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YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:15 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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What's your record for masturbating and reaching orgasm in a given day? I wonder if girls who are into masturbating have or can reach more orgasms than a guy.
Masturbation is Better than Premarital Sex    Wednesday, August 14, 2002 at 20:44:52 (PDT)
Its okay Chloe,

The reason I told him am not a virgin? He kept telling me that virgins were dumb and inexperience. He also made it so clear that he didn't want to be with a virgin because they get too emotionally attrached to men. I didn't want to fall into those categories, and wanted for him to see me as different. I told him that I had alot of experience with men. I completely lied. He still thinks I was being honest about it. Most men like [TODD!!] think virgins are stupid or something. I hate it. I'm never telling my boyfriend the truth. I would rather break up with him first.
Chloe    Wednesday, August 14, 2002 at 10:29:40 (PDT)
Todd

So what happens to you when you "...get used, dented and the paint scratched up?" Does the woman trade you in for a newer, more viril model?
MLK    Wednesday, August 14, 2002 at 00:24:46 (PDT)
This "Chloe":

Why did you lie to your boyfriend saying that you were not a virgin when you really were?

I have only heard the other way around...
It's okay "Chloe"    Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 20:36:28 (PDT)
Hank Lewis,

I disagree with you in only one point: women losing their virginity by cunnilingus don't lose it to a man... they lose it to a dog. Such pets are small of size and called "c**t lickers" in the vulgar terminology. "Oral" actions are generally performed by people who degrade themselves.

A sad way to lose one's virginity.
rare stuff    Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 17:54:14 (PDT)
question,

Uhm, no "wet dreams" do not qualify as sexual intercourse. You will never be impeached from the presidency due to a wet dream.
AC Dropout    Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 14:34:13 (PDT)
Todd,

You are rude. Virgnity is to be respected. You have no regard for women.
grow up Todd    Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 13:00:59 (PDT)
Chloe:

Don't use the "standardized definition" that some idiots use for having the status of "virgin." Virginity isn't "lost" when the hymen is broken--it can be broken when a girl climbs a fence, rides a horse or does a split. It isn't when she has her first french kiss or when a guy touches her breasts or sees her naked.

To be a virgin means to not have had sexual contact in the form of intercourse (penile, digital or dildo wielded by a partner not by yourself), cunnilingus or fellatio. That's it.

So, you are a virgin and will remain so until you allow a man's penis, a man or woman's tongue or finger/hand, or a dildo wielded by a sexual partner to penetrate your vagina--or ntil you perform fellatio on a man, cunnilingus on a woman or either a man or woman performs cunnilingus on you.

One last thing, don't let this traumatic experience turn you off to good, healthy sexual experiences with a man you would love in the future. Most normal people do have good, pleasurable sexual experiences which far outnumber the difficulties of breaking the hymen or a disappointing first time.
Hank Lewis    Tuesday, August 13, 2002 at 06:53:46 (PDT)
Chole

There are many ways to break your hymen, and i'm not sugesting I'm an expert in sex by all means, in fact I'm still a virgin at 24. Sometimes it's embarassing to say it because of my age. I know this type of topic because I'm a nurse.
Anyway, back to my point, Hymen is just a tissue that partially covers the entrance to the vagina. Sometimes having intercourse(penile penetration) can cause the hymen to rupture and cause bleeding. But it certainly doesn't mean your not a virgin if you don't bleed at your first time. And in addition, hymen can rupture even without sexual intercourse. Many atheltic females (ex: horseback riders, gymnastics, etc.) are known to have their hymens not intact.
I just want to say one more thing, even though there was no actual "penile penetration" it still counts as having sex. Sex is sex, thats including oral sex, i know alot of teenagers say they're "virgin" because they didn't have sexual intercourse but truth of it is that it's still sex.

Lastly, if your going to have sex please, PLEASE, use a CONDOM!!
K.L.    Monday, August 12, 2002 at 22:01:44 (PDT)
Chloe, what are you so worried about. Hymen is hymen. Its just skin that needs to be removed anyways! GEEZE! You sound like your getting all bent out of shape over the virgin issue. Why do women make such a big friggin deal about it. We men don't really give a damn about that stuff. Its like buying a brand new car. Eventually, the damn things gonna get used, dented and the paint scratched up.
Todd    Monday, August 12, 2002 at 02:51:03 (PDT)
To : all,

what do you think?

If a man has a sexual dream during which he loses sperms will he still wake up as an innocent virgin?

I know that there's no particular right or duty to control one's own dreams before marriage. But does it count as a pre-marital intercourse at all if a man has had a "wet dream", or not?
question    Friday, August 09, 2002 at 17:21:31 (PDT)
Chloe,

Happy to hear you are okay.

Given your lack of experience and the fact future pentration will probably still hurts like heck. You're still a virgin in most people's book.
AC Dropout    Friday, August 09, 2002 at 13:16:26 (PDT)

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