Premarital Sex Among Asian Americans | Asian American Poll

YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:12 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%

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WHAT YOU SAY

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SOG,

if you like virgins...
What about female circumcision? It is practiced by some Christians in Africa to protect virginity. And it has also a symbolic meaning that the woman herself is pro-chastity.
just a question Friday, September 20, 2002 at 19:03:46 (PDT) [62.227.111.38]

Shakes,

I think Some Guy is being a freaky pervert!

Some Guy,

Your just a freak!
cantonese flower Friday, September 20, 2002 at 12:49:04 (PDT) [64.12.96.70]

pussycat,

"Hmm.I wonder what AC Dropout's nips are like?"

Which one? I got three of them.

"A woman who is experienced and extrememly talented in bed? Or a woman who is inexperienced or maybe who doesn't satisfy a particular area of the male sex?"

How about the virginal type in public. But in the bedroom...a triple jointed acrobat.

Anyway what do you care...you're a born again virgin.
AC Dropout Friday, September 20, 2002 at 11:07:13 (PDT) [24.90.98.143]

Pussycat

I like virgins. But thats only .01% of the population. So tough for me.

But some guys just want to get their rocks off.

Depends on what you want. Long term relationship or short term F***.

The latter degrades your worth significantly each time.
SOG Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 21:57:29 (PDT) [216.239.163.217]

"What do men like the most? A woman who is experienced and extrememly talented in bed? Or a woman who is inexperienced or maybe who doesn't satisfy a particular area of the male sex?"

I can tell you right now I prefer a woman who is experienced and extremely talented in bed over a virgin any day of the week. Too many headaches for you if you crack the seal and things don't work out. A woman with some experience under her belt who knows what gets her off and is willing to experiment with her man is MUCH SEXIER!!!

P.S. To Cantonese Flower:

The offer is still on the table. I'm a bad boy, true, but I think you LIKE IT THAT WAY!!! WHOO-HOO!!!
Some Guy Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 15:17:45 (PDT) [198.64.15.172]

Margie,

I think it can be sexy on guys. Hmm.I wonder what AC Dropout's nips are like? LOL!

Anyways que sera sera!

I would like to ask a men here a question. What do men like the most? A woman who is experienced and extrememly talented in bed? Or a woman who is inexperienced or maybe who doesn't satisfy a particular area of the male sex? I am curious to know. I used to hear that men loved virginal types. But I am now hearing a different story from some people. Men please give me your point of views on..uhmmm Meow meow...purrrrrrrrr!
pussycat ohhhh yeaahhh...mmmm... Thursday, September 19, 2002 at 03:45:18 (PDT) [65.57.41.180]

Thats how it is.

Well virginity is still very special. No matter what the man chooses to do, the fact a women respects herself and others enough to wait until marriage and give her virginity is a virtue.

I highly highly highly respect a women who saves her virginity till marriage. Even if the man cheats afterwards, her status has not changed. She is still very highly desireable due to the fact of her self control and show of class.

Like the bible says. A beautiful women without discretion is like a gold ring in a pigs snout.
SOG Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 14:49:01 (PDT) [128.193.169.88]

Hey Cantonese Flower:

You forgot to respond to Some Guy!!!
Shakes Wednesday, September 18, 2002 at 06:10:59 (PDT) [161.159.4.21]

I used to think that virginity was such an important thing when it comes to relationships. Its not. Men use women so much its a shame. I was a virgin and my boyfriend kept telling me that I was so special and everything, and he wanted to marry me and stuff. Well we got married. And then guess what happened eventually? He cheated with sluts. Then, my sister was a virgin and her boyfriend took it from her, and moved on to the next chapter. I see this all the time. Even to people that save it for their husbands. My mom saved it for her husband. They were married for 27 years. She was so faithful to him. Do you know what he did? He cheated on my mom with a slut, and eventually had a baby with her. So I don't really think virginity matters. Men will always cheat and feel that its no big deal once they pop the cherry. There are a few prince charmings out there. FEW. And the ones that believe that virginity will be respected? After the man has taken your cherry then yes. He will be lying in bed with some slut saying to himself,"I respect my girls virginity. It felt special when I was with her" ...
thats how it is Tuesday, September 17, 2002 at 06:25:24 (PDT) [64.12.96.70]

I think when guys nipples show through their shirts its very gross. I also don't understand why peoples nipples get hard anyways. It looks weird. They need to cover it up and be respectful. I live by the beach and thats all I ever see is guys with gross nipple hard-ons.
Margie Monday, September 16, 2002 at 10:31:18 (PDT) [152.163.188.66]

:P,

Your perverted and disgusting.
cantonese flower Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 13:58:55 (PDT) [205.188.208.135]

very anonymous,

Who cares. So, your nipples are hard and pink. That was a little TMI (too much information)if ya ask me.
Sounds like you need to just take a very cold shower. Hmmm! but then again, it may just make your nips get even harder!hehe! No complaints over here. Seeing a girl with stiff nips through a thin fitted top is a turn on!
:P Sunday, September 15, 2002 at 12:44:06 (PDT) [64.12.96.70]

AC Dropout,

you're right. Once virginity is lost it won't come back. It's a unique experience to be a virgin.

To all:

People should learn enjoy their lives as long as they remain virgins. Once you lost innocence you won't have the chance again to make certain experiences of the emotional/spiritual kind.
rare stuff Thursday, September 12, 2002 at 15:26:38 (PDT) [62.226.252.180]

I masturbate. Whenever I think of a woman it makes me more excited. Is that strange? I don't know any women that have fantasies about other women except for on television. I don't understand why I feel like this. I enjoy being with guys my age. I'm in my twenties. Sometimes I can't stop thinking about a woman. When I see them on tv and jogging at the beach. It makes me feel confused and unsure. A woman couldn't give me what a man does. A man can satisfy a woman, because it is only natural. Could a woman satisfy me even better? I gave a lesbian my telephone number the other day. She called and left me hers on my answering machine. I have been so curious up until now. But now I am afraid to call her or answer her calls. My boyfriend always talked of having fantasies, but always backed out of them. I am afraid to tell him about my feelings. He might not understand. Oh well. I am just telling my life since everyone else is doing it. I figure, hey I might as well tell my story. If anyone can give me some advice?
very anonymousl hardpinknipplez@yahoo.com Wednesday, September 11, 2002 at 15:28:10 (PDT) [64.12.96.70]

Hopefully, nobody has misunderstood my last comments. They were not meant to support people who do things for lust. My comments were just about social organization of relationships and security.

People, stay chaste.
rare stuff Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 18:34:10 (PDT) [62.158.89.198]

pussycat,

Born again virgin...okay I can respect that. Why not say your celibate for now?

We hadn't seen each for about 4 months and made love for the whole weekend.
AC Dropout Tuesday, September 10, 2002 at 12:11:56 (PDT) [24.90.98.143]

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