Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:20 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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Yo,

I am not GAY! Where the hell do you get off calling ME that! Your the 'PINK FAIRY" here dude! You big PANSY! LOL
I date Asian women frequently. I prefer a woman who is going to treat a man with his due respect. You have to demand respect to get respect. I bet you let women walk all over you. I will put a woman in her place in a heartbeat.

Liza is whining and crying to everyone like shes a victim. Well BOOHOO LIZA! GO and cry to someon who CARES!
Todd Monday, July 15, 2002 at 13:59:19 (PDT)

Todd you deserve a place in prison. I would be willing to make you my punk. Ha ha ha. nah there are plenty of guys that would want to put you in your place. I bet you are a weak pathetic excuse for a man. If i ever see you on the street, your ass is mine.
SOG Monday, July 15, 2002 at 13:00:26 (PDT)

24y-old virgin,

stay virgin. This is healthier and makes life less complecated. Millions of people have done so before and will do so thereafter.
rare stuff Monday, July 15, 2002 at 10:36:26 (PDT)

I do feel afraid to go to the police. I did have sex with him before this happened. So it would probably look like I was am just causing trouble. I do really want to leave him. He is alot smarter than me, and always figures ways to prove me wrong. Most of the times when we really talk, he ends up being right and I am always wrong. Like he always says,
"You're the stupid girl, and I'm the man with the brains". I know hes smarter than me, but it seems like I should be able to leave if I am not happy. I haven't posted in a while, he has been checking my emails to see who I have been writing. He gets very jealous and angry. I don't want to upset him.
liza Monday, July 15, 2002 at 09:54:24 (PDT)

alexa,

That's very selfish of you.
AC Dropout Monday, July 15, 2002 at 09:24:38 (PDT)

Malaysian Sensation,

At the risk of sounding like your mother...:), most people have not a clue if the carry an STD or not. Some think it won't happen to them, and others just don't want to know. Unfortunatly, from the information presented from health professionals and the media, people still have unprotected sex. It doesn't matter if you've been with that person a day or a year, if you haven't bothered to get yourself checked for STDs then you are putting yourself and your partner at risk. Maybe you assume a person would know if their partner has an STD or not because you wouldn't put yourself at risk without knowing. If that's the case, then you are a smart person; unfortunatly, too many people don't think that way.

Also, unconsented intercourse is rape, and a husband/boyfriend who would do that to a woman is sure to be a loser anyway. The emotional baggage as a result of the act can be substantial. I was molested as child myself, and it took years to come to terms with that. I don't see it being any different for any other "unconsented" sex act.
Best of Luck to Everybody Monday, July 15, 2002 at 07:40:57 (PDT)

I'm a 24 year old virgin. How ya like me now?
24-Year Old Virgin (Whassup?) Sunday, July 14, 2002 at 19:08:39 (PDT)

Liza,
Whether you press charges or not, one thing you must do is leave him. From what you've described, sounds like he's a cowardly freak, and any life without him will be so much better than one with him.
Chinese Aussie Bloke Sunday, July 14, 2002 at 18:17:32 (PDT)

I do alot of masturbating. Technically I'm not a virgin anymore, I popped my own cherry with my finger. I don't care if I ever get with a man, I like pleasing myself.

I don't think a man can really give me what I really need. I can do anything a man can do, with myself. Who needs someone to do it for you? I even use candles and soft music sometimes to romance my body. I lie back on my bed and touch my body in every way imagineable.

Lots of men approach me on and off campus. Different kinds of men too. They are always telling me that I am attractive and they are interested in me. I never feel interested. Sometimes I find myself feeling a little turned on. When I get that way, I always take care of that feeling myself. I don't think anyone can satisfy me the way I can.
I will probably never ever marry, and I probably won't ever have a boyfriend. I don't think I need one. Sex isn't that important. I guess I am sorta having sex with myself. But at least I don't have to worry about diseases, and heartbreak. I don't want to end up stuck with somebody in a relationship either.
alexa Sunday, July 14, 2002 at 15:20:35 (PDT)

Since when has a person become a "property?" Are we talking about slaves? Well slave or not, this is still consider as "rape." It doesn't matter if partner are married or being in relationship, any forced consensual sex is considered as rape. How difficult to understand that. I guess if a gay guy come up to Todd and ram up his ass without consent that is still considered as rape. It still holds if Todd is in relationship with a gay guy. Now, in this case, who owns who according to Todd's theory?
Yo Saturday, July 13, 2002 at 21:11:02 (PDT)

Liaz ive been listening to all the advice that people have been giving, and alot of it is take him to court and all that.

Firstly lets think about this, youve had sex with him before so you know that he hasnt got aids or any std's, what he did was in the eyes of many rape. But what is (if there is) the difference between rape and unconsented intercourse? If a womens husband feels like sex but the women dosent but he goes ahead and sticks it in anyway is that rape? In those cases the women usually lets it slide. My advice to you would be to let this slide. The court cases the length of when the case will be heard is just to much, and if your under stress the thing you need least is more stress. I say leave this guy, if he threatens to kill or hurt you, then talk to the police. If he does the same thing again then i think the courts should be brought in, and dont get me wrong, im not sympathising with the guy who did that to you im just letting you in on a bit more down to earth advice. You can always get away from him, its not like your with him 24hours a day, pack your bags and leave, go live with your family for a while or friends. Hope this helps
Malaysian Sensation Saturday, July 13, 2002 at 10:27:06 (PDT)

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