Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:22 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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There is nothing wrong with premarital sex. I used to be a virgin and even bragged about it. When my hormones hit me, they hit me hard! I lost my virginity at 22 (((extremely strict parents, wouldn't allow me to date at all)))
I love sex! If its with someone that your really compatible with, and he enjoys it too? Hell yea! I love it because my man can go all night. We can fall asleep doing it.Then wake up around 2 or 3am and do it 2 or 3 more times. Then in the morning, we do it again. Its so fascinating!
The only thing is, he won't do it in the car. I have never done that before. I was with only one other partner before him. And I have never done it a car. The kinkiest thing we have ever done was have sex on the top of a building in New York City! lol Damn it was great!
JuiceyFruit :P Sunday, July 07, 2002 at 08:03:29 (PDT)

MoonshinePrincess,

Are you untouched? or you've ever experienced before?

You don't believe Medical can proof it?
WHY DON'T YOU go to gynecologist, do examination. Whatever they gonna tell you, virgin or not. You have to admit it what your GYN gonna say. ONLY YOU know the truth answer. Are you still untouched or ever had sex before?
SPRNZ Sunday, July 07, 2002 at 00:49:47 (PDT)

I know this may not be the best topic for this forum. But I really need someones advice on something. I had been dating an AM for quite some time. We were just boyfriend and girlfriend but we still had sex even though we were not married. I ended up wanting to break up with him because it seemed like things were not working out with us. He invited me over to his place to pick up some of my old cds and some clothes. He seemed okay that we would be breaking up. Then when I got there, he locked me in the room with him and forced me on his bed and had sex with me. He kept holding me down, and I could not get up or move. I felt like some trapped dumb animal. I felt terrible. He told me that it was not rape because I am his girlfriend and we have had sex before so its no big deal. Hes like,"Its not like your a virgin, so who cares". But I feel like crap that it happened. I am too afraid to tell my family, they don't want us together because its interracial. They will just blame it on his being an AM, and it would really hurt to hear more of their crap. I feel scared and don't know what to do. I feel like I have no power and I feel worthless. I feel like its all my fault. If I hadn't told him I wanted to break up then he probably would not have done that to me. I don't know what to do.
liza Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 09:59:48 (PDT)

Mmmm...

Thats right, pleased to meet you
I still won't tell you my name
Don't you believe in mystery
Don't you wanna play my game
I'm lookin for a man to love me
like I've never been loved before
I'm looking for a man who will do it anywhere

Even on a limousine floor
Tonight I'm livin in a fantasy
My own little nasty world
Tonight, don't you wanna come with me
Do you think I'm a nasty girl

Thats right, its been a long time
Since I had a man do it real good
If you aint scared, take it out
I'll do it like a real live nasty girl should ...
nasty girl Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 03:00:58 (PDT)

"Medical doctor can prove if a girl virgin or not by take a look the hymen."-Med Stdn

that is the most ridiculous thing I've heard this month. A medical doctor can indeed take a look down there are determine whether or not a girl has a hymen or not; but just because a girl doesn't have a hymen, that doesn't say anything about her virgin status. Some girls were born without hymens ard others "broke" theirs riding horses or doing gymnastics- many girls also masturbate.

For the really thick headed, i could have broken my hymen riding a horse, but because I've never had a penis penetrate my vagina, I am still a virgin. a doctor cannnot come to the conclusion that a penis has been up my vagina just because I don't have a hymen- there are lots of other ways to breaking it.

Med stdn,

I really have a hard time believing that you are a medical student.
CAgentility Saturday, July 06, 2002 at 01:19:29 (PDT)

Moonshineprincess,

Medical doctor can prove if a girl virgin or not by take a look the hymen.
Hymen categories: Thick, thin and super thin (almost broke).

You said " SOMETIMES" guys can't tell if a girl virgin or not. (Even after intercourse). Unless you tell him. Even the experienced guys.

You said " SOMETIMES" its mean yes. Some guys can tell.

If the girl's hymen thick, it is pretty hard to penerate. And for the girl if self will "SCREAMMM" histeric when P start to entering V. She is in the incredibly painfull. You can't fake it up the sound of the painfull. If Someone fake it, it will be noticeable.

If the Hymen thin or super thin It won't be that painfull. So the girl can handle the pain.

You know even sometimes after 1st intercourse, girl might have 2-3 drips of blood on the bed.

Guys are DAMN lucky. Either circumcised or not, no such thing call hymen in guys. Guys don't have hymen.
Med stdn Friday, July 05, 2002 at 01:57:08 (PDT)

Moonshineprincess,

the unchaste guy never gets a baby after it. If the state would control the premarital fathers by comparing the gene tests of men having premarital intercourse and their babies men would be likewise blamed.
You ignore that femininity is usually associated with no sex drive. Men have the sex drive. So women can easily renounce the experience of intercourse while men have always to subjugate sexual urges. On this level culture is fair and nature is in a way unfair.
rare stuff Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 14:31:34 (PDT)

Moonshineprincess,

That guy must not be very experienced if he cannot tell that he just have sex with a virgin or someone lessed experienced.

I think if woman really want to keep their virginity and still have pre-marital sex. They can go to the gyn. and have a few stiches put in to simulate the popping of the hymen.

No one would be the wiser.
AC Dropout Wednesday, July 03, 2002 at 12:08:20 (PDT)

why is it such a bad thing for a girl not to be a virgin, and people even go far as to say that there is medical proof that a girl is no longer a virgin, but not so bad for a guy to be a non-virgin. and there is no prooof.

i think that is wrong. if there is proof for a girl no longer being a virgin, there is also proof for guys. another thing iis that, sometimes guys can't tell if a girl is a virgin or not (even after intercourse) unless she tells him. even the experienced guys.
Moonshineprincess Tuesday, July 02, 2002 at 13:07:30 (PDT)

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