Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:22 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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When I say I'm against premarital sex most people think I'd be Christian though I am none of them. However, it's great that there are still some who value virginity,the pride of the young people. On occasions like a discussion about virginity I tended to have some Christian "friends" thereafter (if they didn't know me before).

SOG,J asmine, Tevania, stay chaste, too.
rare heathen stuff Thursday, June 27, 2002 at 19:01:53 (PDT)

i have no problem dating tall WF's because I stand 6'3" and 195 lbs. Must be thoese jasmine rice. Tallest WF I've dated was 6'1". She was tall and looked kinda like anna kourva.

Big&Tall AM Monday, June 24, 2002 at 09:53:43 (PDT)

KayKay,
I have been in a relationship with an Asian Man for almost 2 years now. Most Asian Men do not normally get with heavy women. I am a little taller than my boyfriend, but only by barely 1/2 inch. He is not a very big bone structured guy. If I was too big it would probably break him in half. But I am not a very big bodied woman. I can't speak for Asian Men. But it seems like they aren't really into the big women. I could be wrong. There may be some out there. But from what I have gathered, Asian Men just don't date women way heavier than themsleves normally. Once again, I could be wrong.
NorthCarolina... Monday, June 24, 2002 at 05:34:45 (PDT)

Samantha,

Honey it sounds like the pregnancy talking. If your husband loves you, then you should take it with pride. Don't worry about the other women, if you're the only woman in the room (or the house, even) Then he's going to think that you'er the most beautiful woman in his life.

All the stuff about other women and the media (with what they have to offer) will blow out the window when it's just you and him alone.

In the meantime, if I were you, i'd look my best, do the things that make me feel good, and get my husband to give me some good loving. (and some prenatal vitamins to give me strength.Then I'd look at some reading material for pregnant women afterwards.)

The Zen of Chocolate luv2humanity Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 18:45:37 (PDT)

bloated and miserable Samantha,

Well, I guess the good news is, only six more months to go, right? Hang in there.
I have to say I think it's awful that your husband's friends send him pictures of pretty AF models, knowing that he has a white wife. How is that supposed to make you feel?
I'm sure there are some snobby AFs on this site that would just love to hear us worry about our AM spouses or boyfriends, worrying whether they'll leave us for AFs, that that's what they really want. But I think both sides probably worry about the same thing. He might worry you'll leave him for a white man.
WF dating AM Sunday, June 23, 2002 at 18:35:38 (PDT)

Jasmine and Wendy:

A piece of advice: If you don't do it before marriage, then be sure to go by your gynecologist the week before your wedding date and get your hymen snipped. If you have one that is very intact or thick-skinned, it will HURT LIKE HELL!
My husband was my first and we weren't able to sucessfully have vaginal intercourse the first two days of our honeymoon because my hymen was so intact and thick, it hurt too much for him to break it or insert his penis. It broke the third night, but it still hurt for him to insert it. Many, many times I would have to make him stop thrusting inside of me, even though he had given me plenty of foreplay, I was very aroused and wet before he entered, and he was thrusting very slowly and gently, because it was just too dang painful.

Fortunately, my husband was patient and after we'd been married about a year it finally didn't hurt to have vaginal intercourse. A lot of guys would have been so impatient they would have divorced me, cheated on me or just been cruel and kept on ramming it in despite my pain.

Eventually, I asked my gynecologist about anything that I could have done to make it an easier transition and he said having the hymen snipped under topical anethestic was the best way to go. Don't let what happened to me and my husband happen to you. Be sure to get this done before your wedding night. Technically, until a penis enters you, you are still a virgin.
Betty Chi Friday, June 21, 2002 at 14:50:45 (PDT)

kinky sex umm. I dont like weird stuff. No props that insert. role-playing is fine. NO anal penetration cause thats just sick. No food, i dont know why people like that sort of stuff.

Basically anything that just envolves TWO people without weird shit is fine.
SOG Thursday, June 20, 2002 at 13:32:48 (PDT)

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