Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:26 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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Here is a hypothetical. You are in long term relationship and are having sex. Who should be responsible the birth control. The Guy or the Girl?

Because putting the "party-hat" can get restrictive and the pill is just as annoying for women.

Any comments or suggestions will be welcomed.
AC dropout Tuesday, December 18, 2001 at 16:53:15 (PST)

SKINDEEP,

Not to rock your religous world. But how in the world do you know if it is the ONE.

If you view sex as a physical activity like dancing, it is only through constant practice and multiple partners will you be able to truly enjoy and perform it well.

My stance is not to practice unsafe sex. But to use religon and ceremony as a bridle to engage in one the most pleasing activity is ridiculous.

AC dropout Tuesday, December 18, 2001 at 15:21:41 (PST)

hey,

I'm an AM, and I actually visited the U. of Puget Sound. It was one of my lowest, lowest safety school, can't say much about the program there. I just figured that if I didn't get into any other school, I'd go there for its quiet charm and scenery. Now I go to an Ivy on the East Coast. Anyway, I found the white people there to be really nice... but what do you expect? They're all country folk up there in teh Northwest. Even Seattle itself has a smalltown feel even tho its a medium-large sized city. I met a few cute white girls while I was up there, I'm sure I'd be tapping some vanilla ass too if I went there. Peace out.
happy AM in Boston. Monday, December 17, 2001 at 21:35:14 (PST)

Todd.... hahaha....
*Snicker* Monday, December 17, 2001 at 21:28:59 (PST)

i hate my first experience
mememe Sunday, December 16, 2001 at 17:41:12 (PST)

Skindeep:

You never answered my question, at least, not directly. How long should one wait for their soulmate, the one they are to marry? When one is 72 and still has not been intimate sexually with another, will this person look back on their life and think "should've & could've"??? Will they think that they missed out on a wonderful human experience?
Jasp Wednesday, December 12, 2001 at 14:32:02 (PST)

TO:Jasp

Waiting makes sense.
It's all in how you see your self-worth and the self worth of another person. Marriage is key because when you make love it is the consummation that the person your with is the person you plan to share you LIFE, LOVE and BODY with. And all these components you want to have so you can be able to share them with the one you Truly love. You want to give them something that no one else has had. Because they mean that much to you. Now I know that plenty and many people have had sex before they were married and it was probably no big deal to them. But I bet if you ask them if they could go back and share themselves only with the one that they truly love and no one else they would chose to be with the one they TRULY love only. When you truly love someone and I mean TRULY you want no one else,
nobody else matters as much as that person does; And you would do whatever it took to be with that person and make them happy. Sex is a great thing it was created by GOD! He knew what he was doing when he gave us flesh:) But it was intended for your soul mate not your playa mates:) So just hitting it as many times as you can down grades what god intended. which is a beautiful and good gravy a wonderful thing to share with that one true love:)
SKINDEEP Saturday, December 08, 2001 at 17:28:17 (PST)

To Just Saying,

No offense to you, but having girls around you constantly doesn't garner respect.
Don't let your ego get too ahead of yourself.

Korean24 Monday, December 03, 2001 at 19:46:21 (PST)

i'm no tease. i just havent found the right guy.
just saying Monday, December 03, 2001 at 08:56:35 (PST)

My first time was with my college boyfriend and now my husband. He is white and I'm K-town Korean and met him at U. of Pugent Sound Tacoma. He was very upfront about not pressuring me and when I asked him he admitted it wasn't his first time. He was so respectful of my feelings and so honest. I think I wanted it more than he did. He is now all mine and we are one in life with our daughter. For all you who think white guys are lame, that hasn't been my experience at all. Nothing against Korean or other Asian guys, but the respect and tenderness Todd shows me is unparalleled.
Christina in Ballard Saturday, December 01, 2001 at 11:55:22 (PST)

Skindeep,

What if you are 37, have never been in love, have never been married, and are still a virgin? How much longer should you wait??? I say, "hit it" whenever you can. Why wait until you are married? Life has never given any of us the promise of marriage or the gift of being in love. Waiting only makes sense if you know for certain that you will fall in love and get married and by a certain age!
Jasp Friday, November 30, 2001 at 11:14:46 (PST)

just saying,

You're what I like to call a TEASE. Are You Britney Spears' long lost Chinese Cousin?

I'm Jus' Sayin' too... Saturday, November 24, 2001 at 16:47:34 (PST)

I'm 22 AM. I've had sex many times and white guys, all guys, respect me for that b/ of my personality and b/ I always have girls around me.
also just saying Saturday, November 24, 2001 at 10:41:14 (PST)

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