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YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:14 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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Jill,

Not to mention masturbation is the leading cause of blindness in the USA. ^_^
AC Dropout    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 12:01:22 (PDT)
WOW Jill! You sound like you are a boring person or something. Save your little speach for church. Or as I have heard some blacks say, 'Jill needs a chill pill'
Geeze! aren't I the perfect comedian!
Hell, I may even be the next Jerry Seinfeld (without the Jew part)
Todd is anti-Jill    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 10:12:35 (PDT)
Jill:

I don't know where you've been, but your comments read like something out of a Victorian England era health book. Masturbation is very healthy as long as it doesn't become an addiction or an obsession. Even if you are married or involved, it's something good because it helps you know your body better and helps you be a better lover with your partner.

A lot of women are unable to orgasm early in their sexually active stages because they don't know their bodies very well and have been taught by a repressive society that female masturbation is disgusting. Nothing could be further from the truth.

In my experience, every woman I have been with who would masturbate on a regular basis (not compulsively or addictively) was able to achieve stronger and more frequent orgasms during intercourse with me than those who didn't. The reason why was because they knew where they were most sensitive or what angles/rhythms would most likely get them off and we were able to adjust positions/rhythms accordingly.

You need to get your head out of the sand, get some ky liquid on your fingers and double click your mouse for a while. You'll come to understand what I mean quickly.
Experienced Fella    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 07:07:10 (PDT)
"Masturbation is a dirty and filthy habit to practice (...) It causes homosexuality and other forms of loose perversions."

-I agree. Don't forget that it's unhealthy. There might be a high percentage of young men wasting their life force by masturbation. Loss of sperm for nothing.
"Lust" is the only purpose. It has no social application. As if men would abuse themselves.
rare stuff    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 02:44:58 (PDT)
"You must the type that doesn't object to get his dick sucked, but will never give head back."

-I'm against both variations because it's both bad for a human's self-esteem. People are forced to do such "alternatives" by their "partners" (I would rather say tyrants) or by their weird environment. Dogs are also forced to do things a wolf wouldn't do.

Actually it has nothing to do with opening one's mind, rather with becoming more narrow-minded. A healthy man doesn't need it, he performs as effective as possible in the shortest possible time to get healthy CHILDREN.
rare stuff    Monday, August 19, 2002 at 02:33:16 (PDT)
Masturbation is a dirty and filthy habit to practice. I will never do that sort of thing, because it is unclean. It is better to be with your lover, your life long partner in marriage. Masturbating is like cheating on your partner, and it is a selfish wasteful act. It causes homosexuality and other forms of loose perversions. If someone is masturbating, they are cheating on their beloved.
Jill    Sunday, August 18, 2002 at 15:12:53 (PDT)
KL,

"I just want to say one more thing, even though there was no actual "penile penetration" it still counts as having sex. Sex is sex, thats including oral sex, i know alot of teenagers say they're "virgin" because they didn't have sexual intercourse but truth of it is that it's still sex. "
-Monday, August 12, 2002 at 22:01:44 (PDT)

But you don't lose your virginity, both male/female unless it is sexual intercourse, correct?
scott    Saturday, August 17, 2002 at 08:05:01 (PDT)
MLK,

"Does the woman trade you in for a newer, more viril model?"

That would depend if the model was a lease or purchase plan? ^_^
AC Dropout    Friday, August 16, 2002 at 12:10:58 (PDT)
Chloe,

Sounds like you bf doesn't have much experience either. So you're just two virgin figure stuff out for now. No shame in that.
AC Dropout    Friday, August 16, 2002 at 11:06:14 (PDT)
MLK,

Its different with guys. Women will most likely stick with a guy no matter what. They are more trusting and needy when it comes to serious relationships. Men can easily pull themselves out without getting too emotional. Its in our instincts. No woman would dump the Todster. I'm too hot!
Todd    Friday, August 16, 2002 at 09:22:16 (PDT)
Chloe:

Okay...I follow your thinking now...

Luck...

Chloe...
Dump that kid...
Okay Chloe    Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 21:31:55 (PDT)
Chloe,

geezish, virgnity sounds so complicate. Does it really matter?

And isn't a foundation of relationship base on truth? Isn't it irrational to dump a guy because you are a virgin?
1/2LostSoul    Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 15:01:35 (PDT)
Chloe's having a rather severe case of arrested/delayed development. Let's hope she catches up to the rest of us quickly enough. Stop being so squeamish girl.
Get used to it, chloe    Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 14:37:05 (PDT)
"what do you think?

If a man has a sexual dream during which he loses sperms will he still wake up as an innocent virgin?

I know that there's no particular right or duty to control one's own dreams before marriage. But does it count as a pre-marital intercourse at all if a man has had a "wet dream", or not?"

- question

rare stuff,

Jesus. What is up with your dog analogy? I beg to differ. Are half the sexually active people in the world dogs then? There'e lots of oral sex going on in the world, even as you read this. You must be the type that doesnt object to getting his dick sucked, but will never give head back.
you're outta ur mind bro    Thursday, August 15, 2002 at 14:26:03 (PDT)

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