27:44 (PDT)

Hapa Chick in Dallas,

Dang woman are you trying to get all the guys here to come in thier pants???
teehee Monday, August 27, 2001 at 14:13:23 (PDT)

I had a lot of fun deflowering this one guy back at UT. He was White, quite handsome and fit, very nice and sweet, took me out to nice dinners, and would hold interesting conversations with me. He was also on the Swim Team and was an RA at the Jester Center dorm.

However, he drove me nuts during the first few months we dated because he would kiss me and touch me all over, but when things were starting to get interesting, he'd say "Whoa, we'd better stop! I don't want to do anything wrong and take advantage of you!" Every time after our dates, I'd end up back in my dorm room all revved up and horny because this guy wouldn't go all the way with me.

Finally, I found out that he was a virgin and was trying to be a "good guy." So, I decided to be sneaky; first, I got him to sleep and only sleep with me in pajamas, then T-shirts/underwear, then just underwear, then in the nude. I also would guide his hands when he'd touch me "down there" so I'd at least get some satisfaction out of it.

After a while, I got him to hump with me in the nude without penetration but rather with him sliding on the outside of my private parts. I would also get him to go down on me and I'd go down on him--do everything without penetration. This went on for about three weeks until finally I was on top of him and adjusted myself so just the head of his cock was in me and said "Ooops! Look's like Junior wants to visit my secret garden!" while looking him dead in the eye. He smiled, but was shaking and nervous as I lowered myself further down his shaft. Then I said "Well, do you want to stop now?" He looked me in the eyes and said "No."

At that point, I began riding him slowly, then picked up the pace. I could see he was still nervous, but I was finally feeling satisfaction in this aspect of the relationship. It was funny--he was so nervous that he got so hard he couldn't come for almost an hour! I came three times while riding him thanks to that!

I ended up getting us into the missionary position where he finally was able to get his release like I'd gotten mine. He screamed so loud it shook the windows and made my neighbors bang on the walls and should "QUIET! WE'RE TRYING TO STUDY!!!" When he collapsed on top of me, I just held him tightly because I didn't want him to go. I'd never been with a virgin guy before, and this guy here was special.

We dated for 6 months, enjoying all aspects of our relationship--conversation, movies, dates, dancing, and of course sex! However, my dad thought that I was getting too serious too young and made me transfer to Trinity University, so I said goobye to this special guy with much sadness. I heard he moved on and eventually got married and so forth. So did I, but somehow I wonder if he remembers his first time with me like I remember relieving him of his virginity? Who knows?
Hapa Chick in Dallas Thursday, August 23, 2001 at 08:57:37 (PDT)

Alpha asian, Shut the f*** up, Good Morals my ass..youre just a nerdy loser who cant get some pussy
Manchu Wednesday, August 22, 2001 at 02:12:21 (PDT)

Hey I guess the chinese have enough morals to kill babies, use young ones in factories under ridiculous conditions, prosecute rather peaceful religious people, and so on and on.
jjk Sunday, August 19, 2001 at 20:42:01 (PDT)

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