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POLL & COMMENTS
YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated
Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:08 PM
to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)
How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 |
4%
13-15 |
16%
16-18 |
36%
19-21 |
21%
Over 21 |
23%
Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse |
47%
Being masturbated |
19%
Masturbating my partner |
13%
Receiving oral sex |
12%
Giving oral sex |
9%
How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. |
52%
My partner pushed me into it. |
33%
I pushed my partner into it. |
11%
My first partner was a prostitute. |
4%
What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. |
35%
I wish I had waited until later. |
23%
I wish I had done it earlier. |
2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. |
23%
I have no regret. |
17%
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WHAT YOU SAY
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AM who knows is right. It does not matter about looks. Rapists are sick animals. They don't look at the women as being a person. They look at us like fresh meat, and they don't care completely about looks. Unless they are a serial rapist of course, they want all brunette, or all blonde etc. I hate these animals that do this! they suck!
who are rapists kidding?
Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 03:53:28 (PST)
[64.12.96.70]
upstate ny,
I know you don't wanna lose him forever.
You've a right to say NO.
And A gentleman should not pressure and force his lady to do something she is not ready.
SPRNZ
Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 01:19:38 (PST)
[210.195.54.74]
What??!!...educated wf,
Young WF comment was directed to me. Not you!!. I apreciated her comment, shows heart feelings and righteousness.
What's so kiddie about her comment?!
YOU'RE the ONE need to grow up. And don't called your self educated before you grow up.
SPRNZ
Wednesday, November 13, 2002 at 00:45:01 (PST)
[210.195.54.74]
upstate ny,
If your boyfriend truly, and I mean truly loves you, he would understand and RESPECT your choice. You should never have to feel bad about a decision like this. No matter what he says or does, hold your ground. If he were a real man he would respect your determination. Also know there are other ways around intercourse. Please remember this, there are far too many women who give themselves to a man, get pregnant, and left holding the bag. I hope everything works out for you.
girlygirl
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 17:32:30 (PST)
[24.120.19.14]
WF:
i guess u r missing the point...or u had serious trouble w/ reading..
Azn storm
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 15:00:04 (PST)
[61.11.245.8]
SPRNZ
okie. But I am getting one of those puppies and one for my girl too.
I will enjoy my encounter with the baddies. Unlike you I will really blow some brains out. I can play their game too.
Oh officer they tried to kill me blah blah blah. OR "what gun?" wtf you talking about officer? thats not my F%^%ing gun. Give me a damn lawyer.
WA HA HA HA HA.
If you are a good person then I die for you. If you a bad person then I am your angel of death. M*&^&^ F(*(*&(&er
I aint naive, you mess with my family or friends and you lose your right to live.
I might not kill them but make them a vegetable. he he he. Thats even worse.
Uh oh. God's not going to like what I just said. :(
SOG
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 12:17:12 (PST)
[128.193.4.98]
Not too sure of what the first topic was that started this discussion. But if it had to do with rape, I am glad that finally today, many psychologists are finally admitting what I - and many men - had known for years. In the past few decades, the increase in feminism and liberalism led a state where psychology experts were forced to claim that the crime of rape was one prompted by a male seeking power over the victim. The liberal and pro-feminist attitudes of the time helped to claim that rape had nothing to do with sexual urges but was rather centered around the idea of gaining power and dominance over a victim. I have known - and I think many men as well - for years that that way of thinking is a complete lie. Why can't people admit that men are potential rape animals. Women would be shocked at some of the most extreme ideas that men come up with (every man) in their life. Men are the ones who invented the Atomic bomb, the "rack", the Iron Maiden - not women. Men are the ones who come up these ideas of extremities. How many female serial killers have you ever heard of in history? Not many.
If we can understand that that aspect of craziness in men IS different from women - that is, men and women ARE truly different in many ways, then I think it only realistic to assume that men's sexual appetites and aggression levels may be different from women's as well. I can't understand why, for so many years, so much rape prevention planning was based on the idiotic premise that rape was not a crime motivated by lust and horniness, but rather one of power. Complete bull! You put two male animals together in a cell during mating season and one will rape the other (cats, dogs, rabbits, doesn't matter)- the dominance of the one doing the rape is implicit - so what - he is raping the other because he is super horny and there is simply other outlet for his horniness. Plain and simple.
