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YOUR FIRST TIME
(Updated Tuesday, Apr 1, 2008, 05:10:07 PM to reflect the 100 most recent valid responses.)

How old were you when you had your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Under 13 | 4%
13-15 | 16%
16-18 | 36%
19-21 | 21%
Over 21 | 23%

Which one of the following best describes your first true sexual experience beyond petting?
Full intercourse | 47%
Being masturbated | 19%
Masturbating my partner | 13%
Receiving oral sex | 12%
Giving oral sex | 9%

How did your first sexual experience come about?
We both wanted it. | 52%
My partner pushed me into it. | 33%
I pushed my partner into it. | 11%
My first partner was a prostitute. | 4%

What's your biggest regret about your first sexual experience?
I wish it had been with a different partner. | 35%
I wish I had waited until later. | 23%
I wish I had done it earlier. | 2%
I wish it had been more enjoyable. | 23%
I have no regret. | 17%


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WHAT YOU SAY

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pissed off female,

You should feel ashamed of yourself. Drug use and sexual promiscuity are not good mix to be involved. You need to think of the priority in your life. Do you want to be wild on the edge for the rest of your life? Or live a safe healthfully lifestyles? You made yourself sound very cheap and shame. If your boyfriend does not want to be sex crazed then you need to leave him alone.
cantonese flower    Monday, December 02, 2002 at 09:38:20 (PST)    [152.163.188.66]
Editors: God bless you people, thank you for being understanding and allowing me to post off topic. Thank you so much.

Also thank all who prayed for Lauren.
It is a miracle, a miracle. If you prayed for her and want a detailed report just put up your E-mail. Thank you once again. God bless you richly for your kindness.
SOG    Wednesday, November 27, 2002 at 14:40:13 (PST)    [128.193.4.98]
SPRNZ,

Your dad a missionary? Haha. Too bad he has a daugther like you. Ever locked up in jail, BAD daugther!!. You like to fight, kicked ass. And don't tell me you're untouched and don't have boy friend either. BAD girl is always a BAD girl.
Unbelievable    Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 06:33:50 (PST)    [210.195.54.246]
I visited my boyfriend. We popped "E" and danced all night long until the sun came up. Then we had sex for almost 2 days straight, like 12 times. No joke. This is straight up the truth. We could not stop having sex. It was to the point that he was complaining later on that he was too tired and didn't want to do it anymore. Since then I have been asking him if I can come and visit him again in a couple of weeks and he won't answer me. Its like he's turned off because we had too much sex or something. I don't think that's fair though. He was the one who kept asking me for it. He was practically begging me for it! And now its like he doesn't want me to visit him because he cannot handle the sex. Hes not even that old. Hes like 37. So whats his problem? If he can't keep up with me sexually then he should be honest so that I can find someone who can! And move on! Does anyone have any suggestions? Should I just tell him "Look, if you can't keep up you need to get the hell away?" What do you guys think?
pissed off female    Tuesday, November 26, 2002 at 03:27:15 (PST)    [152.163.188.66]
Men want a woman who is experienced enough to please him. Who wants a woman that is always so innocent and always so coy? Men want fire and spice. I am not saying an experienced woman as in, a loose woman whose slept around and gotten diseases or something. I am speaking of a woman who has in depth sexual knowlege and maybe a 'tad' bit of experience in how to use it(not a slut or prostitute) Men want someone who can make their hair stand on end, and their cheeks turn bright red when they hear the sound of their voice. Don't get me wrong...virgins are cool. They should hold their ground and wait for that someone special, yes. And then again, Men want HOT FIRE in their bedroom. Men don't always want to take control. They want a woman who can make them scream for more and more. Again, this sort of fire does not condone being a complete loose slutty woman. I am saying a woman who has this knowledge. How do I know this? Because I am a woman who has this knowledge. When I was an innocent little virgin, it was special when I waited for my husband. After my divorce I did not date for 3 years. My next relationship, I realized the art of lovemaking pleasure can be clean and yet have that fire to it.
East Timor girl    Friday, November 22, 2002 at 10:08:13 (PST)    [152.163.188.66]
Editors
please let me post this time, it is life or death situation. Please have compassion on this poor girl. Thank you and God bless your kindness.

Lauren was repeadtly gang raped by her step father and his friend. She is almost ready to die now. She has bacterium infection in her lung and might die.
Her dad even under house arrest got to visit her today and touch her. Oooo. Because he is very rich and can hire multi million dollar lawyers he can by pass some of the laws. He only got to spend 5 min with her before God flew her out of there to another hospital. Via helicoptor. so he cant touch her anymore, he only has 1 hour twice a week to leave the house and the new hospital is 1 hour away so he cannot get there.

Only God can help her now. Please pray for her have mercy on her please. Pray that God will heal her completely.

Also please pray that she will get justice, she been through too much, the day her mom got killed, her step father started to rape her, 2-3 times a day for over 5 months, he even tried to kill her once, and cracked her skull, broke many of her bones, I cant go on, it breaks my heart.

Top it all off now he is getting his team of 6 lawyers to try to get off on a technicality. Oh we are tied because we are good people. Help us pray for this girl, she is our sister.

Please I am begging you to help her, SRNZ, please have your father pray for her and get chain prayers happening, tell it to everyone and anyone who is your friend and willing to pray for her. Please. I feel so horriable for her. I can do nothing. Her life and soul is in God's hand now.
SOG gaonasdaq@hotmail.com    Thursday, November 21, 2002 at 18:44:34 (PST)    [216.239.163.210]
SOG:

Sorry...I don't know why I thought you were still in High School...
:)
Must have been because of the content and manner in which you spoke.

That's okay...you are still nice...

