Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:23 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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Question to Asian guys.

Do you like "kinky sex"? Do you do different positions, or are you more conservative, i do know not all asian men think and act alike, I just wanted to know if there is one on this site that do.
imaginative Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 14:12:04 (PDT)

Keep up good work jasmine and tevania.

HOO-YAH for true christians who actually do what they preach!!!.
SOG (Soldier Of God) Wednesday, June 19, 2002 at 13:09:51 (PDT)

My Viet friend has a new girlfriend, who's in her late 20's. He asked me how he can tell if a girl is a virgin. I said well, she's probably not, given her age. And he said that it is expected that she is, even though he isn't! I'm female, and I think that is just sick!!
double-standard is outdated Tuesday, June 18, 2002 at 14:25:35 (PDT)

As a Christian, I know that I should wait until I am married. God created sex, but it is more secure if it is in marriage. If I did it outside of marriage, it will rob the virginity that I will give to my future husband. I want to save all that "gift" for him.
Jasmine Saturday, June 15, 2002 at 14:54:14 (PDT)

Good Wendy keep it up. Always hold that thought.

As Asian my parents always told me that to wait till get married. They told me that virginity is the most valuable thing in girls. Once lost it that's it. The mark always there. Just like a matches. Once you burn it that's it. Doctor can proof it,if no more virgin. And we never can be virgin any more. Just one time in the whole life. But for guys, there's no any/nothing can proof if virgin or not. You see, is good for guys but for us? :(

Also many people have a bad thinking if they know we're no more virgin. Usually asian community. We became a bad girls in their minds and in the community.

To found a good guys that can understand, honest and full of respect is pretty hard this days. Not Many of them can wait. I was lucky found my fiance, Rafael. He's latino, we've been 2 and half years together and I still remain untouch (Virgin). We just kissed and hugged. The farthest we did just petting sometimes. Rafael so understanding and full of respect to me and my parents. My Parents like Rafael so much. When he visits me in my parent's house, we still can hugged and kissed each other. Just that "ONE" thing we can not do it yet. With honestly Rafael told me that he ever did it before. I don't mind, as long as he keep to respect me and wait till to the wedding night. Which coming soon, We'll getting married on this coming November. (^_^)
Tevania Sunday, June 02, 2002 at 10:11:22 (PDT)

yeah i think i'm going to wait till i'm married for many reasons, one is there are too many people out there ready to take advantage of you and there are too many things that you think are going well end up badly.
wendy Friday, May 24, 2002 at 19:44:19 (PDT)

I first did it with my first girlfriend, and kept doing it after that. Intercourse, hands, oral - it's all good. Sex is great!!!
Horny Mofo Tuesday, March 19, 2002 at 16:16:00 (PST)

"When was the last time you've seen your parents kissing? Or even holding hands?!"

So true, TSJ! Even though I know my parents love each other I haven't seen them seriously making out since the beginning of time! (Not that I would want to see them making out!)

It's funny, but before, I absolutely love/loved reading romance novels, but I hated public displays of affection/the idea of making out ^_^

But since I've been going out with my white boyfriend, I love holding hands with him and sharing an occasional kiss or two. ^_^ I wish we were married so I can finally do the deed ~_~ Getting very very curious!!! (Sigh, waiting is hard!)

Of course, even though we are boyfriend-girlfriend, I still feel embarrassed to even a tap in the back when he visits me in my parent's house. He'll be waaaay over there and I'll be waaay over here ^_^
22 year old Catholic Girl Friday, March 01, 2002 at 13:27:46 (PST)

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