Now that this country's "experts" are finally realizing this, maybe there can finally be some effective anti-rape initiatives that will be developed.
People Think!
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 10:03:43 (PST)
[151.198.161.30]
To cantonese flower,
Look at earlier posts. Then, you will see that you wrote,"The aim is NOT to mutilate, but to be symbolic. If you hate symbols of chastity you will be against circumcision." I cut and pasted this from your post.
js
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 09:23:41 (PST)
[63.199.245.125]
to upstate ny,
You wrote: "He told me that he wants to have sex with me. I tell him no and he seems to get so frustrated and angry. I wanted to wait until I am married. But I don't want to lose him forever."
If your boyfriend truly loves you, he will respect and accept your decision to wait until marriage. If he keeps persisting after you've discussed it, then leave him. It shows that he is not willing to take no for an answer. Who knows where this may lead? Maybe rape or adultery. He is not worth it.
js
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 09:16:56 (PST)
[63.199.245.125]
SOG, Young White Female,
Thanks.
Yes I was living in a bad neighborhood. WHAT!!!...You asked me learn to use a Sig sauer? that's good stuff huh?. But I don't wanna be Osm BL follower SOG. :D
" SHOW NO MERCY, GO FOR THE KILL." [SOG]
YEAH!!! \(^_^)/. That's why I got arrested and went to jail SOG. You see when the police came they didn't see the first part of the action what those Bastards did to me. The ONLY thing that they saw clearly, I was holding a BLOODY KNIFE and 2 of those Bartards dropped down on the ground seriously wounded.
7 yrs for rape, perhaps longer? Maybe, maybe not. Might be less than that.
Like Young White Female said," Prosecution for rapes are a joke-most offender get less than a year in jail, if any time at all."
I agree with her. I could say " The Law and Justice are just unfair."
Yup. I could imagine what's gonna happens if they are in jail. I experienced it my self SOG. The first 3 days, I became a bad girl, always fought with a gang that called themselves the leader of the prisoners. They always looked for problems/somethings that made my blood boiled. " Dont mess with me Maggot or you're dead!!?." ( Maggot, my nickname given in jail). I got grounded locked up in the tiny dark room with a bunch of rats. ;#. Then they grounded me became a good girl in the kitchen. WOW!! that was the BEST job offered in jail. :D Hehehe.. and I pride to say, "Hey I became a cook...man." :D Hahaha...
" Hey, Maggot! did you cook these? Not bad Maggot." :).
When I left, they missed my cookin' for sure. (^_~)
Out of jail made me become a stronger person inside out and SAHAP support group even be better person.
SPRNZ
Tuesday, November 12, 2002 at 01:38:51 (PST)
[210.195.54.68]
to all ignorant people:
Looks has nothing to do w/ rape mentality. A beautiful face doesn't have anything to do w/ it, too. May be it's the body....
AM who knows
Monday, November 11, 2002 at 17:26:53 (PST)
[61.11.245.8]
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1yr. He has been respectful and has not asked me to be intimate. Now its like hes getting bored with me or something. He told me that he wants to have sex with me. I tell him no and he seems to get so frustrated and angry. I wanted to wait until I am married. But I don't want to lose him forever.
upstate ny
Monday, November 11, 2002 at 11:50:56 (PST)
[64.12.96.70]
Ummm.. so called "educated" wf,
Was I talking to you? Was my comment directed to you? No. What the hell is YOUR problem? If you have a cogent point to make about my post then go ahead. Otherwise get lost.
SOG I agree, let's ignore these heartless girls that pick on rape victims.
young white female
Monday, November 11, 2002 at 11:15:17 (PST)
[207.183.117.60]
Educated wf
what's so kiddie about her comment? I liked it. So tell me from an "educated" stand point of why she is kiddie.
Shows she is pure in heart, sorry I cant say the same for many who are on this forum.
SOG
Monday, November 11, 2002 at 10:23:29 (PST)
[128.193.4.98]
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