How old are you Sog...? Just Curious...
Xi Shi...    Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 15:45:29 (PST)    [206.106.120.18]
Just got news, Lauren is in deep trouble

she is being fed via a tube and her lungs are infected. Her organs are starting to fail.

I normally dont do this, but please any prayer you can get will be greatly appreciated. YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
SOG    Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 09:55:30 (PST)    [128.193.4.98]
SOG,

What happened to that girl?
My dad is a missionary, and we have Bible Study group. Sure we'll pray for her.
Our prayer is our hope. If we believe a miracle would happen.

Best wishes
SPRNZ    Wednesday, November 20, 2002 at 07:30:12 (PST)    [210.195.54.60]
SOG,

"BTW, are you kick ass in prison? HOO- YAH."

Hey, what do you think?! :)
They kicked me once, I kicked them twice. :D
SPRNZ    Monday, November 18, 2002 at 11:09:49 (PST)    [210.195.54.21]
Xi Shi

Nope I am definately out of High school.

Yeah I am a nice person to GOOD PEOPLE ONLY.

I have a few friends urr who had been "hurt" so I know what it is like. Good news though, detectives caught those SOBs and locked them up, we have great evidence too.

This last case I just went over, oh man, its disturbing, very very disturbing. I couldent eat much for a while, and am losing weight as a result. Just lost appetite, bothered me a whole bunch.

I was going to plan a "DA" mission but, someone talked me out of it. Cause being a christian, I still have to obey the rules. Besides those guys in jail already, it wont be a easy mission to pull off. However.... nothing is impossiable.

Anyways I dont think i'll be able to do it, they are getting heavy heavy sentences for what they did. Thank God for that.

This girl, she is only 59.5 pds. So if I would appreciate any prayers you can give her. I am not so sure she will survive. But the doc said she will so...please pray for her. Thanks.
SOG    Monday, November 18, 2002 at 10:11:17 (PST)    [128.193.4.98]
SOG(:

"I am waiting too. I want to make it real special. It will be too."

"TO THE VIRGINS, TO MAKE MUCH OF TIME"

"Gather ye rosebuds while ye may,
Old Time is still a-fying;
And this same flower that smiles today,
Tomorrow will be dying.

The glorious lamp of heaven, the sun,
The higher he's a-getting,
The sooner will his race be run,
And nearer he's to setting.
*(It would be she in your case..SOG)*

That age is best which is the first,
When youth and blood are warmer;
But being spent, the worse, and worst
Time still succeed the former.

Then be not coy, but use your time;
And while ye may, go marry;
For having lost but once your prime,
You many forever tarry."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

P.S-- So...are you still in High School..?
Just curious...
You seem like a nice person/human being.
Xi Shi...    Sunday, November 17, 2002 at 12:04:39 (PST)    [65.128.140.208]

[Let's not forget to credit the poet Robert Herrick (1591-1674). --Ed]
SOG,

Your questions out of touch from this forum. But lucky we've very nice editor. Thanks editor.

Yes. Multi lingual. I guess that's the advantage of having mixed hapa family. And lived, moved here and there, traveled to half part of the world.

TKD is part of life and my exercise routine. But I don't think I wanna be TKD sensei forever. I even had a chance to be model and actress few years back. Anyway looking for another job, you know isn't that easy. The worse thing I had, 10 days in jail screwed my life, black listed my name. No company wanna hire me. :(

Then when I moved to Mich, US. @ 3 months ago, Once again hired as TKD sensei. Even though just part time, I really apreciated it. Now I'm studying to be physical therapist. Hope this to be my profession, if there any hospital or company hire/accept me.

Okidoki. Man... I talk to much. :)
SPRNZ    Friday, November 15, 2002 at 01:25:54 (PST)    [210.195.54.77]
yo[ asian woman becuz you envy whoever is not like you!!! I never said I got raped becuz I wasn`t asian! ]

alejandra:
as a female,
I'm very sorry about what had happened to you and I wish you would get over it soon...

AThe least thing I want is to hurt a rape victim but i can't hold back to add my 2 cents that being a rape victim doesn't mean that you have the right to insult the race of other people. It may be hard for you cos I know you're very sad and angry, but you're not a little kid so I hope you can try to hold back the anger and talk abt asian girls in a calmer way. I have nothing agianst you nor am i jealous of you . if you're beautiful that's a gift. But no one here EVER said you got raped cos you are not asian so don't put words into people's mouth be cause it only makes things worse and earcebate the tension already elevated here.

You can show that you are offended, serioly offended but at least show some class. Every tension and fight, can be resolved if people act in a civilized way, no matter how offended they are.Keep the barbarity out of the forum.

From an asian girl, w/ best wishes.
asn angel    Thursday, November 14, 2002 at 19:50:27 (PST)    [61.11.245.8]
Truthfully

yes you should wait

I am waiting too. I want to make it real special. It will be too.

good girl.
SOG    Thursday, November 14, 2002 at 15:11:52 (PST)    [128.193.169.69]
SPRNZ

ohh poor girl. you should learn US law, You dont have to tell them anything. Miranda rights, you have the right to remain silent, and the 5th amendment freedom to not testify against yourself. So they can't do anything. Just say they tried to rape me, I defended myself. Of course if you are in the right then talk but be careful better to have a lawyer there.

Also get a concealed weapons liscence, good ole constitutional right to bear arms. You may carry weapons on you.

To kill a person is too easy just too easy. To get away with it is easy as well. Ultimately God will take care of criminals but to get away from human officers is just too easy. I wont reveal any of those tactics but if you think about it anyone can come up with impossiable to trace ways of killing someone.

BTW did you kick ass in prision? HOO-YAH
SOG    Thursday, November 14, 2002 at 11:18:23 (PST)    [128.193.4.98]

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