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YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:17 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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Golden showers are when someone pisses on the other person/drinks it. Scat-fantasies are when people s*** on each other/smear themselves/eat it. YEah, apparently some people get aroused by this s***! Sorry about the pun.
It's a sick world....    Saturday, August 03, 2002 at 22:26:06 (PDT)
how do you know if someone really likes you or really just wants some sex? This guy who works at a shop acts very interested in me. He has asked me if I have a boyfriend, and I told him yes. I ended up giving him my phone number, and I have been fantasizing lately about having sex with him. I really really want to have sex with this man, or at least feel his hands on my body. Is that wrong? I was raised that it is wrong to fantasize about that stuff.
greygreeneyes    Friday, August 02, 2002 at 15:25:30 (PDT)
Hank Lewis,

So was it the left hand or right hand while your wife was recovering from labour? ^_^
AC Dropout    Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 17:31:22 (PDT)
pussycat,

You are a online perverts dream come true. Curiousity with no experience.

I will taint your virgin mind before some other sicko gets to you. ^_^

Blind...that a catholic wive's tale. If you haven't heard of it just mean you don't hang around a lot of catholics.

Golden Shower. It is a fetish some people have of being urinated on. Yellow pee...golden...get it...okay.

I'm was like 23 back then and pretty sexually active. I had an adult relationship with this woman. So I guess it was sinful and I will burn in hell for it.

I flew out. I made reservations at a Hilton for the weekend. She met me at the airport. Proceeded to voice her doubt about a long distance, while necking with me in the parking lot. Drove me the hotel, following me to my room, still voicing her doubt about a long distance relationship. The door close and she did not complain about the long distance relationship for the rest of the weekend.
AC Dropout    Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 17:30:04 (PDT)
AC Dropout,

in certain circles it is in the male dominated society that males who have no premarital sex are looked down upon. For them sex is a initiation ritual with consequences which I wouldn't like to bear. ("rituals" like going to a hooker etc.)

Girls cannot rape you, but they can claim you would have tried to rape them.
Certainly the chance that you become victim of such occasions is low because you're an eloquent martial artist. Other men are neither the one nor the other.
rare stuff    Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 16:02:53 (PDT)
rare stuff,

Belief cannot counter the effects of natural amphetamines. Belief cannot counter the effects of antiboitics. This is about bio-chemistry, not philosophy.

Fine don't fall in love. Just have sex. That is fine too.

Usually if I don't want to have sex with a person I just politely say no. I don't need a cold shower to say no. It is a male dominent society still. I doubt a girls going to try and rape me if I say no.
AC Dropout    Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 15:09:53 (PDT)
Pussycat:

There's all kinds of ways people "relieve themselves" that have nothing to do with going to the bathroom. Stretching and taking a deep breath can relieve yourself from tension, eating a good meal after being too busy to take a lunch break can relieve yourself from hunger, and a woman "double-clicking her mouse" or a guy "having fun with Rosie Palm and her five sisters" can relieve themselves from pent up sexual energy. That's not "going to the bathroom" in any sense of the word.

Now, while I do realize that masturbation can be very healthy, especially when your partner is unable to engage in sexual pleasure with you due to recovering from giving birth or being overly tired from working too many long hours, I think it becomes selfish and disturbing when a person looks forward more to pleasuring themselves than to experiencing pleasure with their significant other.

Lastly, in my own personal experience (God I hope Julie doesn't read this!), women who take time to pleasure themselves occasionally usually are more aware of what makes their own body tick sexually and are thus more responsive lovers and better at guiding their men (or women for that matter) in what to do in order to help them achieve full satisfaction.

In other words, I don't have a problem with female masturbation in general, just as long as it doesn't become an addiction, an obsession or something which would take precedence over or replace her husband/boyfriend/girlfriend/life parter/etc. Now THAT would be SELFISH!!!
Hank Lewis    Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 11:49:41 (PDT)
"Masturbation is not dirty but it will make you go blind :) "

What? I have never heard that before. So how long did it take you to make THAT one up?
What the heck is a golden shower? No, I am not so experiences. I know of sex. But there is alot about it that I don't know of. Golden Shower? What is that?
There is nothing wrong with a little voyeurism. Everyone has it inside them. That little curiousity. I for one am very curious.
I would like to know how the rest of your situation went. So you got the plane ticket, and went to see her-
and? What happened next? Did you wind up spending time with this woman? Did you develope a meaningful relationship? Or was it sinful? You cannot leave me hanging. That would not be fair. You have to finish. DO TELL :)
Are YOU experienced? Or did she have to teach YOU a thing or two.
pussycat    Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 05:41:44 (PDT)

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