Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:12 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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AC Dropout,

I haven't been online for a while. So I am just now getting back to you. The question I had was: "What happened once you got to the hotel with the girl?"
What happened between the two of you? I am still curious.

And yes, I am not sexually active. I am only doing it by freedom of choice. I could very well get some quite easily. I choose not to at this time. I am a born again virgin.
pussycat Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 07:38:52 (PDT) [152.163.188.66]

I don't know if I would sleep with my cousin. I think there is something morally wrong with that. I have heard of people doing that in the south. Alot of Southern Redneck Caucasians that live in very rural area. Marrying their cousins and having children by them. Sick. The children always come out having problems from the interbreeding. Extra fingers etc. I have caught my cousin staring at my chest a few times. He knows better than to try anything weird.
GrooveyGrape Monday, September 09, 2002 at 13:50:35 (PDT) [205.188.208.135]

I hope this doesn't sound too perverted or anything. And I hope that noone takes it in the wrong way. I notice that AM really take their time going downtown on a woman. Its like they really know how to work that area with expertise! WOW! And honestly? I love giving an AM complete oral. I can't say its ALL AM, because I don't know ALL of them on earth. But from my own experience, the AM were not that hairy..and their lollipops were pretty and smooth and perfect. And excellent super hygiene! Yes! I am not married right now. I find sex very enjoyable and fun, if it is with the right person. Especially a HOT AM!
Short n Sweet :P Monday, September 09, 2002 at 11:03:51 (PDT) [152.163.188.66]

Jenna,

I do not understand this fascination you have with sleeping with your family? I think its gross. Why do you think this way? I cannot say I have ever lusted for my family. Family is offlimits. Don't you see? You must watch alot of Jerry Springer or something.
AF(21) Monday, September 09, 2002 at 00:26:25 (PDT) [152.163.188.66]

Jenna,

this habit I was talking about is definetely pre-Islamic, pre-Buddhist, pre-Christian etc. You know, from the times when the people had no other choice. Everybody was related to everybody in one isolated village...and everybody could still trust in everybody because there was also the duty to support those who were related to oneself.

Regarding myself, I wouldn't like to play "Rambo" or "Don Juan" 24 hours a day just to ensure that a relationship remained stable after the first time. I also dislike people who boast with having experiences with people whom they themselves didn't even know before.

However, I wouldn't talk honestly about sexual matters with anybody outside the family but since we're here anonymous...

From the spiritual point of view your secret could give you lots of power. Other people could become jealous of that. So it's truly the best to remain as silent as possible.
rare stuff Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 16:16:51 (PDT) [62.158.89.4]

Rare Stuff,

I have never heard of that concept before. I did used to have strong feelings for my cousin. I used to fantasize about being with him. He was very extremely attractive looking. We had a certain feeling with each other, like maybe we both had curiousities. I wanted to know what it was like to have sex with him. I thought it was only a childhood thing. But I went to his wedding last year, and it was so weird. When we hugged, all I could think about was sex with him. Then I remembered back when we were teenagers one time, when we went swimming. We had to run back to my aunts apartment. We were both in the hallway soaking wet from the rain. And we were both really silent. We almost kissed, but my aunt showed up with the key and ruined it. Would I actually have sex with him now? If the opportunity was there? I don't know. I think it would be clean and safe and incredible, because I completely trust him. We both are very careful, and responsible people. If he came to me and told me that his wife was not giving it to him the right way? Honestly? I would F***ing ride him in a hearbeat. No joke.
Jenna Thursday, September 05, 2002 at 00:00:02 (PDT) [205.188.208.135]

pussycat,

27 and not sexually active?
What are you waiting for?
What was the question?
AC Dropout Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 12:38:01 (PDT) [24.90.98.143]

Cantonese Flower:

I may be a "bad boy" ;o) but I believe you love it that way!!!
Some Guy Wednesday, September 04, 2002 at 06:10:11 (PDT) [161.159.4.21]

cantonese flour:

You are a disgusting pig.
Do not ever cheat on your husband again YO flour. Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 21:57:19 (PDT) [67.241.42.219]

Some Guy,
bad boy.

:o)
cantonese flower Tuesday, September 03, 2002 at 13:51:29 (PDT) [205.188.208.135]

"Your cousin? (((puke)))":

-Is there someone rejecting the own relatives??

Some people may be old-fashioned, but if you know the person from your early childhood, deseases like AIDS are best avoided.
rare stuff Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 15:36:12 (PDT) [62.158.89.80]

Rare Stuff,

You have issues. Your cousin? (((puke)))
puke nasty green Sunday, September 01, 2002 at 10:27:10 (PDT)

Catonese Flower:

If you need help, I'll be happy to lend a hand... or a tongue... or... something else!!!
Some Guy Friday, August 30, 2002 at 07:56:38 (PDT)

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